OK if you read my last question about the boy at church(if not i recommend you read it so your not confused)
well first we were talkin but my family. i told him something i nver did before. and yeah.
then basically he said he needed to tell me something and i said ok..and then he hesitated.. and i told him if it was he decided he only liked me as a friend i already knew and he said okay. then i was quiet.. and he random says today at youth group when we were playing airhockey i realized u have nice boobs. they are realli big
ok. then after that we continued talking. we are close friends yet i still like him
buttt. yesterday at youth group. when i first got there we hugged tight and then he hugged my cousin.. then we sat together him and my friends. me on one side and kelsey at the beginnin i threw a pen on his lap and said i dont want it. and he stuck it down my shirt(it was sort lowcut) then later he put his arm around both of us. (read more details)
2006-11-09 09:01:08 · 15 answers · asked by Deziix33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay. then twords the end we had to hold hnds and prey, with the people beside us. and he grabbed my hand all quick. SOMEBODY HELP
2006-11-09 09:01:50 · update #1
Sounds like he just likes the attention he gets from a pretty girl with a good figure and he just wants to egg you on and mess with your head. I would move on. Don't read too much into it. Guys say a lot of stuff just to mess with you and see how you react.
2006-11-09 09:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by CarolinaGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i completely understand. It's ok to be confused. This has happened to me many times and you whould realized that it's normal. I used to think that this was something guys did. The whole flirting thing without wanting anything more. But then i realized that i did it too. and i was shocked to realize that everyone does it. It's just a matter of keeping things in check. If you feel like you can keep doing the flirting thing without getting hurt then go on. Sometimes though flirting can become complicated. When you flirt it's like you playing with your outer most emotions, the ones that are about to explode. In other cases you are express real and deep emotions through flirting. If you just flirting because you have a "thing" for this guy and you feel your emotions are safe then things whould be fine. But if you feel like this guy could, not right now, but later take your heart and build a family with you, and he's just flirting for fun then....GET OUT!
2006-11-09 09:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by maralshabak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I read you first question about the guy at church... in it, you mentioned he had a girlfriend... now he's telling you that you have nice boobs & was squeezing you tight... & sticking a pen down your low-cut shirt.
Sounds like he's mainly just turned on/interested in you... because of your boobs.
Why would he take hold of your hand so quick? ...because he doesn't want you to escape from him.
If he still has the girlfriend, watch out for less than respectful behavior from him.
2006-11-09 09:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well first you got to keep in mind that you are both young and harmones are flying i don't went to be blunt but i must be real i be leave that he is liking the fact that he is being liked so remember you are young and you have sooooo much life ahead of you so live be free and remember there are many boys out ther and if you wait for God to send him most likely he will be the right one so is OK to flirt .
2006-11-09 09:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by chocolust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hook up with this chooch you'll need more than prayers. His comment to you was "I need to tell you something...you have big boobs?"
Yeah...a real Romeo. What a catch! baby...you have anything to do with a person whose only comment is regarding the size of your mammaries than you deserve anything and everything that comes down the pike. Get my drift???
2006-11-09 09:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh man my friend is going through the same thing. If I were you I would just stick it out, b/c I think he really likes you. But maybe find out how much he really likes his girlfriend, like poke around and see, maybe his friends know or somethin.
2006-11-09 09:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing this at a youth group? Obviously you aren't getting the message.
2006-11-09 09:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't look like he is responsible or understand his actions. Friends respect friend not make joke, fun of them or behave some personal flirts with bad test.
What he is really for - you should feel and see soon.
2006-11-09 12:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. welll he may be flirting with you but i wouldn';t get too excited that is how guys are.. they flirt with friends... ya know.. and if he never really corrected you about the whole liking you as a friend then i would just be thankful that he is your friend and not try and push anything else.. ya know.. cause then it could get awkward... so just be careful how you say things and act.. :-) and it is ok to like him.. but wouldn't you rather be his friend than nothing at all.... good luck
2006-11-09 09:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by laceylu555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys always send mixed signals. As much as it sucks, it's reality. If he doesn't know what he wants you should just move on. His comments could just be compliments, and not meant in a very flirty way...
2006-11-09 09:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋