I just emailed a guy whom I have known for a while, no dating, just some friendly flirting. All of a sudden I had the guts to go ahead and email 'hi'. Now I feel sick... butterflies. I'm suddenly embarrased and I'm blushing at the computer screen. I'm going to see him tomorrow, I don't know if he'll even have read his emails by then, and if he does... oh gosh! I'm so scared I'll just be blushing all over just thinking about it. AHHHHH!!!! I just thought-- I'm seeing him tommorow... I'll be blushing like crazy around him. I don't know what to do, I'm freaking out going through all sorts of scenrios in my head--if he did or didn't read? when he does what is he going to think, etc etc etc. butterflies, butterflies. I'm getting a headache. Blood is rushing to my head. My stomach is in a knot. AHHHH!!! I've never done anything like this before. *whimpering* Now comes that dreaded fear of rejection that I lost for two WHOLE minutes while I emailed him. what if ....
2006-11-14 05:50:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't help it...
2006-11-14 05:53:14 · update #1
Well, I said a bit more than 'hi' but I didn't say "Hey I think you're cute and I like you" just a friendly email...
2006-11-14 05:55:12 · update #2
Take a deep breath, it will all be fine, if he's not interested big deal. He's not going to walk around telling everyone you asked him out and he turned you down. You know what my personal moto is- Glory to the brave. When ever I want to ask out a girl or approach a girl and I start to fear rejection I say to myself Glory to the Brave and do it. I've got rejected before, but in a few days you'll never remember and I've also gone out with some beautiful girls, and that wouldn't have happened if I didn't have the balls to make a move
2006-11-14 05:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by joe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa...Take a deep breath...
You only emailed the guy. You didn't throw him a marriage proposal.
Believe it or not, guys are shy to the point of being paralyzed. He may flirt, but when it comes to anything closer to the talk of a relationship or fooling around, a guy will lock up.
He's probably doing the same thing...Sweating to push that "Send" button on an email to ask you out. Guys NEED that little extra assurance that it's ok to approach.
2006-11-14 05:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You worry too much! Enjoy that you had the guts to send him an email, and tomorrow when you see him enjoy talking about it together.
2006-11-14 05:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by bettywitdabigbooty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you just say "hi" in your email? Or did you tell him you liked him? I'm confused.
If you just said "hi" then you need to stop freaking out. Men are simple creatures but they're not as bright. If you just said "hi" he won't catch on. :)
Don't worry.
2006-11-14 05:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you did it.
It is much better than not doing anything and wait our lives away.
You did good. It's juz a matter of time to see what he says!
2006-11-14 05:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by gamermic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the exciting life of dating!:)
The beginning is always so much fun. Just enjoy this good feeling. Good luck! :)
2006-11-14 05:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by redrobot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you only said hi then whats the problem, every1 gets nervous hun, imagine how he might be feelin, everythin will go ok,
acuna ma tata -
*sings* it means NO WORRIES... FOR THE REST OF YOUR DAYS lol
good luck x
2006-11-14 05:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by Whispering Eye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it...
2006-11-14 05:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋