Well me and this guy named Noah have been talking Since my 8th grade year....i am now a sophmore..(I know its not to long but hey im in high school) We have been on and off the whole time.ok, well this past summer we were together but we kept breaking up b/c he couldnt get over his x (his first love) So out of the blue i call him the other day...and he tells me he has been waiting for me to call..and he told me that he talked to his x and i said i guess that puts me in a shitty position.and he said no he realized that he is over her..So then he goes on to tell me how he misses me and He wants to tell me he loves me but doesnt want to jump the gun.Ok since then we have had our hi's & goodbye's but not a decent conversation. So, I check his myspace yesterday and he is sending emails to some chick sayin the he likes her but hes to stupid to tell her to her face...he wants to take her out but is to stupid to ask her...he wants to date her but hes to stupid to do it.So what do i do?
2006-11-14 05:30:51 · 11 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just leave him alone girl. trust me!
2006-11-14 05:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by yensenm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly....its time to move on. He thinks that you are always going to be available for him because in the past you HAVE made yourself available for him. Don't waste your time with some wishy-washy boy. You are too young to be pulled around by a string. You are not a little doll that he take out and play with when he is in the mood to see you. Take it from me...NEVER LET A BOY TREAT YOU AS SECOND BEST!!!!
If you can't be first priority..then you need to move on. I know you care about this guy...but you will care about someone else when the right guy comes along. Don't let him use you!!
2006-11-14 13:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1- Get rid of it!!!!
Number 2- Slap him right across the face.
Number 3- Let him know that you will never take him back. How could you be with a guy that would do that to you. You are much better than that...Find someone who will appreciate you and not all the girls...Good luck.
2006-11-14 13:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like hes playing games with you if hes saying all that good stuff to you over the phone but doing another thing online then hes sending mixed messages you need to rid yourself of him. a relationship is based on communication so if you guys cant even have a convo then maybe its over
2006-11-14 13:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not over her 100%.
A part of him tells him that he should forget her but the other part cant just do that.
I dont know how you feel for him ,I just know that he likes you too.He knows that dating her and taking her out and expressing his feeling to her are stupid things to do ,so he probably needs help.
If you feel you can help him getting over his ex ,and also if you can tolerate this situation so stay with him ,other wise move on and let him know why you are leaving him.
2006-11-14 13:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need to ask this question? It sounds like the guy's a jerk who hits on every girl he gets to know.
2006-11-14 13:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by vannajune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Clearly the boy doesn't know what he wants. You deserver better, so wait for it.
2006-11-14 13:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've waited long enough for a guy who is not good enough for you, i say let him go... Life is too short to waste on undeserving boys!!
2006-11-14 13:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Stupid, he's a moron and move on....
2006-11-14 13:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are there for him when he wants you to be. Ditch this loser!
2006-11-14 13:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by Me, again 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋