i cant seem to meet any decent men i'm a media designer pretty high pay job i am about 5'3-5'4 longish brown hair blue eyes Acup tiny waist and smallish bum..I take care of myself and my body...but i always end up with the jerk
2006-11-14 05:29:53 · 18 answers · asked by Taylor 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do go to church and the all the nice guys are taken.. I just wanna settle down and have some kids
2006-11-14 05:32:59 · update #1
I dont drink at all i think thats gross, well on a special event ill have a class im, i dont go to bars or clubs..
2006-11-14 05:37:07 · update #2
There is nothing wrong with you sweetie. I don't think it has to do with where your looking @ either. I am a good guy and hardly ever go to church. I think the best thing for you to do is find someone who has the same interest as you. Myself I tend to find the crazy ones too. Good luck!
2006-11-14 05:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Right_Tonight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because jerk and man are synonymous. No really it is not you a lot of men cannot handle a woman that does not need them. I just think that you have to give it time and try to be patient. There does not seem to be anything wrong with you. I have the same problem and I know I hate it when people tell me to be patient and blah blah blah but what can you do? Just keep hope alive and find solace in the fact that it is not you, the Y chromosome is a genetic defect, really a Y looks like a broken X that little piece that would make an Y an X is the piece that holds all the common sense. (LOL)
2006-11-14 05:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Now don't take this the wrong way, but here's the truth...
Your focus is not on what type of person you are, first you mention your job, then your looks....size, hair color, eye color, breast size, waist and bum....You take care of yourself and your body... Well, what type of person are you inside? If you're not offering anything substantial on the inside, you will not attract guys worthwhile. It really sounds like your priorities are screwed up....What do you bring to the table, how do you treat a man? A real man who wants a relationship isn't concerned primarily with your job title, looks (although they don't want someone who doesn't take care of themselves) but they do want someone who knows how to treat them.... A man that is interested in the shallow things you describe, is a shallow man, but this seems to be what you're offering, so until you change that, you'll keep getting the jerks. sorry...
2006-11-14 05:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by favrd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to change your hunting ground :)
If you are picking up these guys in bars, why not try visiting a library?
Many times women detest the type of guy they tend to migrate to for attempted relationships but they are never willing to open up to other types of guys. They focus on a certain type of guy and the problem with stereotypes is that they are there for a reason. I'm not saying all type A guys are going to be exactly the same, but the chances are you'll find a high percentage are the same.
Try opening your mind to a different type of man and expose yourself to different environments to meet guys. You might find that this simple shift will help you attract a different type of guy who won't end up being a jerk.
Miss Cris
http://lendinganear.wordpress.com
2006-11-14 05:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think part of the problem is you are too concerned about appearances, those are the main things you mentioned about yourself. Is that what you are looking for in others. Figure out what is really important to you, in a partner and in yourself. Join a club if you need to, take a class in college. See if there is a single's group in your Church.
2006-11-14 05:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you sound like a prize. Hang in there with those qualifications you find a nice guy. Hold your standards high and don't compromise.
2006-11-14 05:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Todd V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Nothing wrong with you! And nothing wrong with having standards! Maybe you do need to mix it up a bit and try new ways to meet guys ... and don't be shy to make a first move!
2006-11-14 05:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by idle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably where you hang out at when you meet guys. It could also have something to do with your personality. It is said that opposite attracts.
2006-11-14 05:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by RedCloud_1998 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Don't Think That There Is Anything Wrong With You At All !
2006-11-14 05:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if what u say is true then i am sure u are attracted to all guys
then u have to choose the best guy who really care about u
2006-11-14 05:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋