Why!?!?!?!?

Question

Why will he talk to my friends about me but he won't talk to me???..We make exellent eye-contact and I say hey almost all the time to him-and he says hey back and acts like he's gonna say something else but he doesn't....he just won't carry on a conversation
Like today, he told one of my friends he was thinking about asking me out..Why won't he talk TO me? Is he just shy or what?

Answer 1

He is SH1T scared to ask you out!! he really likes you allot but every time he wants to make conversation he swallows his tounge. I garentee you when he goes home he says to himself, "DAMN I SHOULD HAVE JUST ASKED HER!" he is very shy!! try make him think u like sum1 else then he will speak up QUIKLY!

Answer 2

Yes. He's shy. Next time you see him, you start the conversation. Say hey and something else, like "where are you going" Maybe that will lead to a conversation. And maybe he has a msn or yahoo messenger? That's a good way to get to know the basics of a shy person. If you don't think he's shy, maybe he wants you to wondor why on earth he won't talk. It depends if he's shy or sociable. I hope I could help. GoOd LuCk.

Answer 3

Hey? You like that address? Oh well, but really you both must be young, why don't you initiate the first conversation, why do you think it is up to him. Maybe he just can't stammer out the words he wants to say, so next time just say hi there we're in (class here) together how do you like (the teacher here) and so on.

Make it easier for him to find you easy to talk to. LOL.

Answer 4

There's a simple reason that guys are reluctant to talk to girls...and this reason works the other way, too. Simply put: One is afraid of looking like a total putz in front of the other one. This person can talk to your friends because he doesn't have the same feeling about them that he has about you. He's afraid that if he starts speaking to you 1) he gonna say something you might not like, or 2) he'll say something you might like & have no way of continuing past that point. Fear of rejection is paramount at this time in both of your lives...right behind fashion consciousness, knowledge of technology, peer pressure and dealing with the 'rents. (Yes, I'm 38 and I still call them 'rents--get over it!) My best advice is to corner him someplace (a dark closet is best, ha ha) and tell him how you feel. You might not want to put your neck out in that way for the same reason he doesn't want to, but if ONE of you doesn't speak up...well...Let me know how it goes! *S*

Answer 5

Hes probably shy u should try 2 start the conversation yourself as he probably has no idea of wot 2 talk 2 u about.

Answer 6

Just because guys are guys doesn't mean they don't get shy too. Do your friends tell you what they say about you? Are they good things? If so then he is shy and maybe he's waiting for the right time. If you feel it's takin to long then you do it!!!!!!

Answer 7

I would take a guess.. and say that he is actually shy... and if he´s asking your friends about you.. it might be that he wants to be certain of the outcome and your answer.. before he goes along and invite you out.. he might want to see that he´s not going to end up as a jerk...

Answer 8

honey dont worry he will ask u but maybe he feels shy alittle bit or maybe he is afraid that u wont agree and that may make him feel sad and he doesnt wanna lose u so be patient and try to be more friendly with him to give him the courage he needs to talk

Answer 9

Yes indeed, he is Shy and doesn't know when it is the time to speak with you, wait, be patient, otherwise think about you giving the first step. that should break the ice for the first contact..

Answer 10

Yes, he's either shy or he's afraid of being rejected. Go talk to him or give him more of an opening to talk to you. Heck, drop a book in front of him if you have to!