Too young for plastic surgery?????

Question

I am only 5 ft 6 and 114 pounds and almost flat chested, small hips, and small butt.Hubby has mentioned that maybe i should work out more, consider breast implants and see a nutritionest.My doctor told me i am only 18 yrs old and that i will probably fill in on my own in next 2 yrs.My husband is 24 yrs old and i want him to look at me like he does those other girls he see's in video's with full bodys? am i too young for surgery?

My hubby jokes that the only thing that attracted him to me was my pretty face and that makes me feel worse.

Answer 1

I say.....be who you are and be proud of it! You are young, and may grow to appreciate the body you have. Once you have surgery, you can't take it back. It's a serious decision, and one that should be made for NO ONE but yourself. Not even your hubby. It's your body. Your hubby should love you for who you are, or he's not the partner you want for the rest of your life. If he didn't love you as is, why did he marry you To change you? Hope not....or you are in trouble.

Think for yourself, you are old enough to decide. But make sure the decision is yours alone and no one elses. I personally think you should wait. I didn't get my c cups until I was 27.

Answer 2

Not to sounds bitchy, but your husband sounds like a jerk. A husband should love you for who you are...not how you look. And they should NEVER put you down physically, emotionally or any other way.
To your questions...18 is pretty young, but doctors will still do surgery. What you might want to think about is having children. I had my first child at 21 and my boobs went from a 34 A to a 34 D. There was some serious growth and stretching. Granted it was only temporary, but imagine if I would have gotten implants before I got pg. After I had my second child, I got breast implants at age 24. I love them and the guys love them too. But if your man is ogling over other woman, changing yourself isn't going to help much. There will always be some one skinnier, prettier, richer, smarter etc....find happiness with who you are now. Everything else will follow....Good luck and if you have any questions about the surgery...email me. [e-mail]

Answer 3

Yes you are still too young for something as menial as plastic surgery on your ears. Wait until you are done growing. I am willing to be that by then, you won't think they are so bad. I think a lot of kids around your age feel the same way about some part of their body. I know I did - I hated my smile and how my mouth looked. I still don't like it, but it is what it is.

Answer 4

Man, your hubby sounds like a prime catch there. IMO, he should be happy to have a wife so eager to make him happy and complain less about her body.

Yes, you prolly are a little too young for plastic surgery. Give it a few years. And remember if you intend to have kids your breasts, hips, and butt will definitely fill out when you get pregnant. Having breast implants can make it more difficult and in rare cases, impossible to breast feed if you intend to do that. Most people continue to grow and develop until their mid-20's. Give it some time.

And tell the hubby to grow up. He's got a good thing going and looks should be the least of his worries. He knew what you looked like when he started dating you, when he asked you to marry him, and when he said I do. He has no right to complain now.

Answer 5

Well first of all your hubby should love you for who YOU are and what YOU look like. No one is perfect...I'm sorry for my opinion but I'm sure he isn't perfect.
But your doctor is right. You will grow alittle more...but not alot more. I grew another 1/2 cup size it seems around age 22 or 23. I'd wait a couple more years. And research ALOT.
Your 18 it'll take a couple more years for you to develop your curves. When I was 18 I was 5'8" and 115 lbs. Tiny waist, small butt, and larger boobs. Now, 30 lbs. later I have curvy hips and a round butt and alittle larger boobs. I give it a year before you notice the changes your body will go through to make you more womanly instead of teenish. Trust me.

Answer 6

I hope your hubby is just joking' or he sounds extremely cruel to toil with your emotions in this way. You are a very young and you seem insecure. When your husband jokes about these things, it just justifies your insecurities. Tell him he needs to be supportive, because you are feeling sensitive about your body lately and when he makes these sorts of comments, it makes you feel worse about yourself.

You should never have breast implants or cosmetic surgery to please any man....please remember that. Because if it doesn't work out the way you want it and you realise you just did it for your husband, you will feel very resentful not only at your husband, but at yourself for being emotionally pushed into it.

Please think carefully before going ahead and only have surgery, if it's what you truly want for yourself. HTH : )

Answer 7

If you plan on having children, do NOT HAVE plastic surgery YET. Most women's body's change in many ways after having children. Often, women's busts will enlarge to some small degree.
Having breast implants may prevent you from breast-feeding.

At 18, your body is not completely done growing.

Answer 8

I am sorry but your husband is a prick. He should love you the way you are and suggesting that you get breast implants is absolutely unacceptable. A husband should tell her wife she is beautiful and do positive things for her self-esteem, not make her feel badly about her God-given body.

I am not sure why you and he got married and you may think I am overreacting but you should get out. You are young and beautiful -- yes, you are, just the way you are. Find someone who deserves you. Your husband does not.

Answer 9

My husband says crap like that all the time and I really think a lot of it is just to make you feel ugly or that you'd never be able to find anyone else if you left. I don't know if it's intentional but some men do it as like a security blanket. I wouldn't be so self concious about it. You're body is beautiful to him because you are beautiful to him. Just relax and try to shrug off his stupid comments.

Answer 10

Well first off, hes your hubby and he shouldnt be telling you to change your body hun, its not right. Also with as slim as a figure as your mking yourself out to have, implants wouldnt look right, theyd look too fake, and would cause you back problems. Your husband needs to learn to deal with what you have. He should love you for you. And also maybe tell him it hurts you when he jokes about it. But yeah, you are too young. And i dont recommend you get them.