My friend (x-friend) told me that he was cheating on my best friend for her best friend should I tell her? Why or why not?
I am just really hurt because I thought my friend would be a good boy friend for my best friend since kindergarten.
P.S. My best friend really likes this guy, and my best friend's bestfriend knows they both are going out together?!
Is this bad?
2006-11-14 06:14:07 · 10 answers · asked by squeeks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Eek.. why did your friend tell you that?? It kind of sounds like he's hoping you'll tell your bff so he doesn't have to. You should talk to the cheater and ask him what you just asked us. Keep in mind that it isn't your relationship so it isn't really your place to meddle. However, the cheater did bring you into it. You might as well find out why.
2006-11-14 06:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's bad! It puts you in messed up situation. But why would your friend tell you he was cheating on your bestfriend - it's almost like he wants to get caught! If it were me I would tell my bestfriend cause I would hope she'd do the same for me.
2006-11-14 06:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to loyal to your friend, put your self in her shoes would you want to know that the guy you love is a jerk, and he has been cheating behind your back, and every time he tels you he loves you, he's also telling some other girl, every time you kiss him goodbye he goes and uses those same lips on another girl! it's going to really hard, but you need to tell your friend.. have you heard that stupid saying bros, before hoes? well step up, and tell your friend
2006-11-14 06:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this were my best friend, I would tell her. She & I are like sisters & can tell each other ANYTHING. Depending on your relationship, she may not believe you or get angry at you. But...... When the crap hits the fan & she realizes what a peeter cheese he is, she will need you then more than ever. Just be there for her & your bond will only get stronger.
2006-11-14 06:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by medicbev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not tell the truth, then you are helping a cheater cheat. Do you want to be a part of recovery or betrayal?
2006-11-14 06:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Doctor Why 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheat is always a cheat, better tell your friend before she finds out you knew and you never told her
2006-11-14 06:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by cluelesskat maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find some new friends
2006-11-14 06:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by MICHAEL R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why u are even askin this ... u shud b telling everything about this cheater friend to your best friend at this time ...
2006-11-14 06:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by edifiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL THE CHIC AND BE AVAILABLE FOR THE CRUSHED GIRL AS A "FRIEND" SHOULD
2006-11-14 06:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by loyal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd slap him and threaten to tell my friend if he didn't tell her first and give him a deadline on telling her or else i would!
2006-11-14 06:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋