I dont even like this guy in "that way" , Like i couldnt see myself doing anything but for whatever reason he makes me feel good and its like i get excited and nervous when im around him. I know he likes me but i just cant see myself with him, even though he does make me feel good. And its like i wanna talk to him but i want him to talk to me first so i probably piss him off by not talking to him and him being the only one that talks to me..then i feel like if he dosent call or IM me that theres something wrong with me. I think im losing it. What is my deal?
2006-11-09 09:03:30 · 11 answers · asked by And kayla was like 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You like him more than you think but you feel too insecure about yourself and think he will reject you. Ask him to go for a drink with you then see what happens.
2006-11-09 09:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're scared of where this might lead and this guy isn't probably someone you would consider "your type". Thats why it feels weird to think of yourself being with him.
But he's doing everything right and making you feel good.
You want this person's company. Sometimes this is the making of a great friendship but I think you really like this guy.
Think of why you don't think it will work. Decide if those reasons are worth risking.. You never know till you take the first step.
Also if you keep waiting for him to make the first contact, sooner or later he'll get bored of making all the effort.
The decision is yours, but you have little to lose and a lot to gain.
2006-11-09 17:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by CJ Sohal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing it ? Did you ever have it ? You are twittering away like some lunatic, repeating yourself over and over again, making very little sense. If I were you which I'n not thankfully I'd certainly think about going to school and getting myself educated, once educated properly you'll have earned some self respect and be far more in control of what you think and how to express it.
2006-11-10 22:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your insecure but you need to get passed that. Get drunk together just the two of you. Builds a little confidence and see where the night takes you. If it happens don't reject it. Otherwise if your sure you only like him as a friend let him know. It's not fair to string him along.
2006-11-09 18:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by born2survive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like the guy just admit it, what are you afraid of that you can't face your feelings. Don't wait till its late or when there is no longer anything you can do.
2006-11-09 17:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by onzaiy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like youve got this guy dangling on a hook and you like it. stop teasing the poor guy and either get together or cut him loose
2006-11-09 17:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by big ric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you dont know what you want.
I think you should give the a go you could be suprised!
2006-11-09 17:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nerves hun....been there done that.....if you dont think that you can get romantic with him, then have him as a friend if you feel good around him, then just be mates....
2006-11-09 17:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you probably do like him 'in that way '. that or your getting off on the fact he likes you.
maybe he's not your type but you'd still do him sort thing going on there.
sounds to me like you like him
2006-11-09 17:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by mixturenumber1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your scared.
2006-11-09 17:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by cfcturner 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋