for the first time...well not him...ME...what can i do to be prepared? No stupid answers please
2006-11-09 08:59:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-09 09:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jizzy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat. I am going to visit him in a week and will be having sex for the first time. We've been together since we were 17. We're 22 now.
My sister said that I should not worry if I bleed a little. She said to expect a little pain. She also said to relax because the tenser you are, the more painful it will be. Also tell him to go slow. =) Good luck!!
2006-11-09 17:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think since its your first time, make sure you want to do it with him. Once you do it you cant take it back. Just use a condom and it would also help if you were on the pill. Relax and dont be so nervous. He is thinking the same things you are. Good luck and enjoy!!
2006-11-09 17:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing really to do to be prepared. The first time, it is uncomfortable and can hurt a little, but I guess just try and relax as much as possible and tell him to be gentle and you should be fine. Make sure to use protection. Have fun!
2006-11-09 17:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny K 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First be safe and take condoms, Second dont get scared and freak out it may hurt, that depends however if you relax and have fun then the vaction will be that more enjoyable!! Good luck and be safe!!
2006-11-09 17:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by miss_villegas_2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its easy for girls! Guys have to last long so the girl can climax.. Its average for a guy to last 3 mins (its prob much higher cos surveys are poo) All you have to do is relax .. make it easy for him.. and then u will have fun..
go slow first time.. to prepare.. just relax
2006-11-09 17:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by chechzrepublic69 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell him it's your first time. Take it slow. First times are always a bit awkward. Set the scene if it makes you more comfortable. Candles, incense etc. And protection!!! Stay Safe!!!
2006-11-09 17:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by d0t_h4k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't sweat it. Just make sure he takes his time and goes slowly. If he's too rough or too fast, tell him. It also might be a good idea to use some KY to help ease things along.
2006-11-09 17:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well you don't want to get pg do you so that's one
second relax i know it new but you must have thought about it
3rd and most importain make sure this is what you want to do its a big step have fun enjoy and becareful
2006-11-09 17:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
remmember 1 thing... you are the decision maker!! you decide if you gonna have sex. and no im not trying to be rude but you should go ontop so that you can decide the pace;)
good luck
2006-11-09 17:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by $u$kin 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋