for the past few months me and my best friend have been intimate and he has a girlfriend but that didnt stop us now I've fallen in love and dont know if i should tell him please help me
2006-11-14 05:32:51 · 8 answers · asked by SHYGURL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Truthfully, because he has a girlfriend, you should not have been intimate with him in the first place. It does not say much about you and your values to a relationship if you go off trying (and apparently succeeding) in romancing a man who is not available.
Ask yourself a few of these questions: why would, if he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend, would he not cheat on you? Why would he not think you'd cheat on him if you were willing to approach a guy with a girlfriend?
Its not a good situation to be in.
As for right now, what is done is done - if you *must* tell him (I'd advice against it until he is single - same with the intimacy), then you should tell him how you feel but make sure he knows that you are not expecting a relationship in return. That he is in another relationship.
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2006-11-14 05:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...why? Why be intimate when you know he's taken? That's...well...stupid, I must say.
There are pluses and megatives to this situation.
The plus: The person you love is becoming intimate with you.
The negative: He has a girlfriend, which means he is cheating on her, which right away lowers his "score".
These situations are hard because either he really cares about you a lot, or is just a plain dog of a guy. But the only way to find out is you have to TALK to him. It sounds bad, but you can't control who you love, and when you fall in love with them. If he really cares about you, the other girl won't be a factor.
2006-11-17 16:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by XxSouthern CutiexX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a Gf so I guess, just mebbe wait in case they ever break-up, that would b the right thing to do.Also in the mean time check for signals if he likes u too
2006-11-14 13:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL! your a slut b/c you didn't make your friend break up with his girlfriend for you, and obviously he doesn't love you back even if you did tell him or he would have willingly broke up with his g/f... your were just a piece of A s s!!
2006-11-14 13:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get really drunk and tell him so if he dosent reciprecate blame it on the drinking or if u can handle it have one of those talks u usto have before u started foolin around.
2006-11-14 13:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by lilcharm7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and tell him.
2006-11-14 13:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him until he leaves his girlfriend
2006-11-14 13:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by equality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM FOR SURE .
WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
2006-11-14 13:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋