Ok... so I am so sick and tired of "almost relationships". I have had so many of them and I am so sick of it. I work at a baptist church as often as I possibly can, I'm in a show choir, and I go to highschool. I have been "in love" 2 times, and both times they fell apart. The sad part is that the one guy that I dated for 1.5 yrs and even got engaged to... I never even liked him. Not even close. I don't know why I even said yes to the first date. I know this sounds mean, but he was really verbally abusive to me even before we started dating. It was rediculous. I want a guy to like me that I like both their physical appearance and their heart. The 2 people that I fell in love with were gorgeous on the inside and out, funny, and wanted to grow to be the men God wanted them to be, they both kissed me and told me how lucky they are to have me... but they both ended up moving or completely forgot about me. Lately, I've had absolutely no luck in getting any guy to look my way. Please help!!!
2006-11-14 05:31:04 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah 3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand that I am too young to expect anything more than a dumb highschool relationship, but sometimes I just wish I wasn't so alone. I know that sounds dramatic, but sometimes that's how I feel. I love being who I am and I guess what I'm trying to ask is how do you find a guy that will like me for who I am?
2006-11-14 06:10:49 · update #1
If you in school, then give it time and do not rush this. Pray that God lead you to a man that will help enhance your relationship with God and provide for your needs as a woman. It will take some time, but, God will fix you up.
Heck, Who was that guy fell in love with Rachel? Jacob? I think it took forever before he finally married her. But, he waited and he did get her.
2006-11-14 05:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not surprising to me Sarah. Your thinking is still "high school mentality". What I suggest is that you put bf out of your vocabulary for a year.
1. Study harder than ever
2. Continue your church work and attend
3. Help someone every day
4. Smile
5. Spend an hour a week in the library
Good Luck
2006-11-14 05:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This ones easy. STOP LOOKING!!! God will send you someone. He has a tendency to do these things. Make sure you like him this time and try not to go so fast. Why were you engaged at all??? You really need to think before you leap. It's got to be right in your mind, heart and soul.
2006-11-14 05:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Stick'em in the Trunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe God is trying to tell you to stop dating and focus on other things. Get good grades, pursue your hobbies, mature into a woman, and then consider finding a worthy man. You're much too young to be dealing with relationships.
2006-11-14 05:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice: stay active. dont think about it. pick up an extra hobby or two.
whenever i do this, i stumble across the perfect guy. and it will happen right when you are finally not thinking about it.
so take the time to improve yourself some way... exercise, hobby, crafting...etc.
then when you least expect it - maybe months from now. BAM!
2006-11-14 05:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by kdjags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your expectations are to high and you think to much of yourself
(selfish).You are only a woman and they are only guys. Ease up,
it will happen and when it does you might blow it because of expectations and pressure.Just a thought.
2006-11-14 05:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by kscottbrady2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait and see what comes your way
you believe in god so maybe god will send someone who is worth waiting for .
You know the saying about good things you have to wait for.
2006-11-14 05:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋