I have this friend and every time she wants me to have sex with her or spend the night with her she would pay for the room. Is there any think wrong in her paying or should I pay.
2006-11-09 08:59:42 · 16 answers · asked by BABY BOY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she obviously has no problem with it or she wouldnt be doing it. dont say anything....the way i see it you get to have sex, and you dont have to pay for the room. you've got it made! if she says something about it later on about it then of course you should help. untill then just enjoy it. or if you're feeling really generous you could offer to split it.
2006-11-09 09:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it really depends, it's definitely a nice gesture for you to pick up the tab, bt if this has been going on for a while, be careful about when you start. It tends to have the feeling that you're taking the relationship to the next level or make her stat to think that the relationship you too have is only about the sex.
2006-11-09 09:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by xdannifenx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby Boy....You need to start chipping in, at least. Unless you are her sex slave, there is no reason for you not to have at least payed once. Then you also have to think about whose idea is it? But really, next time, pay for it. Let her see you are not a scrub.
2006-11-09 09:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, everything depends in the relationship, I mean if you always pay things like dinners, movies & stuff like that maybe there's like a custom and she things you can or want to pay.
2006-11-09 09:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tackito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with her paying. She's just making it clear that she can pay her way through any relationship. I recommend splitting bills myself, so you could casually suggest that if you're worried about it. If not, just enjoy the ride.
2006-11-09 10:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a problem if it was her idea to get the room or if I am broke. But you have to pay the debt back sooner or later dude.
2006-11-09 09:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by michael a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her pay buddy, as long as it doesnt bother you. when it does, start paying for the room. but i think, by then yo uwill get tired of her, cuz sounds like you just meet her for sex. so find another one, after a while, lol! have fun!
2006-11-09 09:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess not, if it's okay with her, unless it bothers you... then you could compromise, if she pays for the room, then you buy her a nice lunch or dinner.
2006-11-09 09:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're already paying, but you just don't understand the price right now. One day you will.
2006-11-09 09:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I don't see the problem.
But like the dude on top said, it is good to split up.
Ofcourse I totally agree with the Lady below Violet Pearl that is
2006-11-09 09:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋