Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

I am in a long distance relationship and its going great..he plans to move here after i get my career started, which will be very soon. the only problem is myspace. we both have it and sometimes i get insecure when i read comments from both sexes suggesting the plans of the weekends (b/c i cant enjoy the plan w/ him) or a girl commenting "love ya buddy." I know its innocent but it just bothers me b/c i did comment the I<3 u before but he erased it, commenting that his male friends made/make fun of him and that i should write that in private, which we do both in emails and phone conversations. we are each other's #1 friend list. His myspace dating status is "single" but his "here for" is "friends only." should i feel insecure and should i let him know how i feel? thank you in advance!

2006-11-14 04:41:58 · 5 answers · asked by claria 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

And if they did, why did they do it? Besides being super drunk- were they fantasizing or had they been with that person a lot that day or something like that?

2006-11-14 04:41:52 · 16 answers · asked by sister 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm just not sure if Im pleasing my husband enough. Just wondering how many times everyone else dose it.

2006-11-14 04:41:39 · 21 answers · asked by Issues 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 04:41:09 · 7 answers · asked by Polash 2 in Singles & Dating

In sense of the wife being more aggressive. Do men enjoy it? do they long for more surprises?? Any tips for how to keep them coming back for more or wanting you???

2006-11-14 04:41:09 · 21 answers · asked by betrayed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I work at a local Movie Theatre and I am 17 years old. I work with several males whom I also go to school with. We are always joking around having a good time, but a lot of times they will constantly tease me. I am known as the good, Christian girl that doesn't drink/smoke etc. Well, anyways they are always teasing me, coming up and grabbing my sides or poking my sides/back, grabbing my shoulders, sexual innuendos etc. I know they are guys and it is almost expected by why are they constantly teasing me? It's always when they are together too, because when it is just us they joke around with me but not as much. One of the guys told another guy at work that he thought I was "hot and beautiful" which of course I don't believe, yet he goes out with another girl who is willing to go further than I, but they aren't together anymore. The guy that said this also comes up and hugs me at work. Is this behavior inappropriate at work and how should I take this teasing?

2006-11-14 04:40:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is is sexy or repulsive? If it is repulsive, I think the 'can of biscuits' needs to be told. Don't you? To me it's like seeing a guys 'plumbers crack'. It just ain't pleasant!

2006-11-14 04:39:58 · 28 answers · asked by onecharliecat 4 in Singles & Dating

actually, i love to collect the coins of different countries,,,,,
i lost one of coins and was searching from my dustbin, my elder sister tauned me and calling me mad, this is not the first time she did this , she is trying to proof me mad by searching any excuses.i forbade her she asked her boy friend to hit me.

2006-11-14 04:39:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband says he just won't get anything for Christmas, I think he should work it off so that he's not left out at Christmas. What do you think???

2006-11-14 04:39:09 · 42 answers · asked by Mommee22 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband did something that really hurt me and he knows it really hurt me and the pain from it will always be there. for the last month he changed the bad things he was doing. Now he is going back to many of the bad things he did and even some extra things he didn't do befor. Trying to lie to me and a new one getting angery with me very easily. He had really changed the attemps to lie to me and had become totaly honest with me. Now he is going back to it. I really thought he wanted us to work out, but ever since I have forgiven him for what he did he has started going back to the lies and now yelling. What should I do? I forgave him shouldn't he continue being good to me now? I really love him and I thought our love, his understand of what he did and willingness to change would be good reasons to stay with him even if what he did really hurt. What happened? Was I wrong to stay? Why is he being this way?

2006-11-14 04:38:34 · 16 answers · asked by desiree d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 04:38:32 · 6 answers · asked by michael g 1 in Friends

i just have so much trouble meeting new people when i go out........

2006-11-14 04:38:23 · 2 answers · asked by Sweet G 1 in Singles & Dating

what are you expectations, what a guy can do to you to make you feel better and something of that sort, please help?

2006-11-14 04:37:58 · 25 answers · asked by Ayati 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Lets say the guy is attractive, but then started losing hair really quickly. Would you still be attrcated to the guy?

2006-11-14 04:36:58 · 22 answers · asked by Jim J 1 in Singles & Dating

i found out my wife of 22yrs was talking to a co worker on her cell phone and on our computer for the last six mounts.
when i confronted her she was shocked, but swears she never had any phyiscle contact with him,.. he was only someone to talk to....the emotional part of this whole thing is killing me because i love her to death..i did'nt ask her to leave because of the embaressmant it would had on our family and also because i love her, she says she loves me and just got caught in a momant, whatever that means???
can i trust her again?

2006-11-14 04:36:39 · 26 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister got mad because I leave the toilet seat up. She then asked why us men can't aim. I said well, when it is a stream you can aim it, but those last few drips cannot be aimed. She thought i was lying but its true. Those last few drips cannot be aimed. We are doing you a favor by putting the seat up. At least you wont have to sit in a puddle of piss.

2006-11-14 04:36:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well just the other night my boyfriend ask me if we were ever going to do it!! I was like why? and he replied that he wanted me to be he's first girl to have sexual entercourse with, and he said that he wanted just me as the only person, who could break his virginity and No one else just because he is seriously in love with me, and wouldn't want to do it with the wrong person, so I was like let me think about this because I am certainly not a virgin and I will feel alittle bad if I did something. I would regret in my life, taking this away from him, but he seems so eager and every time we are close making out he trys, but I end up pulling away just because I have feeling of not taking that from him, so I trying to found out what I should do? any suggestion would help me cause I can't hold him off for long.. But the truth is I really love him, but i just don't want to rush in and take that away from him and I found some ways to have him look at me from another point of view beside sex.

2006-11-14 04:34:45 · 14 answers · asked by Tilly 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 20 yrs old with a military man who's now serving over in Kuwait, wont be back till February. Military is a stable life because it is a Set pay check, AWESOME health benefits and the BAH (housing allowance) is awesome. He would get a 15,000 re enlistment bonus, which isn't that great but hey its something. if he stays in he wants to become a physicians assistant, then a Dr. Right now he is a pharmacy tech, that almost has his bachelors in Health management.
The thing is that this deployment has been real rough on him and I, and we have an amazing little 3 yr old daughter that really really misses her daddy!He is up for re enlistment should I ask him not to? I feel like family should be more important then financial stability yet that is something that you need to get by. its a real hard situation! I am not good at this long distance thing at all, and neither is he. I dint know If i could make it through another one.
WHAT TO DO?
thanks in advance

2006-11-14 04:34:03 · 15 answers · asked by Aphrodite 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have this friend she is like a sister to me and her bf broke up with her last night because she would not have a 3some with me her and him she not mad at me but what do i do, he not hit on me it was a shock to me when she told me what do i tell her

2006-11-14 04:33:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

About 7% of the population in North America seem to be naturals, and about another 3% manage to figure it out before they undermine their marriages to the point they will never be truly happy, but most of us have to find out the hard way by going though one bad match after another until we start asking ourselves what makes a good relationship work. This board has convinced me that the healthy 10% do not post here for the most part.

2006-11-14 04:32:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to take my life buy dont have the guts to do it, i just get tird of liveing day to day

2006-11-14 04:32:43 · 31 answers · asked by stanley7640 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in a relationshipe for 5 yrs so I'm new at this now. But I met this guy and accidentally gave him the wrong number but he tracked me down through some people, called me, and we met up for dinner and some drinks. Things went well, and he called me the next day and the convo went pretty well again. But he didnt ask to see me again and I didn't hear from him last night. I know he worked last night so that is prob why...but he didnt ask to see me again yet. Bad sign or is this normal?? He could call again right? I think he was interested, he kept leaning in to talk to me, touching my arm...what do u think? And I'm not a teenager although I might sound like one right now. I'm 22.

2006-11-14 04:32:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He is 22 yrs old and i am 21 yrs old. He wants to wait five more years to get married. What he wants is not what i want. I want to get married like in two years and have a baby by the time im 27. Is this wrong of me? What should i do?

2006-11-14 04:31:34 · 23 answers · asked by Lucy 2 in Singles & Dating

up into our driveway my Dad said "That car is enormous! Can he handle it?" Do any of you have one too big to handle or is it just a matter of experience.

2006-11-14 04:31:03 · 26 answers · asked by JoyDivision 3 in Singles & Dating

Normally he would go tomorrow to a footballmatch with a friend of his and he was really excited about it. But just now, his friend had to cancel 'cause of a family-problem. My boyfriend asked me out to the footballgame so he wouldn't be alone. I love football so I said yes. But I can see he's sad about it and that he would rather went with his friend. Something I can totally understand, 'cause wich guy would want to go to a footballmatch with a girl.
Now, is there something I could do tomorrow to make that evening more pleasant for him? (and no, we can't have sex. I'm in the time of the month...)

2006-11-14 04:30:55 · 13 answers · asked by CoffeeAddict 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 04:30:50 · 7 answers · asked by Nasty_Guy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Although they are the better liars, many women out there are so gullible. Last night i called up a girl i met last week. when i first met her, she didnt give me any play. i had on some plain looking clothes so she probably thought i was a broke black man with kids. But when she saw me getting into my Suburban with 24 inch rims, all that changed (women are goldiggers) she gave me her number.
Because you women love for us to treat you like sh*t, i didnt call her. i waited until she got the guts to call me. Then i went out with her. I found out that she was one to those types of girls that says she wants a "good man" and that "all men are dogs." she was only lookinng for a man to treat her like nothing.
after i had sex with her, she left. i dont plan on calliing her again.
Sorry if i offended any of you, but bad women make bad men. i was once a nice guy but years later ive changed.

2006-11-14 04:30:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went out with this girl to the movie, but I'm not sure whether if she took it as a date. And so I'm not sure whether if she is willing to be my girlfriend, what should I do? Should I ask her friend to find out whether if she likes me or not, and if she doesn't it won't ruin our friendship?

2006-11-14 04:30:14 · 12 answers · asked by Jared C 1 in Singles & Dating

All of my family and her mom and dad want us to be engaged for a year before we marry. She is planning on moving in with me and moving up to NC when I transfer in January. I'm going with the Marines so I'm going to lose my housing allowance unless I get married. If we are not married, we will have to pay rent using our basic monthly income. She only makes $977/mo with a 2 year old to raise and I will only be making around $1700/mo. I will get an extra $795/mo if we are married. Also, she is giving up a 100% scholarship to move out-of-state with me. She won't be able to get in-state tuition in NC unless she is my legal spouse, not to mention the dozens of scholarships available only to military spouses. Should we just make it work for the next 6 mos until the real wedding date after we lived with each other, should we go to the courthouse and legally marry now and have a "fake" wedding for our family later, or should we just elope before January and invite the family to join us?

2006-11-14 04:29:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He lies about strange things like being a kickboxer and winning fights he also lyed about his age and having a top of the range car but I found his provisional licence by accident which proved he hadn't even passed his test let alone got a car, the provisional licence also showed that he had lied about his age by just 1 year. he isnt a bad man and we love each other dearly ive told him that i love him more when he's just him not trying to be flash and i thought i'd got through to him untill he told me another silly lie the other day. i really dont want to give up on him because of this but i need some sort of answer to help him because i cant carry on with these lies forever!

2006-11-14 04:28:52 · 21 answers · asked by sairaxy 1 in Singles & Dating