How to make her my girlfriend?

Question

I went out with this girl to the movie, but I'm not sure whether if she took it as a date. And so I'm not sure whether if she is willing to be my girlfriend, what should I do? Should I ask her friend to find out whether if she likes me or not, and if she doesn't it won't ruin our friendship?

Answer 1

Ask her out. What have you got to lose? When you die, no one will remember.

Answer 2

Hey the last thing you should do I think is have the friend ask for you! The girl you like will take it as you are too shy and not confident enough to ask yourself. So what you should to is ask her if she would like to go out on a date with you? If she say yes then that means you likes you in that way, If she say we will see that means it not a date but you have a good chance of making it a date, but in all of the cases you need to make the first move. I hope this helps you! It has helped me before! But remember be confident and be yourself!

Answer 3

There really isn't a how to guide on making her your girlfriend, but you can ask her. Ask her if she would like to go on another date with you, at least that way she will know you considered it a date the first time? Be yourself and all should go well. If you start involving her friends by asking their opinion, you may not get the answers you are looking for.

Answer 4

If you went to the movies and you held hands, hugged, or had any type of physical contact that was reciprocated (very important), then it is safe to say that she may of seen it as a date.

Now, with out knowing the nature of your relationship with this girl, I am going to assume that she has labeled you the dreaded "friend."

If she refers to being close to you as a "brother" or "best friend" she is not going to become your girlfriend any time soon. I am sorry, but women do not usually date people they feel that way about.

Answer 5

Just ask her whether she's interested in dating you. Simply asking that won't ruin your friendship. And if it does, she really needs to calm down lol.

Answer 6

I think you should ask her if she likes you or not. You'll never know until you ask. When you ask her, don't force it. Let things come naturally and make her feel comfortable, that way she won't get nervous and start avoiding you. Be polite, but straightforward. Don't beat around the bush... Good luck.

Answer 7

you do have point you don't know were we stand all the time the best thing for you to do is ask her yourself find out how she feels, see if she considered it a date, if she doesn't like you its more likely it wont ruin your friendship just don't pour your heart out to her just yet

Answer 8

if you are unsure ask her how she feels about you. if she likes you as more than friends then ask her out on a date....but make sure you ask her using the word date so she knows its a date

dont get the friend to ask....you ask her personally....

Answer 9

i think you should take her out a few more time, test the water and a way of speaking. go there the basic conversation, you know if she has been having a good time spending time together..... pay close attention to how she answer your question. if you few like it is going somewhere ask her if she would like to go farther with y'all relationship.

Answer 10

no, just sit there and wonder about it for the rest of your life HELLOOOOO DE DE DEEEEE ask what is the worst that could happen she says no? big whoop move on and find a better one with a hotter a.s.s.