I am in Winnipeg and Im leaving on friday afternoon. it seems I have dates with 2 guys on the same day. One is an actor that I met last tuesday and the other is a bartender that I met on the same day . Granted , I really like the bartender and today would be the only time that i could see him cause he is working tommorow all night. The actor is a nice guy, but i dont feel the same way as I do for the bartender.The actor had asked me out first but I think that I could see him tommorow instead
How would I be able to break the date with the actor so that i can go out with the bartender without hurting anyones' feelings ?/
2006-11-08 03:51:46 · 13 answers · asked by dramaqueen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to answer adrien_biccums' question. I hardly think that considering someones feelings is being shallow.
If i were to say well, oneis cuter than teh other , than yes , thats shallow , but its not the case.
2006-11-08 03:59:16 · update #1
tell him somethings come up and you need to reschedule. and hope you dont run into him when you are out with the other guy.
2006-11-08 03:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by jenkins_nichole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way you are going to hurt somebody's feelings. If you like the bartender more than the actor, then you should go on a date with the bartender. I wouldn't tell the actor about the other guy...just say that you have plans with a friend.
2006-11-08 11:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by Yeah it's me................ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it was a bit of short notice and you did say yes bearing in mind that an previous appointment you had was cancelled. And that your hoping you could meet him later on in the week and you will phone him so you guys can have a natter to find out how his day was and that you thought of him LOL
Good luck
2006-11-08 11:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by KNOWLEDGE IS POWER GODDESS AM I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, that if your not serious.. no one's feelings will be hurt... Just tell him you have had something come up and if he would like to reschedule... Who knows, after a bit.. you might like the actor better... although, Does he make any money?
2006-11-08 11:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by :::Christina:::: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you THAT shallow?
Just because you break a date doesn't mean you're hurting anyones feelings. Just politely tell him sorry you forgot you made other plans.
No big deal...
2006-11-08 11:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the one that you forgot you made plans with a friend earlier before you met him and that you have to reschedule your get together.
2006-11-08 11:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but i would lie to the guy and say something came up and can we reschedule.
2006-11-08 11:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him something unexpected came up and you won't be able to make the date.
2006-11-08 11:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you don't want to hurt no body's feelings you may have to.I think you should talk to him straight up you two are only friends and should understand that there is No commitment.
2006-11-08 11:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by princesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the actor you have diarhea and your pepto bismol isn't working...make plans to see him the next morning for coffee. good luck!!
2006-11-08 11:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by snicker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋