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My cousin and I were at a party a while back, and we, well she got pregenant, and now I am wondering what would be so wrong with continuing a close relationship so the baby can atleast have two parents, and since I have a stable job, I can provide for a family. I don't realy remember the party, but blood tests said that the baby was mine... My friends also told me what I had been up to.. Jen really does want to continue the relationship, We don't have any family left, it's just us.. What do ya'll think I should do?

2006-11-08 04:00:07 · 5 answers · asked by fem 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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I can't really put into words my disgust at reading this, so to honestly give you an answer that would be meaningful or purposeful would be hard to do.

First what is done is done cann't even imagine why you would allow yourselves to engage in such an act with a family member.

I do believe that it is important for a child to be every bit apart of both parents. However, in your case or anyones like yours should take in account how they will be viewed by others. What kind of moral and vaules would you teach the child. because it certainly isn't ok to be sleeping with your own blood family.

My advice is if having a relationship with her is what you want as apart of the fact that you have fathered her child pack up all your bags move as far away from the area you live in and start a new life togther where noone knows you and that you will be viewed as a couple and not as cousins that are dating and having children together.

2006-11-08 04:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by 4mika 3 · 0 0

Not sure if you are just messing with us or not, but if you are speaking the truth, check this out.
I am in my 40's and my husband and I are very good friends with a married couple who are cousins. Their mother's are sisters. It's very rare, I know. But they have two great kids and all seems well. So............... if you guys are serious about it, I say Congrats!

2006-11-08 12:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

u got your cousin preg? no dont continue a relationship like that! even if u do stick around to be in the kids life.. thats sick make sure he thinks u are his cousin and thats it!

2006-11-08 12:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

do you realize your own child is also going to be your second cousin??? do you know he or she is probably going to have some physical deformities? do u even care? whatever freak

2006-11-08 12:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

wait... ya'll are cousins???

2006-11-08 12:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by :::Christina:::: 2 · 0 0

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