My boyfriend doesn't belive a thing i say.
2006-11-08 03:56:03 · 19 answers · asked by babygurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like he is just insecure. If he can't trust you there cannot be a relationship.
2006-11-08 03:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you a little story. My husband always says that he doesn't know what I am doing when I am not around him. In short, he is basically accusing me of cheating. That being said, let me tell you my schedule. I used to work midnights (11 pm - 7 am). Then I would come home to have to take my children to school, even though he is still at home. After dropping the kids off, I would come home to TRY and get some sleep, its a little hard to sleep in the day time. Around 2 in the afternoon, I would have to go and pick up my children from school and come home, help with homework, make sure chores are done and dinner cooked and then that they are ready for school and in the bed before I left for work. That being said, I have no time for myself, let alone another man. Now to answer your question. My husband had been found over other womens homes, text messages have been found on his phone and yet he wants to accuse me. So more likely than not, his is TRYING to cover up what he is doing or he is really really insecure.
2006-11-08 12:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by totally ignored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over my 30 years (take it or leave it) most of the girls I've talked to including my own experience the answer is a yes. On the other hand you've also got your grey areas which could be an number of many things such as paranoia, maybe the stuff has happened to him before, or maybe his friends is feeding him full of crap. Or maybe it's the good ole' Freudian philosophy 'what does he think about his mother?'
2006-11-08 12:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by tazblue76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,then,its is usual. But u think about this isnt a relationship based on trust and honesty? Have u given him reason to not trust u? Maybe he is hiding something, ask him,if he truly loves u he shall be true. Get to the problem and solve it before it destroys the relationship. Good luck....
2006-11-08 12:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by sexyangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be as simple as a insecurity within himself and/or that with: he is guilty of something he feels bad for, knows it may be something he should not be presently doing and your getting the repercussions of this or these actions.
2006-11-08 12:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONTROLLING!!! Ummm...either he is covering something, guilty for something he has done, or he just sucks at trusting people. i would just talk to him about it...because if you just sit here and think of things he could be doing then you are going to drive yourself crazy. Just take sometime and talk to him.
2006-11-08 12:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by Yeah it's me................ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup! Insecure with himself.
2006-11-08 11:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mimy ImFurst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you a fine *** girl then he is going suspect something. Just as long as you know you ain't doing nothing.
2006-11-08 11:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Terry G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the common tactic. A good defense is a good offense.
2006-11-08 11:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could go either way... some psychologists believe yes.. others would say maybe hes had a bad past... Talk to him
2006-11-08 11:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by :::Christina:::: 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋