I won't get into the details of how/why/where....all I want to know is this - how do I get it to stop hurting?
I need words of wisdom, advice, anything you got....even if it's just to say something to cheer me up.
2006-11-14 05:22:26 · 17 answers · asked by Joanne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing I can say that will make the hurt go away, but I can give you advise on how to cope.
1. Do not listen to sad love songs
2. Do not call him
3. Do not stay home
4. If you are over 21, get drunk
5. Do not have sex with some one else (it will only make you feel cheap)
6. Stay busy (I personally go shopping)
7. Do not stalk your ex and do not talk to your friends about your break up (will only open up the wound)
8. Go on a trip (being far far away always clears ones mind)
2006-11-14 05:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by jules_xcess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from words of wisdom there is a saying, "You don't miss your water well until it runs dry." Just pray about it. You'll get through it. I often go to the kitchen to turn on some music and dance while doing whatever. So treat yourself to a make over and move on. Breakups are not easy but if you distract yourself by reading a book or listening to music, the heart break goes by faster.
2006-11-14 13:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Careatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say it takes twice as long as the time you dated the person to get over them. I don't think that's true. If you really love or care about someone you'll always carry a piece of that in your heart forever. The best way to move on is to hang out with your friends have fun, try not to dwell on activities, songs, or other things you did together. Time is the greatest healer and eventually you'll meet someone who's even better suited to you and makes you happier.
2006-11-14 13:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by jill_valentine_otaku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your old enough why dont you go out for a night wid the gals . if not how about a girly night or something. when i broke up with my gal i saw tht friends are the best things to have in time of need.
2006-11-14 13:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the breakup was your idea then you already know why. Now keep those thoughts in mind and start working toward a successful relationship.
2006-11-14 13:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I do not know why I believe it may be time to reflect on what you truly want in life and what kind of person you want to share it with. We can be happy with just ourselves too! Take time to know YOU! Then go on with who you may want to be with forever. Good Luck and God Bless
2006-11-14 13:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by lpdecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your hardest to stop thinking about it
Listen to happy up beat music and tell yourself that there are millions of guys in the world and that he was just one of the millions.
2006-11-14 13:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by Big-Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't ask how to get him back...So i would say that is
the first step. Also find something to make you laugh and
forget him for awhile.....try going to the Polls and Jokes
Always a good laugh.
2006-11-14 13:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. Get involved in something that'll take your mind off your situation. You may even meet someone else.
2006-11-14 13:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by My 2 Cents 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time.
2006-11-14 13:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by anissia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋