Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

I try to bring some excitement here, am i doing a good job?

2006-11-09 08:43:12 · 7 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 32.. was with a man for about 8 mons. I really miss him now and I needed time to figure out in life where I wanted to be. At that time I was fresh coming out of a divorce. Well I now am ready. I sent him a card to let him know I think about him.. blah blah.. ! He knows I miss him.. but now hes telling me that he needs time because he went though some crap when we were apart. He answers his phone and we talk sometimes.... And He has told me " Just give me time" Any suggestions to make him think more.. lol

2006-11-09 08:42:55 · 5 answers · asked by softball13sgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 08:42:23 · 3 answers · asked by trish_womans_champion619 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my best friend is a girl (i'm a guy) we are 15 (mature) and have known each other for 2 years. Recently-for about the last two weeks- she has been asking for hugs alot, almost every day, and keeps saying she loves me. She had never done either of these before. But the thing is, she has a boyfriend (16), so I dont know what is up with the hugging etc. all of a sudden. I like her more than a friend and I have to tell her (I will wait till she breaks up with the guy), but I want to know, why might she be getting more touchy so much so quickly? If I am walking her home she puts her arm around me, and the other day I just made the flippant comment; hey, the cat's giving me a back rub, none of ye are that nice (to a group of friends) and she said "I'd give you a back rub". I find this behaviour odd since she has a bf (she isnt like this infront of him).

2006-11-09 08:41:58 · 18 answers · asked by flaminious 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has confided in me that she does not like to be touched at all... even by her husband.. I thought it was weird and thought I would ask if anyone had any suggestions

2006-11-09 08:40:47 · 21 answers · asked by Tammy N 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Used to work with him 8 or 9 years ago. Just wondering how he's doing.

2006-11-09 08:40:12 · 3 answers · asked by beemerbuff 1 in Friends

hi, just wondering if anyone could tell me of anywhere in Co. Donegal (in the Letterkenny area) where I could have my wedding ceremony? My husband to be and I have different religions and would like to get married somewhere other than a church or registry office. Could anyone give us some info???

2006-11-09 08:39:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My cousin died Saturday night. Today was the funral. The family is taking it pretty hard as she was only 25. I want to be thier rock, but I feel like I could lose it at any moment. Any suggestions how I can be strong for them?

2006-11-09 08:39:02 · 12 answers · asked by Jester 5 in Family

Ok, so about 2 years and a half a guy started in school that came from Canada (I'm from South America), but he's originally from South America, and I liked him since the first time I saw him but never had a friendly nor nothing else relationship, we talked two times but never more. A few days ago I find out that he is going to Canada, but today missing 9 days for him to leave I founded out that he is going to live to Canada. I was shocked, and still I am, and I don't know what to do because I really like him, and everytime I cross by him he is always staring at me (since last year) and we are constantly making eye contact. What am I supposed to do, does he like me back? I'm lost and need some advice, and I appreciate tremenduously the time you took to read this. Thank a lot.

2006-11-09 08:38:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 08:38:50 · 2 answers · asked by Vig 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm not fat, but i'm not skinny. i have short red hair and freckles. i'm very shy when i get around a group but can talk away when i'm one on one and after i get to know you. why are guys looking for skinny size 0 girls with long blonde hair and who treat them like sh*t when there are girls like me who can treat you like a king? is it because we are not "trophy wife" material?

2006-11-09 08:38:29 · 12 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. The sex isn't bad but its just been normal. Same positions over and over and over. Its getting old. I want to suggest some new positions but need some ideas. What ideas does anybody have for me? Also what else could I do that would spice things up and blow his mind? If you want to be detailed that's okay. By the way I am 21 and he is 27. Just so none of you think I am under age. Need as much help as I can get?

2006-11-09 08:37:04 · 16 answers · asked by Wondering 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some advice I think she really afaid to have wild sex with her husbend and he really whats it. I gave her some favor lotion to rub on him and herself. I believe she has'nt use it. What do u say to a person like her. I'am only try to help her. Because of what she tells me. She won't look at pron she thinks everything is drity. Her husbend had affair on her 10yrs. ago. He been clean everysense. He just whats some wild sex from his wife. As a friend am trying to help her out.

2006-11-09 08:36:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am only 5 ft 6 and 114 pounds and almost flat chested, small hips, and small butt.Hubby has mentioned that maybe i should work out more, consider breast implants and see a nutritionest.My doctor told me i am only 18 yrs old and that i will probably fill in on my own in next 2 yrs.My husband is 24 yrs old and i want him to look at me like he does those other girls he see's in video's with full bodys? am i too young for surgery?

2006-11-09 08:36:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a man almost two years ago. He's an extremely busy surgeon and has full custody of his child. It was lust at first sight but after a few months he told me he thought we should focus more on each other than sex all the time, I agreed but it never worked because the attraction was so strong. As time went on & he got busier, things didn't deepen emotionally, things grew father apart, not because of me either. Long story short, I want a real relationship and he says "he can't give me what I want" is that a male line or something? BUT he can never let me go. I've asked him to define what I am to him and he won't but says we're more than friends. We have talked for the last year and have gone on several dates but HAVE NOT slept together-him proving to me he isn't just after sex w/me. If he doesn't hear from me he always texts me to make sure I'm still there. He admits to dating others, as I do. Says he's to busy but wishes he could see me. I'm just confused, does he want me or not?

2006-11-09 08:36:31 · 8 answers · asked by BJ 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been married three years, and have never used birth controll. We're in the process of adopting, and we hit a snag with our worker. My husband was discussing the situation with his mom, and she said we should just go do fertility treatments. I'm not interested in artifically creating a child when there are plenty of kids out there who need parents! We're also not interested in pointing fingers if one of us turns out to be infertal.

I see the was she reacts to my brother in law's step son vs the child they believe is his bio child. It's total night and day, and my main fear is that my adopted kids will sense the difference between the way they are treated vs the way the bio (or alleged bio) grandchildren are treated.

2006-11-09 08:35:55 · 27 answers · asked by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 in Family

My best friend asked her boyfriend to help pay for rent. He's been basically living with her ever since she got her apartment.(About 3-4 months). He doesn't go anywhere else but back to his mother's house to get more clothes. He eats,sleeps and showers at her apartment.

Now she just asked him to help pitch in rent money and he got all pissed at her. Was she wrong for asking money?

2006-11-09 08:35:50 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for 2. I am 23 and he is 25. He is the best thing that ever happened to me, and everyday I think about how I am so happy to call him my husband. We are now trying to conceive our first baby and are so happy to be adding to our family.

The problem is people constantly feel the need to tell me I am stupid for marrying so young and even stupider to have a child at 23/24 years old. They think because I am young I will be bad mom, end up divorced or on welfare. Apparently 23 is like being 16 now a days.

Its so uncalled for because we own a home, have great careers and have college educations and we have enough money to have several children. Plus we are very happy together!

I hear a lot that I am naive and unmotivated for wanted to be a wife and mother before I turn 30. People are anti-marriage and children unless you are 30+!

How can I grow a solid backbone and stop being so sensitive when I am 100% happy with my life?

2006-11-09 08:35:49 · 16 answers · asked by PrettyWifey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Haven't listened enough to wifes needs. She says shes half and half on staying. I am trying to get her to stay because i love her with all heart and soul. What can i do now? I know she loves me and she is scared. Trying hard to be a better man. Any womenly advice? I truely love her like i have loved no other. lovesick

2006-11-09 08:35:41 · 18 answers · asked by Mr. Lucky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would that go against me or would it be o.k

2006-11-09 08:35:37 · 6 answers · asked by Ms. Z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mum and little brother and sister want to move back to our home town, but i am in college here where i live now and happy here, but mum wants me to move with her, but i want to stay here, she has asked me but she sed "i won't get my child benifits for you then". so i said whats more important? money or my happiness and she couldn't choose so she said both, now should i move with my mum or stay put where i am?

2006-11-09 08:34:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have this guy friend and we used to talk all the time. but for a couple of weeks now hes just ignoring me and now i found out hes having a party. hes inviting my bestfriend who he doesnt talk to, but not me. i having done or said anything to piss him off. wut should i do?

2006-11-09 08:34:41 · 7 answers · asked by shannon 1 in Friends

R they checking her out or is something wrong with her? I mean im not ugly but i just cant help but wonder???LOL

2006-11-09 08:34:11 · 15 answers · asked by ms.pink 1 in Singles & Dating

Lets just say that a girl I know got pregnant during a seperation period from her husband. Now knowing that the child is not his, she has led him to believe it is by altering due dates. She has even gone as far as demanding that they go to marriage counseling to make their family work. I don't know if I should intervene by telling him what she's up to. I know its not any of my business but I don't think its fair to him, especially if he really doesn't want to be there. He feels obligated due to his "responsibility". Any suggestions...or leave it alone?

2006-11-09 08:34:02 · 15 answers · asked by caasi2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-09 08:33:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why will he talk to my friends about me but he won't talk to me???..We make exellent eye-contact and I say hey almost all the time to him-and he says hey back and acts like he's gonna say something else but he doesn't....he just won't carry on a conversation
Like today, he told one of my friends he was thinking about asking me out..Why won't he talk TO me? Is he just shy or what?

2006-11-09 08:33:46 · 36 answers · asked by .::country gurl in a 4X4::. 2 in Singles & Dating

My BF & I went out & had too many drinks, but a good time was still had by all. Back at my place we had the best sex of our relationship.

The condom broke.

I freaked out...not in a meltdown kind of way...we were laughing about it & talking. One thing led to another & his ex-girlfriends came up. There aren't a lot - he's 31 & been with only 5 women. At one point, I let him know I'd heard enough. I tried to listen with an open, jealous-free mind for as long as I could. But, for the love of all that's holy, at some point I'd had enough. I was drunk, feeling weird about the condom & just tired of sitting there listening to it. To his credit, he listens to whatever I have to say about my exes.
He went to lay down & I sat on my couch for a sec to make sure I didn't go to bed 'crazy' b/c of the whole night's events. I passed out. Woke up at 5am & he had left. Upset b/c I had "slept" on the couch. He felt bad when he woke up & I was gone so he left to make me feel hurt too?

Thoughts?

2006-11-09 08:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by Grá 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband came home and I asked him if I could go to spend the night with mom and he said I could go if I made some meals for him and gave him some flat plates. He said he wouldn't use the microwave without having flat plates because he says the curves on the plate cause the microwaves to heat unevenly or something like that. I told him that mom could pick me up and we could go looking for them and then he hid my mittens. He says if I can find the mittens I can go with mom to the store. He knows I don't like to go out in the cold without them. Where would a man hide his wife's mittens and where can I get flat plates? I just want my husband to be happy and I want to be able to do some things with mom tonight and tommorow.

2006-11-09 08:33:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was sat on the floor, she was behind me!

2006-11-09 08:33:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has started asking me questions about how I feel about him and where I want out relationship to go to. I have fallen for him. But do u think he is in love with me? I mean, do men fall in love quickly??
Your imput is appreciated.

2006-11-09 08:33:06 · 9 answers · asked by ally_2802 2 in Singles & Dating