Im a good kid i have my bad side but i try not to show it. Ive been i love with my friend for 2 years and we are close, we get into big fights and we reconcile almost all the time, i am not sure is hes straight or gay; i think hes gay, but still im not sure what to do. I decided a while ago that i would not tell him about my love for him but instead be friends wth him. Even though we are friends i dont think he thinks of me as a best friend like i think of him. I want us to be clos i want us to be the best of friends but im not sure what to do should i continue to be with a friend who isnt as close to me as im a close to him. I love him but i dont want to get hurt, so should i just cutt of the realation or try to work it out.
2006-11-14 05:36:42 · 3 answers · asked by Scott 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you might stay friends with him but try to think of him the way he thinks of you, and since you are almost certain about his feelings towards you i dont think you'll get a heartache because its not like you'll get shocked later or something, and about your friendship you never know what the future brings he might like you more than you like him, but again keep your options open and be friends with other people just incase
2006-11-14 05:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by unis_1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard question. Love is always a hard topic.
And being Gay must be even harder.
What i think is that if you were to hold it from him and disconnect the relationship you might as well tell him, because whats the worse that can happen- him not talk to you anymore? well thats what you planned in the first place, to cut off the friendship.
Go for it Love is worth fight for. And wouldnt you rather spend a life time with the one you love instead of someone who wont be close to you or love you back?
Hope everything works out.
2006-11-14 05:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to find out if he is gay. If he isn't you can still be friends with him I just wouldn't tell him you love him. If it is to hard for you to do that then stay away for awhile. You will find love and he can still be a friend. I wouldn't tell him you love him that way until you really know if he has those same feelings because he may get turned off to the whole friendship. BUT if he is a real friend he wont care if you are gay. I think you need to be prepared that in the end it may not turn out the way you want it to so you need to decide how you are going to handle those feelings.
2006-11-14 05:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋