so intimidated by girls that have mostly guy friends.
2006-11-14 06:05:09 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah 3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
+ I really don't know as I don't seem to have that problem. My girl friend was still having guys call to ask her out when we first started (and she still is) and I suggested that the three of us get together and that never happened. Someone was intimidated, but not me. Seems like the guy would always say no, or that is what I was told. I sure hope that is the truth as I would hate to find out otherwise later. My thought was that if they thought enough of her to ask her out they probably had the same values as I do so they had to be OK guys and maybe they would be valuable people to know.
I am getting ready to go on a work trip to South America and I told her that it was OK to have dinner with some of them if she wanted, and I guess that was a wrong answer too. So I am busting back to get everything done and every time I turn around I get asked to do more things. I can't understand it. If I were to do the same thing, would I be considered inconsiderate, thoughtless or greedy for attention? I suppose I will never really understand. I really hope that when I return she will have spent at least one full 48 hour period without having consumed any alcohol as I worry a lot about it and sometimes I stay away because of it. Well I hope my thoughts help you sort out yours.
Good Luck from a guy who is not intimidated and who cares enough to just walk away if the other person would be happier that way. (Been there done that)
2006-11-14 06:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by Clamdigger 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
B/c most guys don't stay good friends with a girl if they don't have something else in mind. It is usually just to "prove" that they are a good guy by acting like they are what the girl wants by bad-mouthing the "boyfriend" and so forth.
2006-11-14 14:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by terryp16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we see all your friends as competition, and we know from first hand experience that you tell a girl that your friends, just because you want them close to you, because you never know, thats why were intimidated, we know what there after
God Bless
2006-11-14 14:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Competitions
2006-11-14 14:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they feel the other guys are competition. How would you feel if ur boyfriend had mostly girl friends thathe hung out with when you aren't around.
2006-11-14 14:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by xxkittenluvxx143 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is SOOOOO double standered... When girls have more guy friends they automatically say that that girl is a hoe or slut. But they are just like little kids THEY want to be the only ones.
2006-11-14 14:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by alizah2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys know that the guy friends have other things on their minds.
Look guys are friends with guys They have more in common.
They act friendly to girls hoping that someday they will get lucky with you.
I know it is hard to hear but if you don't believe me offer one of your guy friends sex with no strings attached and see what he says
2006-11-14 14:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are whores. Girls with guy friends have jealousy issues with women and usually are emotionalyy challenged. A girl without girlfriends is damaged goods.
2006-11-14 14:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by sofacue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are all animals, especially guys...guys are about competion, guys always protect what they have and if someone else shows interest in his girl, its only natural to go into a defensive protection mode...now, the dumb part is that not all guys are the same, some dont mind and are kinda proud for other guys to check u out....
2006-11-14 14:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by Love Doctor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dun think so.
Not all guys feel the same. Maybe some guys feel that they wouldn't stand a chance from the competition?
It depends on the guy's mentality.
2006-11-14 14:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by gamermic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋