How to handle this situation?

Question

I like a woman, although she is married she likes me too. We know each other since long but only some days ago we had sex first time. Now she is not talking to me properly and avoiding me. I asked her why. she says she feels guilty for cheating on her husband. She asked me what should I call this relationship and I said just call it a close friendship. she likes me too and can't go away from me easily, but feels in a tangle right now. I don't want to let her slip, what should I do to keep her friendship + intimacy?

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Answer 1

YOU NEED TO LET HER GO...~~SORRY ~~ SHE IS MARRIED.
NEITHER OF YOU HAD THE RIGHT TO START SOMETHING LIKE THIS. JUST PUT YOURSELF IN HER HUSBANDS SHOES" YOU WOULD NOT WANT YOUR WIFE TO TREAT YOU THIS WAY ."
I DON'T SEE HOW YOU CAN STAY FRIENDS EITHER WHEN FRIENDSHIP IS BASED ON TRUST AND RESPECT..

IF SHE REALLY WANTS TO BE WITH YOU THEN SHE WILL FILE DIVORCE PAPERS AND GET RE-INVOLVED WITH YOU WHEN SHE GETS HER LIFE IN ORDER.
WILL YOU BE ABLE TO TRUST EACH OTHER GIVEN THE FACT SHES A CHEATER AND YOU CROSSED OVER THE LINE????

WHAT YOU NEED TO CALL THIS RELATIONSHIP IS OVER.... BEFORE MORE PEOPLE GET HURT.

Answer 2

You are pathetic.

Assuming you live in the United States, we are 300 million people. But you would have us believe that apparently there is only ONE that would be a fit for you. You prey on someone who is clearly in a vulnerable position--which is why she gives you any attention.

I'm sure it will be a proud story to tell your kids and grand-kids when you describe how you and "mom" met. Of course that point will never come because a relationship who's basis for existing is a lie won't last for any period of time. You apparently also have no conscience either since you say you have been friends for years with her---I will assume you also have been friends with her husband for years too and feel just fine about that as well.

Your a real piece of work------run for the hills lady's

Answer 3

You really have no choice but to let her go. She is married!! You should never, NEVER, never have gotten involved with her! Your heart is about to be broken, and maybe your legs if her husband finds out. It has to be possible. Leave her alone, you cannot help wreck this home, its WRONG!! This is as positive as you're gonna get!! We cannot sugar coat something that is so WRONG!

Answer 4

You're disgusting. How do you think that husband's gonna feel when he finds out what you've done with his wife? Marriages have so much against them just being in the situation. Now you're gonna tell me you're not mature enough to not let her destroy hers like this?
You people make me sick. A pox upon your houses and a curse upon yourselves. Go to hell.

Answer 5

I'm not going to ask you to let her go because she is NOT your's to let go.... she is married, and the fact that your so called "relationship" started as adultry and in secret is not a good sign that it will end in wedded bliss...sorry to burst your bubble.

Answer 6

in all my days on this earth i have never heard of anyone keeping a relationship like this alive. yes there are some couple with open relationships but they all know.. but i have never heard anyone try to make it work on what your trying to do.

Answer 7

Maybe just realizing that she is a whore for cheating on her husband, so what makes you think she won't cheat on you????

Answer 8

Hope like hell her husband doesn't find out and goes ballistic.

Answer 9

If she'll cheat on her hubby, she'll cheat on you. Let her go.

Answer 10

Dude your sick and you do NEEEEED to let her go she is TAKEN! I hope she DUMPS your ***.!!!!