Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

i have been with young females since i'm at that age but recently was with a mature female and loved it, is there any reason a guy my age would like a female that's about 10 years older than me? i'm 26

2006-11-14 05:33:31 · 11 answers · asked by transplants80 1 in Singles & Dating

We had a confrontation and he said he was going to physically grab me. I said no you won't then he grabbed my arms and hurled me down the hall way. I did get hurt and sustained some pretty bad bruising on my arms and torso from the fall. He snapped out of his fury and immediately apologized and said he was sorry and could not believe that he did what he did. He said he has never done that to a woman, to which I said why would you do this to me then? I am worried that this will happen again, but he said that it won't and that he is desperately sorry and wants a chance to prove himself. I am aware that domestic violence usually starts out with this type of behavior and I am afraid it will continue even though he has never been violent with me before. He said he wants to go to counseling and wants to change his attitude. Do I believe him? Are people capable of never doing something like that again? I usually feel safe with him, but this has put a barrier in my ability to trust.

2006-11-14 05:33:20 · 19 answers · asked by prettybird 2 in Singles & Dating

for the past few months me and my best friend have been intimate and he has a girlfriend but that didnt stop us now I've fallen in love and dont know if i should tell him please help me

2006-11-14 05:32:51 · 8 answers · asked by SHYGURL 1 in Singles & Dating

I spend as mush time with my kids as is possible but I am in work four days out of seven the rest of the time my husband is at home. I have five kids so it is tough to juggle everything but without my working my children wouldn't have half the life the live.
My husband is very happy with the arrangement as he can work at home and only needs to do so two days a week, however a few of my girlfriends think I should be the one to give up my career.
They think my husband is secretly unhappy with the situation and say he feels belittled. We have talked about it in the past and he says he is happy but is this because he is just putting me first?

2006-11-14 05:32:11 · 15 answers · asked by strictmom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents want me to be a lawyer or a doctor....but i want to be a dancer....that is wat i know i will be good at.

2006-11-14 05:32:06 · 18 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Cause i and 6 ft. and i can't find a guy that is taller than me and is supper cute!!!

2006-11-14 05:31:52 · 9 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Singles & Dating

do i believe him? he usually feels guilty about everything and a good guy and hes like if u dont stop not trusting me our relationship wont last because i did not cheat on u! so i dropped it cuz in my heart i felt he could not do this to me

any thoughts on this

2006-11-14 05:31:17 · 20 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok... so I am so sick and tired of "almost relationships". I have had so many of them and I am so sick of it. I work at a baptist church as often as I possibly can, I'm in a show choir, and I go to highschool. I have been "in love" 2 times, and both times they fell apart. The sad part is that the one guy that I dated for 1.5 yrs and even got engaged to... I never even liked him. Not even close. I don't know why I even said yes to the first date. I know this sounds mean, but he was really verbally abusive to me even before we started dating. It was rediculous. I want a guy to like me that I like both their physical appearance and their heart. The 2 people that I fell in love with were gorgeous on the inside and out, funny, and wanted to grow to be the men God wanted them to be, they both kissed me and told me how lucky they are to have me... but they both ended up moving or completely forgot about me. Lately, I've had absolutely no luck in getting any guy to look my way. Please help!!!

2006-11-14 05:31:04 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah 3 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is amazing. The greatest guy I've ever met. He does nothing but good for me and to me. He would never hurt me (by leaving me alone, going out all the time, not coming home, cheating, lying, etc). Recently, we've hit some bumps...I've been with 6 men (before him) and before me he has only been with 2 girls. He's very old fashioned and pridefull and is very hurt when he thinks about this. He's told me he thinks less of me when he thinks about our numbers, and the people I've slept with.
I've made it a point to be 100% honest with him about anything he's ever wanted to know. So, when he asks about my ex's, and/or sexual activity I tell him what he wants to know. Lately I've been avoiding the questions because 95% of the time we will get into a huge fight over something I tell him. I can't be too detailed, but two of my friends are dating two of my ex's, so my boyfriend hears about them a lot, which drives him crazy. I am at a complete loss here and it's getting worse.

2006-11-14 05:30:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well me and this guy named Noah have been talking Since my 8th grade year....i am now a sophmore..(I know its not to long but hey im in high school) We have been on and off the whole time.ok, well this past summer we were together but we kept breaking up b/c he couldnt get over his x (his first love) So out of the blue i call him the other day...and he tells me he has been waiting for me to call..and he told me that he talked to his x and i said i guess that puts me in a shitty position.and he said no he realized that he is over her..So then he goes on to tell me how he misses me and He wants to tell me he loves me but doesnt want to jump the gun.Ok since then we have had our hi's & goodbye's but not a decent conversation. So, I check his myspace yesterday and he is sending emails to some chick sayin the he likes her but hes to stupid to tell her to her face...he wants to take her out but is to stupid to ask her...he wants to date her but hes to stupid to do it.So what do i do?

2006-11-14 05:30:51 · 11 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

there's this girl at school i like. we been talking for some time now. but to day i said wuzup and she looked at me like i,am dum. should i ask her about that. or should i ack like it didn't happen?

2006-11-14 05:30:27 · 4 answers · asked by lj l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well my brother recently broke up with his girlfriend well her cousin lives next door to us and he used to talk about her and she did the same thing now their all close and stuff.also their going to a cabin this weekend in mount saint helen.

2006-11-14 05:30:03 · 11 answers · asked by snookie jr 1 in Friends

i cant seem to meet any decent men i'm a media designer pretty high pay job i am about 5'3-5'4 longish brown hair blue eyes Acup tiny waist and smallish bum..I take care of myself and my body...but i always end up with the jerk

2006-11-14 05:29:53 · 18 answers · asked by Taylor 3 in Singles & Dating

im planning to have a wedding at the end of march..but i want a rough idea on how much it would cost. i already go the cake costs, dress, rental fee for place..bout it..and i just need to know about other little details...any help? anyone have recent weddings in orange county, ca?

2006-11-14 05:29:40 · 17 answers · asked by stefanie 2 in Weddings

son and fiance lost everything in fire need clothes money place to stay she is sick has cervical cancer need help

2006-11-14 05:29:20 · 2 answers · asked by mmom 1 in Weddings

there's this girl at school i like. we been talking for some time now. but to day i said wuzup and she looked at me like i,am dum. should i ask her about that. or should i ack like it didn't happen?

2006-11-14 05:29:09 · 13 answers · asked by lj l 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy (like that is an original opener...) whom I have known for the last six months. During the last month, he started flirting with me, and now I with him. I like him. I had a conversation with him once and I almost got to the point of asking what his religion was, but it didn't seem to be good time. Everytime I am around him, it doesn't seem like a good time. We've never dated, but we may. To me, it is very important that the guy (any guy that I consider to go out with) be of my same religion. So, how can I get around to asking a question like that?

2006-11-14 05:28:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dudes united in Banging S l u t s. i just wouldnt tell student government what delta beta sigma stood for. this a good idea?

2006-11-14 05:28:28 · 4 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Friends

2006-11-14 05:28:06 · 21 answers · asked by Blue-Eyed Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

people at the same time? OK I'm not sure if they're people, but my affections are divided between the What Should I Do Retard and the Flying Spaghetti Monster. I think I might be carrying one of their offspring. What should I do?

2006-11-14 05:26:58 · 5 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 05:26:43 · 14 answers · asked by LEO 1 in Singles & Dating

okay. so my boyfriend and i have been talking about marriage for a while now and have both agreed to wait until we graduate. my boyfriend found out he can graduate a semester early but i will still be in school until may. ( we still agreed to wait until i finished school to get engaged) he knows that i really want to get engaged asap and i dont want to wait until school is over but im willing to wait for when he is ready. anyways, a few days a ago we got into a huge fight because i lied to him about my grades and how much money i owed my credit card. during the fight the mentioned that he was going to propose in January but now that he cant trust me its not gonna happen. after the fight we talked things over and he said that he's still going to propose but not until he can trust me again. do you think he will still propose in jan? or did i screw up my chances of ever being married to him?

2006-11-14 05:25:41 · 25 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so i get totally horny now. we have a couple of exchange students staying with us, there bedroom is next door to ours. so i wont to do it even more then normal but my bf is too worried about them hearing and it being embarrasing.

how can i get him to overcome these fears and get into it?

2006-11-14 05:25:24 · 17 answers · asked by jess 2 in Singles & Dating

I like a woman, although she is married she likes me too. We know each other since long but only some days ago we had sex first time. Now she is not talking to me properly and avoiding me. I asked her why. she says she feels guilty for cheating on her husband. She asked me what should I call this relationship and I said just call it a close friendship. she likes me too and can't go away from me easily, but feels in a tangle right now. I don't want to let her slip, what should I do to keep her friendship + intimacy?

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2006-11-14 05:25:07 · 11 answers · asked by DTA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i feel so self conscience of what guys might think of me. i havent been at a mixed school for ages but have just started sixth form at this boys school but its mixed sixth hence forth me being in it. i generally find it hard to speak to guys, how can i be confident without feeling im being wierd?plus i just need help for being confident , please help!!

2006-11-14 05:24:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The insistent touching of her breasts and the warm fingers kneading them were causing her pussy to drool uncontrollably, and her clit to stiffen in anticipation of sexual stimulation! Just as she was getting used to having the wonderful hands on her chest, they were gone!!! She opened her eyes to protest their removal and saw Chris with an enormous erection!! Her vagina ached with desire, and only a few feet away stood Chris’s incredible penis. All sense of her values were now being replaced by the animalistic urge to have that penis in her vagina!!! At this moment in time, all Tarisa could think about was being filled and taken by that penis!!! She reached her arms out in open invitation………………………

What do u think?

2006-11-14 05:23:48 · 3 answers · asked by Cc 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 05:23:35 · 30 answers · asked by lalalalala 1 in Singles & Dating

hai all....wat wud be the best gift one can give to their husband/wife on their first nightt....i m talking about materialistic ones.....i know its quite obvious to give one's own self...apart from that please suggest me what one can gift to a male and female partner respectively......thank you...

2006-11-14 05:23:34 · 15 answers · asked by blue 2 in Weddings

farted in front of your significant other by accident???

2006-11-14 05:23:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I won't get into the details of how/why/where....all I want to know is this - how do I get it to stop hurting?

I need words of wisdom, advice, anything you got....even if it's just to say something to cheer me up.

2006-11-14 05:22:26 · 17 answers · asked by Joanne 3 in Singles & Dating