he never tells me or my family about his personal life.
2006-11-14 05:49:13 · 35 answers · asked by Loka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure what the actual question is here... is it a bad thing that he might be gay? What would you do if he was straight? If you feel like you need to act, just make sure that he knows that you love and support him no matter what. If he is gay, it will be extremely difficult for him to admit it to you and your family. The next time you're talking to him you could bring up one of your gay friends in passing (or make one up if you don't have any) so that he knows that you are okay with homosexuality (assuming he is gay and assuming you're okay with homosexuality). However, just because he doesn't share his personal life with you doesn't necessarily mean he's gay. My brother is straight but doesn't particularly like to divulge information about his personal life to any of us.
2006-11-14 05:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could all be an act too. Don't condemn until you know absolutely for sure. If you don't investigate further then you could hurt his feelings and he will never forgive you for that, ever.
Remember kids sometimes act in this way so that they can have time alone to do the things that they want, and not always having to do what others want instead. They need space. Not very many people realize this.
2006-11-14 05:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...just because he doesn't share details of his personal life doesn't mean he's gay.
Secondly...don't do anything. Its not your business if he's gay or not, any more than its his business who you prefer to sleep with.
Lastly...if he ever was to come to you and share that he is gay...i would hope you would continue to love and support him...afterall...he'll have a very very long and hard road ahead of him and would need his family to support him more then even HE would know.
2006-11-14 05:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is gay and it took him a long time to talk to his family about it....be careful what you say though, if he's not gay you might offend him, if he is and hasn't told you it is probably a touchy subject right now. Just make sure that he knows you support him no matter what, and he will probably eventually open up about it......
2006-11-14 05:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by josie775 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes young den u should teach him now that its not rite but if hes in his teens ur too late he already decided what he likes and plus if u wanna kno if hes gay get on his good side start hanging out wit him jus spend tyme wit him he eventually tell u but thats if he gay u never kno
theres always signs like the three main one
1) hes always around gurls
2) acts to gurly sort of fruity
3) if hes not intersted in what boys do
2006-11-14 06:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by craigs wifey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you react if you did find out for sure that he was gay?
Alot of people say they would be cool with it until it is a close relative then they become all weird about it.
So do not pry or snoop on him unless you are sure you can handle the truth (whatever it may be).
2006-11-14 05:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by jules_xcess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need some more answers like how old is he?
You did not mention your age, but usually a younger brother usually wants to spy on his big sister, such as trying to see her naked, getting dressed etc. That would be natural. See if he has any interest in girls, or is he just shy.
2006-11-14 05:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever he is, straight - gay - by , you are his sister and you must stand by him on whatever he decides. Try to speak more with him, so as to learn something just to not worry, but show him that you love him and you accept him on whatever he does in his personal life.
2006-11-14 06:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by venus_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support him. Be there for him is all you can do. He is your brother no matter what. And at this time, if he's is coming out, then he needs the support and understanding of those closest to him, especially his family.
2006-11-14 05:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by NoItAll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you wanna do? I think you should just love him, be there for him & dont EVER judge him wrongly.
He is your baby brother & his personal preference is just that...HIS.
Without knowing how old he is...there is not a whole lot more I can say.
HAVE A NICE DAY!
2006-11-14 05:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by GITTIN_FREAKIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋