i lived with smy ex boyfriend for 5 years. the lady across the street who is also an ex girlfriend was always in his face(usually after i went to work so we would not have any fights). I am not jealous of her because she is 10 years older than I am and she is uglier and fatter. My ex also put her on a pedestal to make like she was better than I was. Now that we have broken up, and he is not getting any sex, he puts the other woman down. He makes like his does not like her so he can win me make. I see through his game. He tells her one thing , and tells me another. He is 62 year old and fat and bald. Should he grow up and just try to love one woman instead of trying to play both of us. He is not going to get rid of the other woman. He has not for the last 25 years. She has a ready made family of two dump kids. He still likes her around and never plans to marry her (he has not in the past 25 years) because she is the clean up worman when I dogged him. How do I get rid of her
2006-11-14 05:47:28 · 12 answers · asked by gigi120pelham 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say get rid of him and let her have him. Find someone that doesn't do this to you.
2006-11-14 05:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by E B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want him? he already said hes not getting rid of her. also you may be worried about her because you want to get rid of her! if you had any self respect you would leave him and find someone who will treat you like a real respectable woman. he obviously doesent.what makes you think after 25 yrs that he would get rid of her? when you and her are enabiling him to use both of you?
2006-11-14 05:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a lovely relationship, such interesting people. sounds like the base line for a trash novel. I would stick around for if no other reason to see what is going to happen next. Imagine never a dull moment, this is worth millions
2006-11-14 05:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just need to walk away. Stop listening to his lies, especially since you know they are lies. If he has kept her around on the side for 25 years and she is still willing, then you are probably NEVER going to get rid of her. Stop trying and move on.
2006-11-14 05:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is either true love or security. the feeling of being in a familar place.. forget it .. just think 25 yrs what makes you think he is going to leave her know. Good luck .. i don't know you but i am sure you can get better and it will be all yours no sharering ...lol
2006-11-14 05:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to ask you the same question why are you running after man who you know is is not yours completely, move on and forget about him and his 25years affair, hes not worth giving a second thought, you spent valuable time of your life wondering about the woman next door when you could move on and have a better life,
time on earth is precious so make the most of it
2006-11-14 05:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by cluelesskat maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An EX boyfriend usually means that you shouldn't care about any of this anymore. Get over it and move on.
2006-11-14 05:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously u need to get out and move on and not worry about him or the ugly woman.. Seems as though he is using u and her.. Is this really what u want?
2006-11-14 05:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u care? Why would you even want a man like that is the better question.
2006-11-14 05:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to get rid of her? why would you want to live with a fat bald loser?
2006-11-14 05:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by onlylove41 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋