Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

i would liket to know what helps a couple to stay or not together

2006-11-08 04:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by ryuken 3 in Singles & Dating

I was at a volleyball game yesterday and a girl in my grade i kind of like FLIRTS WITH EVERYONE is this normal or is she trying to get my attention or what?

2006-11-08 04:02:20 · 9 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Singles & Dating

Or a scary thing that you saw happen to someone? details plz : )
the scariest thing that ever happened to me is when i was little i was in my car with my sister and some man parked next to us and started smiling at us. i was only five so i smiled back. then he opened our car door (my dad haddnt locked it) and started pulling my arm. i had my seatbelt on and i started screaming and he ran off because my dad came out and tried to fight him. i was scared to stay in the car from then on...

2006-11-08 04:01:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My stepfather of 6 years is such a royal a**!! I hate his guts! He made me stay up until 11:30 at night - scrubbing the kitchen. I have to get up every morning at 5!!! How can I stop him?? I've already called CPS on him for hitting me int he face and giving me a bloody nose, and he got off becuz we alled lied ( he told us - my bro, sis, and i - that if we told we wouldn't live to see when he was taken away) And my mom doesn't have enough courage to kick him to the curb..........please give dme some advice.

2006-11-08 04:01:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok people i go to school and there is a guy here or i should say a boy he is about 17 but acts like a 10 year old he gets on everyones nerves i just really think there is something wrong in his head for a example i told him i was haveing a girl and he said i dont give a sh*t i hate babies and dont like them any ways he says stuff like that (can you guys think of something to say to him that is mean)( CAUSE I DONT LIKE HIM )thank you

2006-11-08 04:01:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in my 30's & live with my Mom. My fiance is white & I am East Indian. I lived on my own for a long time & even moved out of state & moved back with Mom because dad was sick & dying. She always treated me like a kid. Yesterday she got upset with me & said she is not my mother & she doesn't want any part of my wedding. My sis who lives out of state always causes problems in the family. She hates my fiance. She lied to me about mom. She said Mom said I'm using marriage prep as an excuse on not attending my relative parties. They have parties almost every weekends & the parties end after midnight.. Mom wanted my wedding the way she wanted & my fiance & I didn't like that. My fiance, my Mom & I were planning on traveling out of state to buy my Wedding sari & bridesmaids sarees. She's supose to help me pick the right saree since she's worn saree's alot. But now she doesn't want to go. I got upset & told her I should cancel the wedding but I didn't tell anything to my fiance. I'm sad

2006-11-08 04:00:32 · 18 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Weddings

My cousin and I were at a party a while back, and we, well she got pregenant, and now I am wondering what would be so wrong with continuing a close relationship so the baby can atleast have two parents, and since I have a stable job, I can provide for a family. I don't realy remember the party, but blood tests said that the baby was mine... My friends also told me what I had been up to.. Jen really does want to continue the relationship, We don't have any family left, it's just us.. What do ya'll think I should do?

2006-11-08 04:00:07 · 5 answers · asked by fem 1 in Family

I dated this guy for about 6 months but he was super busy with school, work and other projects he committed to prior to us getting together....because time became such an issue for me...he told me that he didn't think things would work out because he can't give me what I want or what I need. He is a great guy, I had an awesome time with him...and I'm bummed that he feels this way.

He still wants to be friends....and he mentioned that he wouldn't mind being able to do after-hour activities...my question is...should I or should I just cut my losses and find someone else?

2006-11-08 04:00:06 · 10 answers · asked by aak 2 in Singles & Dating

so yesterday my first bf (of 2 years) broke up with me. he said he doesnt love ma anymore (and NO he didnt leave for another woman) 6 months ago i stupidly lied to his face abotu a picture that was ont he desktop of my comp. he joked around and said "oh is that for your myspace: and i blurted out NO without thinking when it was. SO he said he cant trust em caue of that. he had a good point, if i lied abotu soemthign stupid liek that then what else could i be lying about. it was an accident when i blurted out no but told him the truth a few hours later cause i was afraid how he would react. i talked to him a few minutes ago and he said he would liek to trust me. but he doesnt believe me when i kept telling him i have never done anythign else.
we got into a fight a few monthsago and accepted the fact that i damaged his trust and was going to do anythign i could to try to earn it back. i told him everything. i told himt his earlier and he still doesnt believe me he said....

2006-11-08 04:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i told my friend about issues i was having with my bf. my friend went a told him everything i said. she says it was because she was concerned...now she says that he was saying bad things about me behind my back. he says everything he said to her, i already know.

but neither of them will send me the email conversation..she says because i am blinded by him and everything he said will hurt me. he says he won't send it because it's a dead issue.

which one would should i believe?

2006-11-08 03:59:39 · 28 answers · asked by sassy 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother went and picked up his daughter from dallas. The mother called and told him she was living with a sex offender. What are you going to do about your dauther.

2006-11-08 03:58:23 · 13 answers · asked by lala 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i'm about to throw myself in a relation and i would like to know
what is the most important thing(trust ,sex ,money,.....)

2006-11-08 03:57:52 · 25 answers · asked by ryuken 3 in Singles & Dating

i have situation going on and i don't know what to do...I have a child by man that i was with for 5yrs. Through the five yrs threre was ups and downs more downs. but no matter what i kept on hanging in there. it hot to the point that my feelings died and i knew that i had to move on. although i will always have feelings for him as my sons father, i do not love him the way you would if in a relationship.anyway, i dropped the relationship and reconnected witha man that i used to be with when i was 17yrs old i'm 32 now and we deciced to move forward in trying to build a relationship.of, course my son's fathr is upset because he wanted to give our relationship another try. i explained to him that my felings are not their anymore but he insists on not giving up...i want to be with my new friend but i really don't know if he is going to be serious or not, someone please help me

2006-11-08 03:57:32 · 18 answers · asked by michelle e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Mind you, they haven't seen each other face to face in 14 years but he still keeps in touch with her (she's married too) by writing emails and exchanging pictures w/ each other. Why does he hide this from me and is it possible the flame still hasn't completely gone out after all these years?

2006-11-08 03:57:22 · 24 answers · asked by stefania 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i like guys im most certain that i do but there is this gurl who shall remain nameless and when i see her i dont know i get all nervuos and whats weird is that she looks like a guy but a reely attractive guy what do i do?

2006-11-08 03:56:57 · 20 answers · asked by Catch a falling star 1 in Singles & Dating

****people if you alone infront of ur pc what do you do*** do u end up doing something bad ?

2006-11-08 03:56:46 · 7 answers · asked by jamr0ck 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 03:56:38 · 13 answers · asked by jyyyyy 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend doesn't belive a thing i say.

2006-11-08 03:56:03 · 19 answers · asked by babygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you don't believe living in together before marriage, and your partner wants to live together before marriage. He does wants to get engaged after move in together.
I personally feel this is something one cannot compromise, it's about different values and expectations. I should leave this relationship behind...
Your opinion are welcome!!

2006-11-08 03:55:18 · 17 answers · asked by cover 1 in Singles & Dating

what do u think I mean when I say.......

U touch my hand I live for u....?

2006-11-08 03:55:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to be very close friends with this guy. He will talk to me in class and would look for me if he needed anything. He was my best friend until this particular girl, which I find her really annoying, came along. Now, she is like his new best friend. He is doing all the things he used to do to me to her. He doesn't even bother me as much as before.

I am so upset that our friendship changed. What can I do to win our friendship back again?

2006-11-08 03:54:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-08 03:54:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Go on - try it - you know you want to x

2006-11-08 03:54:01 · 27 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys play stupid mind games with girls? Either they like you or they don't; they can be very misleading and blame it on you in the end. They start out wanting to help you in some way then they flirt with you getting them to like you and then run and act immature if you ask them out as a friend or just want to get to know them. So immature!

2006-11-08 03:53:58 · 19 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend has been in jail for almost a year now, & he was suppose to get out this month, but i recently got a letter from him saying that he has to stay there for another year. we have been writing to each other, trying to still stay close, but i'm starting to just drift away from him. i decided that i'm just going to leave him, and when he comes home, he can try to find me. Is that a good idea? What exactly should i do?

2006-11-08 03:53:09 · 24 answers · asked by desireeethisss17 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy at my college he is the finest japanese gut that i have ever seen. we always stare at each other but we dont talk. ther is this girl thats always around him whenever im around he still stares at me should i make the first move or not HELP!!!

2006-11-08 03:53:04 · 10 answers · asked by jenny b 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in Winnipeg and Im leaving on friday afternoon. it seems I have dates with 2 guys on the same day. One is an actor that I met last tuesday and the other is a bartender that I met on the same day . Granted , I really like the bartender and today would be the only time that i could see him cause he is working tommorow all night. The actor is a nice guy, but i dont feel the same way as I do for the bartender.The actor had asked me out first but I think that I could see him tommorow instead

How would I be able to break the date with the actor so that i can go out with the bartender without hurting anyones' feelings ?/

2006-11-08 03:51:46 · 13 answers · asked by dramaqueen 3 in Singles & Dating

worked at 2-37 DFAC and has Red Hair

2006-11-08 03:51:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I find it really hard to be sweet and nice to guys when I´m dating them. I have been seeing this guy for 2 months and I find it really hard to be nice and sweet I´m afraid of him knowing that I like him and I send the wrong signals. So propably he thinks I´m not into him when the thruth is I am, what can I do to act another way? It´s hard for me please help!

2006-11-08 03:51:17 · 12 answers · asked by crisy m 1 in Singles & Dating

Let me explain a little bit. He's been my bestfriend for a very long time and he's gay. I only bring up that he is gay because he normally likes to go shopping. But, anyway, he didn't go wedding dress shopping with me. He has missed both of my showers saying that he just couldn't get off of work. Which I know is a lie because he knew a month in advance of both dates. Now I don't even know if he's going to come to the wedding because he has planned his annual thanksgiving dinner with his other friends the same day as my wedding. He started acting funny the night I got engaged. What should I do? Should I talk to him about it? Should I just leave it be? Need some advice. Thanks in advance for all of your answers.

2006-11-08 03:51:07 · 7 answers · asked by Kellybug 4 in Weddings