Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

i need some advice

2006-11-14 05:51:18 · 13 answers · asked by BiANCA 2 in Friends

Has anybody ever swept you away with just a poem? Or do you think it's just a line?

2006-11-14 05:51:01 · 5 answers · asked by Yay for Summer 3 in Singles & Dating

I just emailed a guy whom I have known for a while, no dating, just some friendly flirting. All of a sudden I had the guts to go ahead and email 'hi'. Now I feel sick... butterflies. I'm suddenly embarrased and I'm blushing at the computer screen. I'm going to see him tomorrow, I don't know if he'll even have read his emails by then, and if he does... oh gosh! I'm so scared I'll just be blushing all over just thinking about it. AHHHHH!!!! I just thought-- I'm seeing him tommorow... I'll be blushing like crazy around him. I don't know what to do, I'm freaking out going through all sorts of scenrios in my head--if he did or didn't read? when he does what is he going to think, etc etc etc. butterflies, butterflies. I'm getting a headache. Blood is rushing to my head. My stomach is in a knot. AHHHH!!! I've never done anything like this before. *whimpering* Now comes that dreaded fear of rejection that I lost for two WHOLE minutes while I emailed him. what if ....

2006-11-14 05:50:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he never tells me or my family about his personal life.

2006-11-14 05:49:13 · 35 answers · asked by Loka 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 05:49:06 · 9 answers · asked by curiousmode 3 in Singles & Dating

my husband decided he needed some space and wanted to move out he moved into a friends house (the friend is out of the country for a while) well he now wants me their all of the time and calls me all the time but doesnt want to move back in and he tells me he loves me. what should i do. i just dont understand what is going on we did just have a baby 7 months ago, but that is no reason for all of this drama.

2006-11-14 05:48:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i lived with smy ex boyfriend for 5 years. the lady across the street who is also an ex girlfriend was always in his face(usually after i went to work so we would not have any fights). I am not jealous of her because she is 10 years older than I am and she is uglier and fatter. My ex also put her on a pedestal to make like she was better than I was. Now that we have broken up, and he is not getting any sex, he puts the other woman down. He makes like his does not like her so he can win me make. I see through his game. He tells her one thing , and tells me another. He is 62 year old and fat and bald. Should he grow up and just try to love one woman instead of trying to play both of us. He is not going to get rid of the other woman. He has not for the last 25 years. She has a ready made family of two dump kids. He still likes her around and never plans to marry her (he has not in the past 25 years) because she is the clean up worman when I dogged him. How do I get rid of her

2006-11-14 05:47:28 · 12 answers · asked by gigi120pelham 1 in Singles & Dating

I found out a friend of mine likes me to whip his cream for him.
Does this mean he is interested in me?

Could he be whipped?

2006-11-14 05:47:09 · 8 answers · asked by Abbott 1 in Singles & Dating

last know living in Bourton-on -the-water area

2006-11-14 05:45:53 · 5 answers · asked by snikleback 5 in Friends

Everytime my husband and I get in a fight it is the same thing. He gets mad because I check him on the computer and find out he has been chatting with girls. HE gets mad that I check him and says he doesn't want to be married to the F.B.I. he wants a wife. He says we don't have a normal life. Iask him what he wants in the normal life and he says just normal, wife husband, house, happy. Not checking, not always fighting. How do I change?

My parents divorced when I was 6 because my dad cheated on my mom. He used to take my younger sister and I on dates with him and his girlfriends while he was married to my mom. HE though we were too young to tell on him, but when I was 3 I did and my mom stayed with him for 3 more years, and he still cheated the whole time. Maybe that is why I don't trust my husband, even though I know it's not him. It's because I don't want to be stupid like my mom. It's so easy for men to cheat and that's why I check on him and see what he is doing. Any Advice?

2006-11-14 05:45:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do u feel? act? how do u know if they love u? wat if they say theyd rather say they care for u alot but it doesnt mean they dont love u or maybe its an inch or two away from love

2006-11-14 05:45:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met him through a Christian dating site, emailed each other for 4 months and talking now by phone every day for 1 month. We both want to meet but live 10 hours apart. He can't visit me till he gets his vacation time next year. I have more flexibility since I'm self-employed. He invited me and my kids to meet him, his family and friends and pastor. He is a divorced single dad. The only thing holding me back is that I have 2 teens that I feel guilty about making them come on this roadtrip since it's to meet a man. He says he already knows I'm the one for him and believes in staying pure before marriage. I would love to meet him and see if he have compatibility in person since we already have spiritual and emotional compatibility. I just feel guilty because my kids are understandably not thrilled. Do you think I should go?

2006-11-14 05:44:24 · 24 answers · asked by sassygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I just recenlty broke up with my boyfriend of over 5 years. After over a month of actually being broken up, I am coming to terms with the fact that it is really over. I need to heal my heart fast and move on. I dont want to hurt or be sad or depressed anymore. What is the best thing for a girl to do?

2006-11-14 05:43:23 · 18 answers · asked by Christina B 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not into the whole marriage and family thing, but I figure I'd do my part for the community. I though maybe I can become a Big Brother for a Kid around here and teach him to be a Man. Does it sound good?

2006-11-14 05:42:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I also found out that he had an affair on our anniversary and this was just this past august.

2006-11-14 05:41:39 · 15 answers · asked by sweetkandi_cakes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

girls..

2006-11-14 05:41:18 · 8 answers · asked by LEO 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i don't want to lie. but i don't want her to think shes a mistake.

2006-11-14 05:40:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Everyone is talking about cheating and is it ok to flirt with or have relations with other people. Are people really this dumb. Marriage is sacred and it saddens me to see that a majority of the questions are about cheating and lies instead of how to take care of your spouse and solve problems. Divorce should not be a first, second or third choice. It should only happen in EXTREME cases. Why do so many people sound like they are so miserable in their marriages? (Maybe they shouldn't have been allowed to get married in the first place?)

2006-11-14 05:40:31 · 16 answers · asked by Julie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was the same bar a couple of weeks on Saturdays. I was sitting at the bar (as I came alone and didn't know any one there). One of the bartenders was trying to flirt with me both times. She had memorized my drink the second time and didn't charge for the first round. Was high-fiving me when her fav. songs were being played. Do bartenders generally do this just to get extra tips or was she hitting on me? I wanted to ask her out, but was a little hesitant because this is totally unchartered waters for me.

By the way, I did tip her, but only the normal amount I always do

2006-11-14 05:40:12 · 11 answers · asked by Existentialist_Guru 5 in Singles & Dating

My girl had a text message from this dude stating "I am on my way, you got rubbers?" 10 minutes after she got off the phone with me..... what does that tell me?

2006-11-14 05:40:04 · 16 answers · asked by yadedyah_dc 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a single parent that works at a senior center making 5;15 a hour and I can not keep my bills up. please tell me there is hope

2006-11-14 05:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by sherryannrainey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you do when you have a partner who wants sex all the time but you dont always have that mood for sex but your scared that if you dont give it to them they will get it from somewhere else

2006-11-14 05:37:19 · 5 answers · asked by Nikki2007 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a good kid i have my bad side but i try not to show it. Ive been i love with my friend for 2 years and we are close, we get into big fights and we reconcile almost all the time, i am not sure is hes straight or gay; i think hes gay, but still im not sure what to do. I decided a while ago that i would not tell him about my love for him but instead be friends wth him. Even though we are friends i dont think he thinks of me as a best friend like i think of him. I want us to be clos i want us to be the best of friends but im not sure what to do should i continue to be with a friend who isnt as close to me as im a close to him. I love him but i dont want to get hurt, so should i just cutt of the realation or try to work it out.

2006-11-14 05:36:42 · 3 answers · asked by Scott 2 in Friends

I've been going out with a girl named Brooke for almost two weeks, and we've kissed once. I don't really want anything out of the relationship, I just like being with her, but she doesn't seem to trust me. She says she can't say she loves anyone because she's afraid they'll hurt her. How can I get her to trust me???

2006-11-14 05:36:21 · 15 answers · asked by big_bear29360 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 05:36:08 · 10 answers · asked by dhavaldon2007 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 05:36:03 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 05:36:00 · 3 answers · asked by onetopdesigner 1 in Friends

I wanted to know the reason from cheaters out there!

2006-11-14 05:35:54 · 14 answers · asked by Babe 2 in Singles & Dating

My 20 year old daughter lives at home and goes to school full time. We paid for her schooling. She had a full time job but quit to go to school. She has a car (she paid for) and a serious boyfriend. My husband is the bad cop and I'm the good cop. Don't get me wrong, I do talk to her about responsibility. She is either at school, at boyfriend's, or out somewhere. She doesn't do much housework, leaves her sh*t everywhere, basically needs me to push her to do every little thing. I love her very much and want her to do well in school (which she is doing excellent). My husband is not so kind, she thinks he's too hard on her. I get in the middle...even though I try not to. I agree with his points, but I wouldn't convey it so harshly. Her boyfriend stays over all the time or she stays at his parent's. He is like family but I feel that if they want to be together 24/7 that they should move in together and leave us out of it. I also have a 16 year old daughter who always helps out

2006-11-14 05:34:14 · 15 answers · asked by sandy_in_bc 2 in Family

honesty,loyality,smile,helping poors.

2006-11-14 05:33:51 · 9 answers · asked by majid aziz 1 in Marriage & Divorce