I also found out that he had an affair on our anniversary and this was just this past august.
2006-11-14 05:41:39 · 15 answers · asked by sweetkandi_cakes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whoa ! Sorry I missed the previous question. But as far as any guy missing such an important date as an anniversary to have an affair with someone else sounds like a first class loser to me. I think you should dump this guy faster than a hot potato.
2006-11-14 05:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by David C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I understand where you are coming from! You love him more than he'll ever know, you want to honor your marriage vows and you want your children to have their father.
It will be one of the hardest things that you will ever do, but you have to leave him! If he cheated on you in your first year of marriage he will do it again! You deserve better than that! Your children deserve better than that!
I stuck it out for way too many years in that kind of marriage because I was scared to leave. I didn't know God then and I didn't understand that He is with me every step that I take! You can do it....pray for God' help and know that there are better things waiting for you on the other side of divorce! I have been blessed many times over!!
2006-11-14 05:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Buff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can do one of two things. Take him back which most women do anyway. Secondly call a lawyer. It's not fair to you that he's throwing your heart around and not even caring at all. A woman has to do what a woman has to do just to be happy with herself no for him.....Good luck.
2006-11-14 05:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want love he wants lust, why in the hell are you still with him, he would of been gone as soon as the affair occurred.
as long as you stay the more stupid you look to him and he will continue on cheating as long as you put up with it. leave that player before you get hurt again. don't you see he doesn't care about you , all he cares about is himself.
2006-11-14 05:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may find out a whole lot more it doesn't make things worse or better ..You have to find a way to live a peaceful life you deserve it.
2006-11-14 06:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by nissdonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 choices....
1. Stay and have a miserable life wondering when he will cheat again.
2. Dump him and move on with your life.
2006-11-14 06:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser with a capital L, move on with your life and find someone who will care for you as you should be.
2006-11-14 05:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by P!ss Ant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww geesh.
I wouldn't put up with him whatsoever from here on. Drop him like you would a hot potato.
2006-11-14 05:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on sister...Life is way to short for **** like this... Good luck to you, you deserve allot better and trust me you will find it!!
2006-11-14 05:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by Alisha S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to go get those divorce papers.
2006-11-14 05:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋