I hav known this guy (guy 1) for abt a year now. When i 1st met him I didnt like him but we gt talking, started flirting + gradually became friends,spending after school + the weekends together. 6 mths ago I started to like him, but didnt act on it. We got closer as time went on and my feelings got stronger, I cnt help caring about him.There is a lot of tension in the air betwn us,every1 says he likes me and thinks were together but were not. We spend the evenings in his bed watching movies, i wear his clothes. He is okay abt getting naked in front of me. He has a girlf who he has been with for 3 years now and he loves. Recently i met anotha guy who is the 1st person i have felt something for since guy 1, we got talking and it seems he likes me too.But 2day i spent the afternoon with guy 1 and he tells me he will break up with his girlf as he needs space + so does she. Now I feel something 4 him agin + i wish i didnt, I love him + want him as a friend + i hate myself for liking him.
2006-11-14 06:12:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't help the way you feel, it is being human. I had a similar situation when I was 17. I had been best friends with him for 2 years and gradually we got closer and closer. For me it didn't work out but I am glad I gave it a go otherwise I would all ways wonder what if. I think life is far too short to have regrets.
2006-11-14 06:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by sharon w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a try with guy 1. he seems like a cool guy so if it doesn't work out i doubht anything will change friendship wise. you seem to really like this guy a lot, i would suggest giving yourelf a day or two to chill out and calm down before you make your mind up. which do you think is the better guy, its your decision in the end. good luck!
2006-11-14 06:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer probably... you do no longer sound such as you particularly understand yet, besides, so why no longer purely evaluate your self "looking" or "bi-curious", or in spite of you ought to call it, and depart it at that? you do no longer ought to settle on now, and in case you wait to settle on, you're greater probably to be pleased with what you settle on. Who is familiar with; you're purely sixteen. some people understand for confident while they are youthful, some people take a protracted time to settle on, some in no way do. it particularly is purely no longer a huge deal.
2016-10-03 23:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? I would go with my heart. You know you have feelings for him.
2006-11-14 06:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Somer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just listen to your heart
2006-11-14 06:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by SexyAmby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋