I dont know what it is, but women tend to go FAST with me.. we go out on a date twice, and shes in my room making love to me... I dont know, I guess there's nothing left to talk about the next day. I guess I get bored then, I feel like She's a sluTt and too easy, i lose respect for her..... what should I do? These women I date are decent, not some whore on the street. I mean I french kiss the first date, and maybe have some petting... am I right here? I just thought that would be a good start in the dating process.. Anyway, if you can tell me the best dating process I would appreciate it. My friends tell me that I treat women as Trophies.. I dont think so, i want a relationship... I just am very picky...
2006-11-09 09:00:07 · 6 answers · asked by dustin m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is she really a slut? Or is she a woman who knows what she wants sexually and goes for it? I think that in this day and age, the work slut is overused. I, for one, slept with several men, just for the joy of it. I knew them, I liked them, and I trusted them. It was fun. Doesn't mean I am a slut. I knew what I wanted, and took it.
Think about that.
2006-11-09 09:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just set limits. That's one of the most important things to do when your dating and trying to find a real relationship. I would make it clear from the beginning that you don't want to take it too fast. If the woman you go out with wants to have sex even though you already explained earlier that you want to take it at a slower pace, just tell her you aren't comfortable with having sex so early. Tell her that you feel it is important to find the right person first. She should respect you for that, and if not, then she is not worth dating so just move on. Also, don't lead her on. It makes no sense to french kiss and 'pet' on the first date, and then turn around and say "I don't want to have sex now." When you are engaging in foreplay (french kissing, petting), it is only logical for her to think you want to have sex. SO, in all, be reasonable, take it slow, and try to get to know a girl before you have sex. Be picky!
Good luck
2006-11-09 17:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're correct as far as the slut part and that you lose respect. It's as if the chase is over with before it even begins. But also, you can say no or take her home or end the date-whichever...but you're a hot blooded male so I seriously doubt that you would do that...lol.
2006-11-09 17:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop bringing them back to your place and in your bedroom. Take the time to actually talk and get to know them. If you don't feel any connection, move on. You are just as responsible for what happens on your "dates" as they are.
2006-11-09 17:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that should be your sorting out process. She's supposed to keep it interesting. Because you're right if she gives it up what is there left to talk about.
2006-11-09 17:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by caasi2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you say that the ladies are just hopping on you it must be because you are not trying to avoid getting laid. Get off you pedestal...and it sure does not seem as though you are very picky.
2006-11-09 17:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋