I love a girl who happens to like a friend of mine, although she hasn't said whether she wants to go out with him there is a bond there, although she also likes me, but as a friend, and less then she likes him. please help, i want to go out with her badly but how can i get myslef in there?
2006-11-14 04:42:07 · 8 answers · asked by apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have found yourself in the friend zone. You need to tell her how you feel because you will not be able to sit back and watch her date another guy. Stop being her friend and try to date her. Ask her out, kiss her, be really romantic and get yourself out of the friend zone You will either get together with her or stop being her friend. You never know, she may like you more but if not then you can't be her friend, it will be to painful. Just move on and meet someone else. If it is meant to be then it will happen, you need to move on with your life and not wait around for someone that is not interested in you.
2006-11-14 04:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your feelings run deep, TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL.
If your friendship is true, TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL.
You say you "love" her and yet, I get the sense that you have not even dated her. How could you call what you feel - "love?"
Slow down there a moment, friend, and consider the FACTS:
1) She has confided in you about her feelings about your friend.
2) She has not closed the door of opportunity for you to date her.
3) Your friend has not committed to her as of yet, and
4) You are standing by; waiting and possibly hoping that their interest will wane so YOU can move in.
While I respect your desire to not interfere in an existing relationship, there is no indication of an existing relationship between this lady and your friend.
So - go for it. Ask her out.
Be honest.
Open.
And focus on the objective - not on the objects. (smile)
Thanks for writing. I wish you much success and happiness.
2006-11-14 12:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by GMarieP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation is only gonna end bad. Please quote me on that.
Don't get into relationships where the footing isn't equal from the start. You are obviously more interested in her than she is with you. You're already off to a bad start. Think about what she's feeling right now. It would take a lot of luck or shady behavior to coerce her into suddenly liking you.
Basically, if the opportunity presents itself, go for it. More power to ya.
If not, don't force it. There's a fine line between endearing and pathetic.
2006-11-14 12:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by J Bents 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that the girl likes your friend? or maybe she is just saying that coz you're the one that she really likes? Do something about , like ask her out before its too late, at least let her know how you feel, then its up to her.
If she responds positively then good for you, if not at least you tried then move on.
2006-11-14 12:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Keepingmycool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out like a friend then she will fall in love with you, Just dont be all in top of her.Talk about your life.
2006-11-14 12:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by golondris_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask your friend nicely to not go out with her and for him to tell her he isnt intersted so then she doesnt get hurt so badly and then make your move
2006-11-14 12:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club. You've joined the fraternity of men. There's little you can do except be nice to her, remain close, don't push your feelings onto her, and wait and see what happens.
2006-11-14 12:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG
NO WAY
THE SAME THING IS HAPPENING TO ME...EXCEPT IM THE GIRL...AND HE SAID HE LOVES ME BUT WERE ONLY IN 8TH GRADE...HE DONT LOVE ME HE JUST HORNY!!!
2006-11-14 12:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋