My best friend asked her boyfriend to help pay for rent. He's been basically living with her ever since she got her apartment.(About 3-4 months). He doesn't go anywhere else but back to his mother's house to get more clothes. He eats,sleeps and showers at her apartment.
Now she just asked him to help pitch in rent money and he got all pissed at her. Was she wrong for asking money?
2006-11-09 08:35:50 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm always at her apartment and never do i see him buying food. She makes him dinner when he gets home from work...
but has a problem re-heating it himself.
2006-11-09 08:43:34 · update #1
she has enough money to pay for rent herself...but she wants him to help too.
2006-11-09 09:03:49 · update #2
No i dont think she was wrong. If he was living there for free and she asked nothing of him before, then she had every right to ask for help from him. He shouldn't have gotten mad if he wants to live for free he should stay with his mother at all times.
2006-11-09 08:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if he is a real man and is staying there he shouldnt have any problem pitching in tell her to talk to him about it and if he doesnt like to pitch in at the very least then find someone else who is willing to help out
2006-11-09 08:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! she's not wrong for asking for money and he is staying at her apartment if he has nowhere else to stay but his mom's house then he should choose..either help her pay for rent or move out.But then again she shouldn't just ask him for rent money she should be responsible to pay for it herself.
2006-11-09 08:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO not at all, send him back to Mommy's responsibility cause it seems like if he needs to grow up and until he can maintain himself he should left his mommy, pure little baby.
Dash the hell of him out of your room girl, he's there just for your money, he is no kind of friend but a blood sucker!!!
2006-11-09 08:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by BABY BOY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she should totally ask for some help with the payment. But realize that this officially means that he's living with her. It might freak him out a bit...
2006-11-09 08:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by xdannifenx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, she wasn't wrong...he's pissed because the free ride is coming to an end. Tell him to go back home with mommy until he grows up!
2006-11-09 08:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! He is wrong. If he basically lives there, he should pay ATLEAST 50/50 of it. He shouldn't get mad. Your friend should be careful, he may be trying to use her to live there and...
2006-11-09 08:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by J&B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losers.
How do they even get with a girl at all?
Is it the sweet lies?
Is it the bird with a broken wing thing?
Just kick him out.
2006-11-09 08:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move with me and you don't have to pay at all , I'm the men. But she has the right to let him know to pay and he should participate.
2006-11-09 08:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if he is there earing up her food, using her utilities the least he could do is help her out on the rent, cheap bastard
2006-11-09 08:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋