Hi, I just started talking to this guy I met at work. He seems to be really nice but at the same time he gets mad if some guy talks to me and I don't walk away. Even though I wouldn't give them the time of day. i'm a good girl and wouldn't put myself out there like that. There is also my baby's father he is actually locked up now. He is facing attempted murder charges. I know your thinking duh the first one but my baby's father was my first and it was also self defense. He has always been in trouble with stuff all his life. The other guy has three boy with two baby mammas. He works and takes care of his kids. I just keep thinking what if I choose to try this with this new guy and then turn around and get hurt like always. Then I will just be right back where I always end up. With David (daddy) I know he's always gonna be around.
2006-11-14 04:50:40 · 9 answers · asked by Lulu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm. The guy you're now interested in has three sons with two different women....(is his name Kevin Federline?). Even though he works and takes care of his kids, which is very commendable these days! -- I think I'd pass on this one. Take a clue now from his behavior in how he reacts when another guy just TALKS to you (and you don't walk away; by the way, why should you walk away from a conversation?). If this "new" guy is already trying to control stuff as innocent and everyday as that, heaven only knows how he may act when the two of you are more involved!
Your baby's father will always be your baby's father; he may not always be the man in your life -- even if he doesn't end up doing time. But new guy just spells and smells of TROUBLE to me.
There are a lot of very nice men out there. Hold out for a good one!
Good luck!
2006-11-14 05:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither. the new guys sounds like a control freak,if you cant talk to guys now imagine what it would be like if you were with him. you might end up with no friends locked in the house raising babies for the rest of your life. you know david is always going to be around because you have a baby with him. that doesnt mean you will always have a relationship.
take some time and be with yourself!!!!! you dont need a man to validate you. raise your child!!
2006-11-14 12:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by kalahw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well David (Daddy) might not be around if he gets convicted of attempted murder. That is NO good. As for this other guy, he kinda sounds like a jerk since you say he can't see you talking to anyone without getting mad/jealous. I call that obsessive/possessive, also not good. Plus he already has two baby mommas... sounds like liek drama to me. NEVER settle for less and GOOD LUCK GIRL :)
2006-11-14 13:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm thinking neither of them. I know you have the bond having a baby with this man but he's a bad guy and there are a lot of single mothers out there who meet good men that will treat them and their child good. I'm a single mother love it! The second guy is a control freak which would eventually turn violent it's one of those super jealousy things he posses lose them both and find a good man for a good woman like yourself.
2006-11-14 12:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even consider leaving David? What's so wrong with him? You didn't say.
Guy at work is possesive, controlling, and can't take care of you because he's too busy paying for kids. He's known as a sperm donor. Nothing more. He's no good for any kind of relationship. You will be more unhappy than you can imagine.
2006-11-14 13:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u need to move on an find a good man these dudes that u have here arent worth it honey.....
2006-11-14 12:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by rockangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above...
2006-11-14 12:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by Bear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you seem to know your way around guys...
2006-11-14 12:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by pumpkin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dummy... neither one .. can't you set your standards a little higher , then men who have sex with no condom...
2006-11-14 12:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by lisa h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋