Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

She was reading one of those trashy romance novels. Its not like she was just looking at porn which is pictures and take no thought this was literature and seeping into her mind. I hate the way they portray men and some of the romantic crap is just unrealistic. I wish women were able to separate fantasy from reality like men who watch porn do. My low self esteem just can't handle the added expectation these romance novels are forcing on me.
I've already searched the house and found a stash of this filth. I also confronted her about it and she thinks there is nothing wrong with it. What should I do? Should I leave? We have two lovely children. I would hate for them to find that filth. Oh, what should I do?
Please, please help me!

2006-11-09 09:09:05 · 55 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Should you not even consider marriage with the person? I read this in an advice column today, and this woman literally could not stand her husband's 10 year old son. He only visited on weekends, and she couldn't even stand that. So, my question is, if you're involved with someone and you can accept them but not their offspring, then is the relationship pretty much guaranteed to fail?

2006-11-09 09:08:55 · 19 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtkKi992WZ_5xbYvf2RYaKzsy6IX?qid=20061109134617AAAox2M

He also made a W at me. Some people say that means to read between the lines, but what does "read between the lines" mean?

2006-11-09 09:07:42 · 18 answers · asked by Serene 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

I am searching for Preeti - she did her schooling in Hisar, Haryana and moved to Lucknow after her marriage. Any information about her will be much appreciated.

Thanks.

2006-11-09 09:07:29 · 4 answers · asked by lonely_searching_preet(i) 2 in Friends

My GF and I are on a "break". We have a 3 year old daughter together, and untill recently we lived together. It was her idea for us to be apart but still together, but she is acting like she is single.
She frequents clubs and bars, but gets extremly mad if I am going to do the same. She goes out with her friends, including at least one guy that is intrested in her, but gets mad if I see my friends that she doesn't like. We will make plans to see eachother, only to have her "forget" about them and go out with someone else or she goes out the night before and then says she is to tired to see me the next day.
Has she decided that she no longer wants to be on a "break" and just isn't telling me? I want to be with her, to work on our relationship and get married, but every time I bring "us" up she says that she has her own issues to work out first and can't deal with me right now. Then I don't hear from her for several days.
Should I just force the issue and get my answer or wait?

2006-11-09 09:07:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my best friend is a girl (i'm a guy) we are 15 (mature) and have known each other for 2 years. Recently-for about the last two weeks- she has been asking for hugs alot, almost every day, and keeps saying she loves me. She had never done either of these before. But the thing is, she has a boyfriend (16), so I dont know what is up with the hugging etc. all of a sudden. I like her more than a friend and I have to tell her (I will wait till she breaks up with the guy), but I want to know, why might she be getting more touchy so much so quickly? If I am walking her home she puts her arm around me, and the other day I just made the flippant comment; hey, the cat's giving me a back rub, none of ye are that nice (to a group of friends) and she said "I'd give you a back rub". I find this behaviour odd since she has a bf (she isnt like this infront of him).

2006-11-09 09:06:51 · 14 answers · asked by flaminious 1 in Singles & Dating

Bad girl looking for good guy

2006-11-09 09:05:37 · 7 answers · asked by Babygurl Alex!! 1 in Singles & Dating

i think that the house he's staying at has marijuana in it. hsi brother smokes all the time, and i know for a fact that it will be in the house, meanwhile he's trying to get full custody ( which wont happen) for my son to live at this house. Am i just being petty ? from what i heard nobody will care about the whole arijuana thing, it's california .

2006-11-09 09:05:31 · 10 answers · asked by balanced_lil_angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, he is my guy friend, and everyone says that he likes me, and I told him that he's funny, nice, and that he is a good friend! Do you think that he likes me, cause he told me that I'm a good friend too!

2006-11-09 09:05:29 · 7 answers · asked by girlygirl 3 in Friends

What do you guys think would be the funniest place a couple could fall in love?

2006-11-09 09:05:27 · 16 answers · asked by oraxio 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this at work that I've been friends with for awhile. Actually, this past summer I told him I liked him and he told me that he already has a gf. Today, he was kinda giving me some long looks and I said "hey" and he said "hi'" quietly. Then we bumped into each other in fact i don't know if he intentionly bumped into me or not, but it was like he was half-way smiling when bumped into each other. What do you think?

2006-11-09 09:04:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having my wedding album made professionally but for my mother, his mother and his sister I wanted to make simple books for them as keepsakes. Any one know anywhere that sells- a fully assembled book that you can just slip the pictures in?? I can only find the ones where you have to order all the mats seperately which is not only a pain but pricey!! Do they make such a thing or am I dreaming??
I am looking for a white traditional looking album fully assemble with all the mats- pre cut.

2006-11-09 09:04:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

how many girls my date sleep with without asking him

2006-11-09 09:04:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cheat my wife 2 times a weak for last 10 years ,I cheat my g/f 2 times a weak for last 8 years , I cheat my lover for last 3 years one time a weak I se this women every day on my lunch break what is going on and all this womens are happy

2006-11-09 09:03:47 · 28 answers · asked by laman818 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont even like this guy in "that way" , Like i couldnt see myself doing anything but for whatever reason he makes me feel good and its like i get excited and nervous when im around him. I know he likes me but i just cant see myself with him, even though he does make me feel good. And its like i wanna talk to him but i want him to talk to me first so i probably piss him off by not talking to him and him being the only one that talks to me..then i feel like if he dosent call or IM me that theres something wrong with me. I think im losing it. What is my deal?

2006-11-09 09:03:30 · 11 answers · asked by And kayla was like 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 09:01:57 · 31 answers · asked by jolie 1 in Singles & Dating

Just one thing, what would it be, and why? Personally, I'd just ask for a chance to get to kno my crush. It doesn't have to be a material thing, and sry guys, sex doesn't count

2006-11-09 09:01:41 · 11 answers · asked by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 in Singles & Dating

All men cheat.
All men have no feelings.
All men only care about sex.
All men go to strip clubs.

Etc and so on. You can't just assume ALL guys are like something just because YOU make bad choices.

2006-11-09 09:01:25 · 18 answers · asked by Shadow 6 in Singles & Dating

ok so my friends brother that I like his birthday was on Tuesday and we had a party for him last night....well his gradpa came up to me and told me that I should give him a kiss for his present...should I do it, I mean I really want to cuz I like him alot...His sister said that I should just go up to him give him a kiss and say that was a late birthdayt present...HELP!!

2006-11-09 09:01:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK if you read my last question about the boy at church(if not i recommend you read it so your not confused)
well first we were talkin but my family. i told him something i nver did before. and yeah.
then basically he said he needed to tell me something and i said ok..and then he hesitated.. and i told him if it was he decided he only liked me as a friend i already knew and he said okay. then i was quiet.. and he random says today at youth group when we were playing airhockey i realized u have nice boobs. they are realli big
ok. then after that we continued talking. we are close friends yet i still like him
buttt. yesterday at youth group. when i first got there we hugged tight and then he hugged my cousin.. then we sat together him and my friends. me on one side and kelsey at the beginnin i threw a pen on his lap and said i dont want it. and he stuck it down my shirt(it was sort lowcut) then later he put his arm around both of us. (read more details)

2006-11-09 09:01:08 · 15 answers · asked by Deziix33 2 in Singles & Dating

Am angry alot for no good reason. Wife sas I have control issues. But the world is a scary place, i know i was once a very bad person. Then we found each other and with her i am better than before but at a cost to her. Now i must find help because i am losing her. To me she is my best friend, my lover my soul mate. I feel terrible pain over thre hurt I have caused her. All I want to do is love her and take care 0f her and our children. Any advice for a fool who has almost lost the love of his life?

2006-11-09 09:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by Mr. Lucky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont know what it is, but women tend to go FAST with me.. we go out on a date twice, and shes in my room making love to me... I dont know, I guess there's nothing left to talk about the next day. I guess I get bored then, I feel like She's a sluTt and too easy, i lose respect for her..... what should I do? These women I date are decent, not some whore on the street. I mean I french kiss the first date, and maybe have some petting... am I right here? I just thought that would be a good start in the dating process.. Anyway, if you can tell me the best dating process I would appreciate it. My friends tell me that I treat women as Trophies.. I dont think so, i want a relationship... I just am very picky...

2006-11-09 09:00:07 · 6 answers · asked by dustin m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you do when your husband is from another state, moved here to go to school, fell in love, got married and now is miserable because he misses his family back home? I'm not willing to move just yet and he knew that prior to marrying me, I have family here that I'm not ready to leave, plus I have 2 young children and don't want to relocate them. He can't even reassure me that he wants to be here so now I'm questioning our marriage. What should I do? He has a daughter here but is rarely allowed to see her which makes him even more depressed. HELP!

2006-11-09 08:59:58 · 17 answers · asked by truly_insightful 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend and every time she wants me to have sex with her or spend the night with her she would pay for the room. Is there any think wrong in her paying or should I pay.

2006-11-09 08:59:42 · 16 answers · asked by BABY BOY 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so a few months back i went thru some s**t. basically i found out that my GF whom i have a child with cheated on me in jan. when i sent her to her home for the holidays. she had come back and things where not good since. we got into a major fight and she left me with my son to start a new life with the new guy. now she wants to see her son, who is with me. i dont want to seperate them but i can give him a better future than she can. she knows this too. but i dont want to even talk to her but have to find solution for this prob. i want to fight for full custody but lawyer said maybe i should communicate and find amicable solution with her.
what would you advise me to do?

2006-11-09 08:59:35 · 16 answers · asked by ali k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for the first time...well not him...ME...what can i do to be prepared? No stupid answers please

2006-11-09 08:59:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am stuck as to what to get for my girlfriends 21st, it has to be special, and something she will alwyas remember, open to all suggestions!!!

2006-11-09 08:58:43 · 19 answers · asked by tonym 2 in Singles & Dating

My father wants my brother and I to start our own company cutting grass and crap like that and I am not in the least interested but he keeps bothering my brother and I about it! My brother and I don't want to say anything because we don't want to hurt his feelings because he is going through alot right now trying to cope with his illness and his blindness. How do I tell him that I am not interested without hurting his feelings?

2006-11-09 08:58:43 · 13 answers · asked by Sammee 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have only been married two months and I found him going onto chat lines talking to other women about sex. I am an old fashioned kind of woman and believe that this is cheating. I have asked friends and they give me conflicting answers. What do you think? Please only give mature answers because this is a potential deal breaker for me. Thanks

2006-11-09 08:57:21 · 16 answers · asked by niedermn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister lives in Florida, and is still mourning the death of her husband and is not doing well financially. My husband, me and my 18 year old step daughter are visiting her on Christmas. I would like all of us to open some presents on Christmas morning but do not want to burden her with any expense of buying us presents. Any ideas for Christmas morning gift exchange?

2006-11-09 08:56:53 · 5 answers · asked by Boo Radley 4 in Other - Family & Relationships