positions?? Ideas???

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. The sex isn't bad but its just been normal. Same positions over and over and over. Its getting old. I want to suggest some new positions but need some ideas. What ideas does anybody have for me? Also what else could I do that would spice things up and blow his mind? If you want to be detailed that's okay. By the way I am 21 and he is 27. Just so none of you think I am under age. Need as much help as I can get?

Okay we have tried missionary, me on top, spooning, me standing up bent over, reverse cowgirl, doggy, etc.

Answer 1

Have you tried reverse cowgirl? You're on top facing his feet. You can sit up straight, or lie forward. try instead of having your knees bent at his sides, put your feet into his armpits and lie forward. sounds weird, feels great. PS, the wetter the better, expecially his boys and your clit, cuz they will come into contact and yea, good times.

missionary is not our favorite, but ok. instead of lying with your head at the top of the bed...put your head at the bottom corner and lie diagonal like your feet at the cener of the bed. reach up over your head and bend at the elbows. Grab ahold of a part of the bed you can hold on to comfortably, and kinda pull yourself into the matress...I don't know why, but the whole stretching out my body thing really works.

Also, if you use lube, what brand? KY tends to have an oily, unnatural feel, try using Durex, Play More...that stuff is awesome, even if there are no problems in the water works department, he'll agree that more of a good thing is a VERY good thing!

Try to make yourself too busy for him/nookie for a while. He may become frustrated, but it will definantly put the pep back into things, he'll be happy to just get to spend some time with you...and booty too!!!!!!!!! See where I'm going?

You don't have to be freakish, and you don't even have to buy anything when you go...but if you've never been to an "adult" store (from here on known as the "toy store" that way you can say something to him around other prople and he'll know but others aren't as aware) they may suspect that is what you mean, but then again, "um hello, toys r us is a toy store and it's little cousin Joey's birthday tomorrow! Pervert!" See, it's fun, and it lets you be catty!

Another option is to throw a "toy" party for singles or couples, let your girlfriends know they can bring their mates, and it'll be a lot of fun and ordering and recieving products is 100% completly confidential. Your guy will get excited and interested in trying new things, you'll get a credit for products based on you guests' orders, and depending on the company you have do your party, you could get free stuff just for hosting.

OMG! Doesn't have to be spanking or anything...and I know that whole BDSM thing is not for everyone, but blindfolds inhance every touch! Take away one sense, and the others grow stronger. It's different from having the lights out, because your eyes adjust and you can see your partner. with a blindfold, you don't know what to expect next. Take turns, first, you wear it and have him do various things to you and then blindfold him and do various things to him...you have to go first, though, because if it's too intense for him...he's done and you'll get a "thanks hon, that was fun!" Or he could go limp if he goes first, while you have your turn.

Golly, I sound like a freakin perv or a nympho!

Another thing to do is have him lie and not touch you while you tease and please him. Let him know that when he's had enough, all he has to do is reach out and touch you, shoulder, boob, head, whatever...but if he's on a pleasure wave while giving him oral, and he grabs your head, give him a few seconds, it's natural...he likes it and wants to keep you there for just a little while longer. now unlike the blindfold thing, it's harder to take turns in one session...this is your way of breaking away from the ordinary and innitiating an intense, pleasure packed session. That'll break that rut ya'll are in.

good luck and have fun! I hope this helps!

Answer 2

I'm not sure what positions you have already tried but here goes.
First of all, you need to create a sexy mood, so if you're up for it, (have a few drinks to make you a little more uninhibited but not drunk) you could try a little role play. Wear some very racy lingerie and high heels.. You could always implement a sex toy to start you off. Once he sees you getting off on something else, it might drive him wild. You could try watching a porn flick together(nothing too crazy ). Some positions could be reverse cowgirl
or doggy style standing up with you completely bent over. Like the others said, get the kama sutra book, but sometimes you need more than positions to spice things up, so keep an open mind.

Answer 3

there are many positions you can try.

my favourites are him standing and me pushed up against the wall, wrap your legs around him.

him standing behind you, you kneeling facing the bed, bent over the bed on the edge and him coming at you from behind.

69- no explanation needed!

use of handcuffs will blow his mind away, hand cuff him to bed and strip tease/ lap dance him, he will not be able to control his excitment.

if you reallly trust each other then you could film your sex, this would be great use of a porn film fo rthe each of you.

phone sex

sending saucy images to each other whilst at work or out etc (apart)

in the kitchen (ifyou are able to) blindfold him sit him down by the open fridge (gets the cold chills) feed him sexy seducing foods strawberries, cream. accidently spill some on him and have to lick it up!!! loads of fun personal favourite
good luck- all of the above has worked wonders for me!

Answer 4

Go buy one of the many books at the bookstore related to Kama Sutra, there are tons of diagrams and stuff for you to find there.

Answer 5

Do it in a Water bed, buy a sex forniture believe me THEY ARE AWSOME, turn off the lights and light on some candles.. change the enviroment.. and Make LOVE.. not only SEX ...


Hope it works.

Answer 6

this kama sutra book is stuffed with great positions. also try getting the sex bible from a book store. it's awesome. and yes, it's really called the Sex Bible

Answer 7

Go to the adult novelty store in your area and buy a book. Something to blow his mind? Mind-blowing- BL0W JOB, that should do it, really be hungry for him though.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Damn...you got a lot covered...if that is still boring maybe it is time for a new man, I dont know...just mess around, make stuff up...

Answer 10

You can also look into Tantric sex. But both of you might need to work at it.