Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

I mean, I know the idiots out there who ask stupid questions and they know they're stupid- but why give someone a 'bad' rating for just asking a question?!
Why rate a question asking peoples' opinion of baby names bad, or asing work advice, or asking what to fix their husband for dinner? Ya know?! Those aren't offensive or anything...

2006-11-14 06:14:41 · 9 answers · asked by KC 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend (x-friend) told me that he was cheating on my best friend for her best friend should I tell her? Why or why not?
I am just really hurt because I thought my friend would be a good boy friend for my best friend since kindergarten.
P.S. My best friend really likes this guy, and my best friend's bestfriend knows they both are going out together?!
Is this bad?

2006-11-14 06:14:07 · 10 answers · asked by squeeks 2 in Friends

2006-11-14 06:13:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was working out of town and wanted to go home to see my kids. This couple I was working for raised cane about it and told me it was stupid to miss my family, they said they never heard of such a thing. I called my kids and told them and they asked do I want to come home? I said yes. They all got into a car and drove to where I was and brought me back home. When my boss started to say something, my sons stepped up to him and he backed off so fast. My daughter told me come on mom, we're going home and we did. I found another job when I got back home and am happy. What have I done to deserve such wonderful children?

2006-11-14 06:13:48 · 2 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

have been to court. He pays child support, his visitation schedule conflicts with his work schedule, the judge did not take this under consideration. She gives him hell when he doesn't visit, and threatens him, he can't afford to be harrassed, he has told her to stop, if they fire him from his job she get no support, to get back at him she put a restraing order against him, he flipped, because they were going to take his gun away, he told the judge she would do this, he has an impeccable record at work, he was to go to court, but he had to immediately call for an adjournment, he is looking into an attorney, the day he was to go to court, she was there and he wasn't. She called him and told him she withdrew the complaint, she was pissed at him. He was furious, and told her not to contact him unless the baby is sick. and that he will lbe foing to court, once the baby turns 1 he can have an overnighter. thats in Dec I can't stand this fighting, he still has not go to the attorney, Help

2006-11-14 06:13:08 · 2 answers · asked by reina l 1 in Family

I hav known this guy (guy 1) for abt a year now. When i 1st met him I didnt like him but we gt talking, started flirting + gradually became friends,spending after school + the weekends together. 6 mths ago I started to like him, but didnt act on it. We got closer as time went on and my feelings got stronger, I cnt help caring about him.There is a lot of tension in the air betwn us,every1 says he likes me and thinks were together but were not. We spend the evenings in his bed watching movies, i wear his clothes. He is okay abt getting naked in front of me. He has a girlf who he has been with for 3 years now and he loves. Recently i met anotha guy who is the 1st person i have felt something for since guy 1, we got talking and it seems he likes me too.But 2day i spent the afternoon with guy 1 and he tells me he will break up with his girlf as he needs space + so does she. Now I feel something 4 him agin + i wish i didnt, I love him + want him as a friend + i hate myself for liking him.

2006-11-14 06:12:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i asked on here if i should try and get a girl to lose a few pounds so she would be more attractive to me. everyone told me it was not a good idea. so now i need to know how do i get rid of her. heres the thing we screw around everyonce in a while but i don't like her as a girlfriend cause she's kinda fat. and the reason it would be hard to ditch her is because i feel bad for her. she told me she has bad luck with boys and i think she has low self esteem. so i don't won't to make her problems bigger than they are. what do i do

2006-11-14 06:12:44 · 3 answers · asked by raul b 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 06:12:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay..Im 13 and my names Bella and im in 7th grade.I like this guy named Ryan hes my older brother kyles best friend hes 15 and a sophmore but he likes me to he asked me out and I don't know what to say i asked my brother he said he wont be happy about it but if i really want to then i have his permisson my best friend Zach went biliztic when i told him...what do I do? should i say yes?

2006-11-14 06:12:29 · 6 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Singles & Dating

im 16 and joined a new school, the majority of girls are blonde but im the only asian girl, do you think guys constantly stare cause im asian and brown or because they like me?

2006-11-14 06:12:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that book helped me from killing myself...i swear.
my break-up was HORRIBLE
just wondering if anyone else has read it and how it helped you
:)

2006-11-14 06:10:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's my quandry: I'm going to a concert with a female friend (whom I would date in a heart beat if given the opportunity) as a school assignment for a music appreciation class. The concert begins at 7:30 and I want to ask her if she'd like to get something to eat b4hand. This shouldnt be that hard but I get REALLY nervous just thinking about asking her. How do I kick these nerves?

And...I didnt want to take her to nice sit-down restaurant b/c that might make it a little too date-like, but I didnt want to take her to a fast food chain b/c that seems a little too greasy. I was thinking pizza hut. Is this a good place to take a girl on a date that isnt really supposed to be a date?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanx!

2006-11-14 06:10:33 · 26 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Singles & Dating

What should I do? I really find it hard to believe she hasn't noticed it yet. I'm pretty sure the damn thing winked at me the other day. I know she has put me through a lot, with the shooting, and the cheating. I hate it when she cheats at UNO. Effin enrages me. But anyways, as a good mate, which I undoubtedly am, I should let her know, right?

2006-11-14 06:09:36 · 19 answers · asked by TheOneVersion3.0 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok Heres My Prob! I had A Boyfriend a while back and he was my first love my first EVERYTHING! and now evertime i date anyone else i break up with them right when things start to get serious or im so paranoid that hes gonna cheat on me i run them away...how do i fix my problem

2006-11-14 06:09:27 · 14 answers · asked by Taylor Leigh 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always dated men a few years older than me like the oldest has be 7 years but this situation has a bigger gap. I have grown a little interested in a man that is about 14 years older than I, however I'm a little skeptical about the older man younger woman thing. I'm in my late 20's and he is in his early 40's. Is this normal?

2006-11-14 06:08:04 · 15 answers · asked by taccol 1 in Singles & Dating

i have borderline personality disorder and i am currently being treated for it. however, it can take over sometimes i can lash out at people, especially when drunk. (i know i should not drink). i have also recently starting seeing a guy. he is lovely and so patient. he has supported me a great deal recently. however at the weekend we went to a party so he could meet my friends but i drank too much and flipped. i started behaving like a total cow to this guy. he knows that it is related to my illness but it freaked him out and now he wants some space. i am so annoyed with myself. i have tried to apologise but he said he needs some time to decide whether he can cope with my illness or not. have i totally blown it now? i would be really sad if he finished what is actually a really good thing.

2006-11-14 06:07:43 · 15 answers · asked by queenjoef 2 in Singles & Dating

mt wife & i are seperated for 2 months now .been married for 12yrs.the last 11 yrs she never came to me wantng sex .it was always me making the move & times she would say do have to? or we did just the other day . guys how would this make u feel? it makes me feel that im not loved

2006-11-14 06:07:21 · 25 answers · asked by buttnaked1956 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 06:07:20 · 13 answers · asked by Ronnie D 1 in Family

2006-11-14 06:06:53 · 10 answers · asked by Meche 5 in Weddings

2006-11-14 06:06:51 · 10 answers · asked by terryp16 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 06:06:51 · 6 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Pa and have been thinking about becoming a foster parent since my daughter moved out. Does anyone know the steps involved? And is hard to get aproved , is it a long process?

2006-11-14 06:06:24 · 2 answers · asked by stacy 1 in Family

The age old issue. You once loved someone with all you had, but now, you cannot even speak.
Why do allow ourselves to treat & be treated this way?

2006-11-14 06:06:06 · 11 answers · asked by laneydoll 5 in Friends

My friend is in a serious relationship and he is in love but not happy sexually. He’s more on the kinky always horny side and she is not, in other words a prude. He feels he can’t be open with her, and I encourage him too, but he has mentioned minor things that are kinky to her and she was not interested. I tell him this is going to be a huge problem for him, cause most likely he’ll be bored in a while, but he thinks that because he loves her it won’t matter. I think that sex is extremly important and Im actually shocked that he is with her, cause I know how he is. What do you think?

2006-11-14 06:05:32 · 22 answers · asked by ANB 2 in Singles & Dating

so intimidated by girls that have mostly guy friends.

2006-11-14 06:05:09 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah 3 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay this is a long one. My wife and I recently split up. I'm 32. Now we are talking about getting back together. My problem is that we were only apart for a few months (4), and I'm not sure that i know (or want to know who she is now). She dated a guy briefly 4 dates or so, bought a bunch of sex toys, (which i hate), started smoking pot, and hanging out with people that are not the best influences. Going out to bars and flirting with people. I swear that the whole time we were apart, I didnt so much a hug anyone. I feel like I must have been holding her back from doing what she wanted to do when we were married. My overactive imagination zooms. We are living together again now.....Should I try and get over this or just not get attached?

2006-11-14 06:05:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 06:05:02 · 20 answers · asked by lisa h 4 in Weddings

I need to know if i'm over drinking water?

2006-11-14 06:03:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever been hurt by your partner looking at porn honestly? I have been hurt by it and have even been seeking help for it. I have been told that everyone has their own ideas of what an affair is. My husband did this knowing from the start of our relationship that it would be something that hurt me to the extent it might end the relationship. I just want to know I am not the only one out there and that there really are people that think like me. If you think this is stupid or just can't understand that porn can hurt someone this badly read my blog. I have been writing in it lately almost everyday and is only for me dealing with this kind of pain. This has been something that has hurt me with almost every relationship that it happened in and no that is not all of them. I know from looking very hard that there are men out there that don't do it. I just thought my husband was one of them.

2006-11-14 06:03:31 · 22 answers · asked by desiree d 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are recently separated and we started out with him having the kids every other weekend. Now he wants them on Tuesday and Thursday nights over night. My son is 14 and my daughter is 6. My daughter and I have a routine every morning and every night as far as getting ready for school, doing homework, play time and all that. We have a very close bond and I feel that he's trying to take that away from me just because he realizes the time he's missed with her. I am at my wits end and I don't want to feel controlling and I've talked to our marriage counselor about it and she says that I should let him and let it run its course. I don't feel comfortable about it and feel like I have to give in to him again. I do feel that he is taking away MY time with her. Like I said earlier, my daughter and I have a very special bond. She was 3 months premie and I about died after she was born. What should I do? Should I let him have them 2 nights (school nights) or something else?

2006-11-14 06:03:30 · 13 answers · asked by babe_in_the_country 2 in Marriage & Divorce