Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

2006-11-14 04:53:03 · 29 answers · asked by lalalalala 1 in Friends

2006-11-14 04:52:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So here's the thing..
My parents are moving to Arizona after I graduate from High School. Yes, i'll be 18. But the thing is, they want me to be with them forever. They want me to move to arizona with them, and just because they'll be there, they want me to attend Arizona state/ Phoenix University. They don't understand that not EVERY college is for everything. Besides, I do not want to move there at ALL..I live in MIchigan currently, and I love it here. I have a college plan and everything. I have my post grad plans figured out. But still, they are almost saying they are going to MAKE ME go with them...but I need to figure some of my life out on my own, I dont want to ALWAYS have them there, hand feeding everything to me. I have so much going for me here, and if I move, i'll lose just about all of it. I really need help with this.There isn't anything for me there, except A college I have no interest in, & my own parents dreams being crammed down my throat. I <3 Them its jus not 4 me.

2006-11-14 04:52:39 · 13 answers · asked by luvly_chick18 1 in Family

i have no friends andi feel very isolated i am very shy so meeting new people scares me sometimes and it takes me a long time to open up to anybody and when i mean open up even say a few things. any ideas

2006-11-14 04:52:37 · 3 answers · asked by mirpat457 2 in Friends

I work at a library and I am "falling for" a security guy who is 10 years older than me. I'm 19, he's 29...but looks YOUNGER!!!

2006-11-14 04:52:21 · 11 answers · asked by sid3000 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy who i think likes me but i am not sure. he told me he likes me but he is hard to understand. he is always mad or jealous at me for something and we are not even dating and i just dont understand. he is always telling my friends this and that and that i am not talking to him like i used to or that i am being a *****. well my dad just went to jail and i am not in the best of mood with anyone and i dont know what to do

2006-11-14 04:50:48 · 10 answers · asked by care_bear_sugar_princess_hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I just started talking to this guy I met at work. He seems to be really nice but at the same time he gets mad if some guy talks to me and I don't walk away. Even though I wouldn't give them the time of day. i'm a good girl and wouldn't put myself out there like that. There is also my baby's father he is actually locked up now. He is facing attempted murder charges. I know your thinking duh the first one but my baby's father was my first and it was also self defense. He has always been in trouble with stuff all his life. The other guy has three boy with two baby mammas. He works and takes care of his kids. I just keep thinking what if I choose to try this with this new guy and then turn around and get hurt like always. Then I will just be right back where I always end up. With David (daddy) I know he's always gonna be around.

2006-11-14 04:50:40 · 9 answers · asked by Lulu 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is especially thorny if he cannot contact them, or if it would be inappropriate to do so.

2006-11-14 04:50:08 · 13 answers · asked by Dean 2 in Singles & Dating

We are not married yet and have only been living together for about a month but, have been dating for two years. I love the kid but, i still feel uneasy having him call me "dad" since i have no kids of my own. My girlfreind who is great has no problem with it and says that its my issue. The kids real father keeps him every other weekend but, rarely takes more of an active role that that. What do i do?!?!

2006-11-14 04:49:40 · 36 answers · asked by Jake c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recommended Library, Coffee places, work and church when it comes to meeting new people. Any ideas?

2006-11-14 04:49:00 · 4 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

headboard to the wall but do you think it may be better if i glue it?

2006-11-14 04:48:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 32 and my girlfriend is 30, we have been dating for 1 month already and we really love each other and feel very happy together. Now, considering we are not teenagers anymore, you think that a 3 months period is too soon to get engaged to my other half? I am afraid she could get freaked out when I propose, but also believe if she loves me as much as she says she does, she will be more really happy to get engaged to me.

Any help will be really appreciated.

2006-11-14 04:48:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My middle aunt who is 50 is planning on earning her PHD. in healthcare management. She started going back to school when she was 42. However, her husband makes fun of her about furthering her education he says she is too d@mn old to continue her education and thats it a waste of time. He also said he is not interested in hearing about her education either.

2006-11-14 04:47:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work in a small office, really small - there's less than 10 of us. There's a "new guy", he's been here a few months now and I really like him. He's just an amazing person. Anyways, he's the brother-in-law of one of my other coworkers who I'm pretty good friends with. I just don't know what to do because it's becoming obvious that we like each other. We have so much in common & at the same time a lot we can learn from one another. I've always had a pretty strict rule about not dating coworkers, but I'm finding it difficult to just be friends with this guy.

Since it's such a small office you really can't talk to anyone without everyone hearing, so it's hard for us to really have any kind of privacy and talk more openly here. He's a bit older than me, about 7 years. I just don't know what to do at this point, and none of my friends have really been in this position.

2006-11-14 04:47:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a firm believer in the whole there is someone out there for everyone. I have been in love and had my heart broken and lost all hope and now two years later I’m regaining that hope again….bla bla bla. Anyways, maybe have even met someone I could possibly see myself with. But do you really think it happens when you least expect it…meeting someone?? Falling in love?? Everyone tells me to stop looking and it will come. It’s so hard for me to think that’s how it happens because if you’re not looking how can you see when it’s there. I go about my life and I stay busy, but I don’t want to stop looking, but my friends are telling me I need to stop, and someone great will come along when I least expect it…LOL. What do you think?????

2006-11-14 04:47:30 · 16 answers · asked by ANB 2 in Singles & Dating

If you were interested in someone. They ended up having cancer or they are in the process of or have already had it. But, a chance of it coming back is slim to positive. Would you still go out with them?

2006-11-14 04:47:27 · 8 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I usually think about him all the time whether i'm at work or doing something else. It isn't letting me enjoy my life.

People tell me to block him from online and erase his number and i've done all that, but it doesn't work. i'e even gotten rid of things he's given me and things i've written for him. no more pictures. but i still have issues.

what can i do? the psychologist just says the same things...

2006-11-14 04:47:13 · 9 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

In a long time relationship(marriage), apart from sex, what other factors are important to keep the relation going as strong as it was since the first or two years of meeting, a love that is still burning for each other each n every day?

2006-11-14 04:46:27 · 16 answers · asked by Worried guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend cheated and he doesn't think i know he did... he is acting like nothing happen..the girl call me on my cell and told me she been with him now for 6 months..me and him been together for 7 years...oh ya the girl and i met.. she showed me a sex tape that they made together... what should i do.... what's a good way to bust his bubble...

2006-11-14 04:46:14 · 26 answers · asked by laydofluv25 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 1 month now. Usually I wait for the guy to say it first, but the problem is that I travel a whole lot during the week and I almost got into an accident last week. That made me realize that if something does happen to me, he wouldnt know how i really felt about him. So should I tell him that I love him, or should I wait? I dont think that he loves me just yet...eventhough he tells me that I make him extremely happy and he cares about me alot. I really dont wanna make things weird. What should I do?

2006-11-14 04:45:18 · 22 answers · asked by Nina_678 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like older guys but I don't know how to act or what to say some help please?

2006-11-14 04:45:15 · 13 answers · asked by Babygurl Alex!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I was going to get engaged just after Christmas on the 6th of January we are broke too which doesnt help will it be a big disapointment over the christmas not to get engaged for her just to wait a few days more we could wait another year but i dont want to

2006-11-14 04:44:27 · 50 answers · asked by The SQuire 1 in Weddings

these days for guys to hit girls? I mean, I am seeing it more and more! Almost every girl I know.... thier boyfriend hits them, and I'm like: "what the hell man?" I thought that most guys were raised that hitting girls is wrong. Whats up with that?

2006-11-14 04:44:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Most guys i no do!!But do you??lol

2006-11-14 04:43:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started dating a girl over 3 months ago. We get along great and hit on all levels. She however has a male friend who was an ex. I was fine with them hanging out until I called and she had a tough time talking and saying she loved me as we were hanging up (which she always does). I asked her about it and she said that "he wouldn't understand" and she didn't want to explain it to him. As time went on, it seemed like she was online, but not answering my messages early in the morning (5am-ish). When I asked, she said it was "her routine" to check news, etc, but that was it. When it still lingered, I happened to check her phone call log and found her talking to him early and on her commute. (even though she talked to me and said I was her first thought). So I asked her if she talked to him and she said no. When i confronted it with the call log, she admitted but said she forgot. After further discussion after I left because I was hurt, she admitted talking to him in the morning

2006-11-14 04:43:08 · 20 answers · asked by blueiiz2003 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, well i have this friend and she likes my friend davied, but he dont want to be with her hes want to be with me, him and i are just firends we have been friends for a really long time hes like my brother what do i do. I mean i think i'm falling for him but i have mixed fellings for him and i cant tell my friend she'll be really upset, and i don't want to hurt her she's my friend, i love my girl, and i dont want her to get hurt please tell me what i should do?

2006-11-14 04:43:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have got a greeting card n some chocolates for my birthday from my friend (she is also my bro's gf).. I am going to email saying thanks n say the chocolates were great.. but I dont know what else to say.. I should write the mail atleast 4 or 5 lines long right? please help guys. thank you!

2006-11-14 04:42:55 · 5 answers · asked by Em 2 in Friends

garage should I just leave it outside when work on it ...or shall we persist in putting his vehicle away more carefully...?

2006-11-14 04:42:35 · 7 answers · asked by JoyDivision 3 in Singles & Dating

I love a girl who happens to like a friend of mine, although she hasn't said whether she wants to go out with him there is a bond there, although she also likes me, but as a friend, and less then she likes him. please help, i want to go out with her badly but how can i get myslef in there?

2006-11-14 04:42:07 · 8 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating

BE HONEST! Where does it rate on your list of priorities?

2006-11-14 04:42:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating