I was the same bar a couple of weeks on Saturdays. I was sitting at the bar (as I came alone and didn't know any one there). One of the bartenders was trying to flirt with me both times. She had memorized my drink the second time and didn't charge for the first round. Was high-fiving me when her fav. songs were being played. Do bartenders generally do this just to get extra tips or was she hitting on me? I wanted to ask her out, but was a little hesitant because this is totally unchartered waters for me.
By the way, I did tip her, but only the normal amount I always do
2006-11-14 05:40:12 · 11 answers · asked by Existentialist_Guru 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To add, she wasn't the hottest girl I've met and the bar is the best in town. I'd be bummed if I couldn't come back.
2006-11-14 05:55:20 · update #1
only flirting for extra tips....pay attention she's treating all the guys that are alone extra special so that they'll think she's into them and they'll leave her a bigger tip.
2006-11-14 05:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bartenders are there for the money. It really depends on the bar and the girl. Next time try to buy her a drink, and ask her if she likes to go out to other bars. If she says something like, "only when I can find a babysitter for my 5 children" you might want to back off. Otherwise, I say go for it you have nothing to lose. If she says no, there are always other bars you can go to.
2006-11-14 05:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by sofacue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you hot..cause if you are then she probably was hitting on you. Go in again..but this time tip her more since a free drink means you should tip her more than average...maybe even leave her a little note on the napkin..thanks again for the great service. I realize a beautiful girl like you probably gets hit on a lot but I'd still like to take you out sometime anyways. take care (name) and then your number
2006-11-14 05:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be boring job-and flirting is second nature as a bartender-have to catch myself sometimes if i see wedding ring or gf is with the guy. And of course it helps the tips-but sometimes nice to just talk to people. As for memorizing drink-thats easy. maybe hitting on you-but doubt it-trust me-you'll KNOW when she is.
2006-11-14 05:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ALL for the tips - I bet other guys got the same attention. I was a bartender - did the same thing to women.
2006-11-14 05:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by into_thematrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends a lot on everything that happened earlier on.
Most probably she was on a happy mood.
Hmmm, perhaps she's happy that she got lots of tips, she met an old friend, she likes her job, she's likes to be working in a happy mood, maybe she likes you more than someone else?
Guess you should have asked about her number :)
2006-11-14 05:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by gamermic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're able to continuously seem your terrific, hair up or down, and earrings is great because's a great communication starter. men will come into the bar just to work out you, and tip you nicely in case you're friendly! I cocktail waitressed and bartended, and it did no longer take me long to comprehend that maximum men coming in for beverages are paying you for "lady time". . .they get to take a seat down and consult with a distinctly lady. remember their names and their well known beverages, and you're able to make a solid residing! good success!
2016-10-22 02:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bartenders just do that to get tips and to keep business because no one wants to lose business right?
2006-11-14 05:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by Babygurl Alex!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely for the tips, but everyone is different, so I'd hate to be definitive on that.
2006-11-14 05:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be either, but I'd say she was hitting on you :) But she went that extra mile, so YOU follow along and tip her *sweet*!!
Ask her out! What ya waiting for???
2006-11-14 05:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by єЖтяα ¢яιѕρψ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋