I am in love with the most beautiful women i,ve ever seen ! We are really good friends and our relationship has become much more progressed(sex etc...) I know i love her but i,m not sure if she really loves me !When i tell her She says she does too but i,m not convinced. What do i do
2006-11-19 17:02:04 · 11 answers · asked by kwatt40000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Whatever you do don't be pushy or clingy! we hate that and you are killing the thrill of the chase. Dont tell her you love her for awhile and see if she tells you. Most girls won't freely tell you they love you so if she's telling you then what makes you think she doesn't. I believe you might be so caught up in her that you are in some what of a panic. Just relax, have fun and you will see that she feels the same. You are just experiencing the high of being in love!
2006-11-19 17:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Emmi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK so heres the deal, you don't want to be telling her you love her just yet, it takes the thrill of wondering away from her, give her attention but not too much! don't be clingy, if she likes you as much as you like her then she'll show signs but act cool and be relaxed! and if you were friends before this then it will be hard for the her to show you a sign that you wont shrug off as just her being herself. i think you just need to have a very mature talk and explain to her your feelings about her, if you still think from her body language that the feelings aren't mutual then id break it off, only because the more you say you love her the more she'll feel bad breaking up with you .and the more you become attached
2006-11-20 01:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia_xOxO! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes in some many different ways that is always a surprise,it is easy to worry about things as is he/she feeling the same way? is this going to last?
For my experience I can tell you the best thing is enjoy yourself and relax also as in other answers I agree that you should let her express herself in her own time , don't push, and things will work out fine .Not everyone can express his/her feelings as openly as they will like.
Have patience and faith if she is with you is because she cares for you
2006-11-20 08:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by blueflosky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay calm. Do not pressure her. Women do not like clingy men. To show your love do some romantic stuff when she lest expects it. I suggest you send her favourite flowers, Order her favourite snack and have it delivered in your absence. Do a candlelit dinner and pay. Except you are a very good cook. Just don't be clingy.
2006-11-20 05:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by gutsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words, if by her actions you feel she doesn't love you,then you have answered your own question.
Doe's she put you in front of everything and everyone to see you?
However, you don't say how long you have been intimate friends. If you push her to fast, you may spoil any chance of her falling in love with you if she isn't already. Don't smother her,give her the space she asks for, and what will be will be.
Good luck anyway.
2006-11-20 01:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by animalwatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her some where you can talk go to the park and sit her down ask her to marry you if she said yes then you know that she really loves you if she said no then you know that you need to move on with life that the best thing you can do
2006-11-23 10:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by jenny cooper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
It is a good friendship from her angle. It is one sided love from your side. Pl. maintain the friendship and enjoy the it.
Enjoy Life
2006-11-20 01:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know why you think she dont love you, could be that shes so pretty its hard to belive she would love you! sort out your insecurities before they give birth to a break up!
2006-11-20 02:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emmi, hit this one right on the head. I agree.
2006-11-20 01:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by jay_p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you just being relax.......all girls always like that..........just being relax and dont to tension......................i wish you all the best and i wish to god that your loving girls will also loving you too......bye........if you want to chat with me,you can send the email to me(wany_meer@yahoo.co.uk)
2006-11-20 01:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by wany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋