how can i forget someone that i love?

Answer 1

to be honest, you can't forget the person you love at all... not literally forget.. such as.. next time you see them.. you ask.. "Who are you?"... nope.. that's impossible...

now what is possible, is that, your feelings for them.. they could fade away... BUT it's impossible to make those feelings go away permanently.. you can't... you can't destroy what has been created in your heart.. but you can make those feelings fade so low that you basically feel.. almost nothing for them.. that you can do.. but you can't forget someone...

now to answer your question... in order to make those feelings fade... go outside, meet other people, get out in the open, talk to your buddies, your friends.. tell them how you feel.. let everything out.. believe me.. it works.. once you let those feelings out.. you will feel much more better... and you know.. the best medicine that I can give you... is to, go out and meet new people.. that's all.. there's plenty of fish in the sea.. and you know.. some fishes are better than others.. who knows.. you might find someone that's better than the one you love and that might help you "Forget" the one you love.. at the moment....

there you go man.. that's my answer... meet new people.. get your mind of her, and do something that you enjoy.. such as play games.. or go out dancing... or partying.. go somewhere where you know that you won't think of her as much and that you will have your mind all busy in other matters... latez foo

Answer 2

well dear perhaps I can answer this. I was also in love with a guy but I stepped back out of it coz of some personal reasons. I wont say I have actually forgotten him...but yes, I have taken it as an opportunity bestowed by God on me to recognize what love actually is and it will come only with time. But, at the same time I dont regret anything...about anything. U dont need to forget him as u cant.. only thing u can do is to take all the things that happened in past as a part of Ur life, and learn from Ur mistakes not regret over them. Life always brings different experiences and we should learn to take them as lessons and not a mistake.
take care

Answer 3

hey, first decide whether u really wanna forget.......... if u have decided to forget then i ll give u a few tips.......
1. think abt all the damn negative points that he/she has. keep thinking abt tht.
2. love is a psychological addiction, so it will be easy to get out of it if u try to indulge urself in some other activity, or someone else.
3. life is tooo beautiful n toooooo short to be wasted in the memory of someone who does not love u. there will surely be another person who will love u more........
so ......... go ahead n enjoy......... be happy.......... no tensions in life...........ok?
best of luck

Answer 4

first of all u need to feel from deep inside that u really wanna forget...
i know lots of people tell u that u should remember his good side when ever u think of him but right now u shouldn't remember his good or bad side have a break; relax.....
concentrate on any other thing like your education, work, sports anything u like & spend along time in that
Hang out with ur friends alot stick to people who love u
whenever u think of him think of anything else & call any of ur closest friends but don't talk about him with anyone not even with urself
I'm tellin u it works I tried that myself

Answer 5

Hi there,

It will take time and patience, but you will in time recover. Having loved someone once, means that you will love again and because you are capable and able of love.

When you are still getting over someone, it is going to be hard to move on and find someone that you can love again and so this is why it is going to take time. I don't know the reasons why your relationship with this person had ended the relationship, but the important thing is that you forgive yourself for why it never worked out the way you had wanted it to.

We also tend to become infatuated with someone even when our relationship has ended prematurely with them because the love was cut short before it was fully explored. But your lover had moved on and being happy for them is also going to take time for you when you are still getting over them.

I don't think we ever forget somone we have ever loved, it will always be a part of ourselves, but when time has allowed us to move on and heal from them, then we can begin to love somone again, but just remember the person we once loved. We won't yearn for them, but we will at lest remember them.

If you are still yearning for this love, then to get over it means to also love yourself a bit more than you do and stop blaming yourself for why it didn't work out. By blaming yourself, you are going to be also disliking yourself too and not forgiving yourself for any mistakes you might have made. You are not a bad person because somone left you, they did it for their own reasons and nothing really to do with you.

Learn from the mistakes we make and move on - we are allowed to make mistakes as this helps us to grow. Stop punishing yourself for what has had happened and forgive yourself and that way you will be able to love again and not yearn for this person that has now gone from your life. It is not going to be easy to accept that the person has gone, but by doing so, you will be free of the uneccessary pain you are left with.

We have all loved and lost, so please don't feel alone - it is just a part of life and how we continue to develop as people. You will move on from this once you begin to accept the loss and stop blaming yourself for it.

Answer 6

It is really hard and you may always love him, but as time goes by
it slowly gets better, start going out having a good time. Who knows you may meet someone that you even care more for than you do him. It sure doesn't hurt to try.

Answer 7

u cant 'forget' the person u loved.u cud maby fall out of lov wit dem but every now and den da person u loved wud pop in ur head

Answer 8

Its not easy but,depends what his/she has done to you.there are times when things greatly affect our happiness in the future.if you feel you can bear what has happen then forgive depending on what you have done.if he/she has left you then Question yourself why,maybe its something he/she wouldn't bear.its as simple as that.be true in how you find your cause.then its easy either to forget or not.

Answer 9

u can't really it just takes time at first it's one of the hardest things u'll be doing something and u remember him and u get mad like get out of my head but it slowly wares off after a while but u really can't

Answer 10

get rid of everything and go out try to do stuff to forget them