Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

Three months ago a girl called on my cell-phone and told me that she want to be my friend. I was reluctant at that time but, I agreed on the next day when she calls again. That girl become a good friend and, we call each other almost every day and talk things that we both enjoy.We have many things in common but she has told me that she is a different religion believer.The most interesting part is I am almost falling for her now.I don't know what I have to do now.
If any body in the family finds out that I'm having a relation with such a girl,it will be the end of the world for me.They are very strict when it comes to religion.
I'm really worried and don't know what I have to do.Do you think I have to tell her every thing and continue with her and let the things with my family get flamed?
Plz,I need your advice.

2006-11-08 04:35:29 · 14 answers · asked by mamush 1 in Singles & Dating

I've heard people say that women, or men, who stay in abusive relationships "should expect" the abuse because they do nothing to better their situation. I've even heard it said that they "deserve" it because they don't leave the abuser.
I have a family member who puts up with the most horrible emotional (and I suspect physical) abuse. She let me read an email from her ex-b/f, (she tells me ex, but they still communicate) and it sent chills through me. I can't understand why she would tollerate this. She won't change her email address, cell phone number, or even block his messages, and I am at a loss for advice for her.
Any thoughts as to what to tell her as she seems to be so unwilling to put a stop to this.

2006-11-08 04:35:04 · 7 answers · asked by life made better thru chemistry 2 in Family

2006-11-08 04:34:55 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone find it wrong to trade in your spouse for a younger model when her mileage (poundage) gets too high and she loses her "shine"? Similar to a car with high mileage car, I'm sure things are going to start breaking on her. A person doesn't stay with the same car their whole life. They crave something newer, shinier, and more reliable. No one is meant to stay with teh same person their whole life. It's not natural.

2006-11-08 04:34:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-08 04:34:04 · 4 answers · asked by Michelle F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, i have recently started having sex with this guy and he like moans so much and is so loud, i mean, i have had sex with other guys and normaly they didnt make alot of noise is this normal? I think it is very sexy, but a bit strange for a guy or am I wrong? plz give me some feed back.

2006-11-08 04:32:24 · 12 answers · asked by Jessi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 04:31:04 · 7 answers · asked by sunny 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 04:30:19 · 38 answers · asked by stressed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He has been caught looking for sexual relations online which then led to him confessing, 'at one time I thought I might be bisexual...but I found out I'm not.' We start to see a therepist this week. How in the world am I ever going to trust him again? Which is the only way I'm going to be able to stay married to this man. (we just got married 2 months ago) Part of me wants to leave and get the relationship over with and part of me thinks I should at least try therepy and go from there. I can't imagine telling our families, friends and co workers that we didn't even last 3 months as a married couple! I've been humiliated enough, so has he, and I don't think I could go through more public humiliation. Is that a selfish and childish reason to stay in it? Probably. I just don't know how I'm going to make it thru today, let alone the next year. Anyways, I know that to get over this I'm going to have to try to trust him again. How do I do that?

2006-11-08 04:30:00 · 15 answers · asked by ihateyou 1 in Marriage & Divorce

right.she is 16.and ive been dating her for 1 month. we are getting along well,but only one thing,she never told me about her past. she has a mum that beat her up.before she went to live with her dad,she used to get really badly beaten by her mum:(. thumping.vases been thrown at her head. i may sound like a complete prick but when i offered to give her support and comfort she said theres no point ive put up with it for 3 years so i can deal with it now. i only try to help.but i dont know what to do:( thank you for any advice you care to give me:D

John

2006-11-08 04:29:04 · 30 answers · asked by qlakeo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

because i know a 25 year old virgin guy and he says hes just content and okay with it..he is straight..and hes not ugly at all..

2006-11-08 04:28:59 · 19 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 04:28:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm taken him out to eat and making him a cake. I dont know what gift to buy him becasue his sons mother {LISA} always have to go and get him something for his birhtday and all the other hoildays. So i feel like i dont need to buy if this ***** go buy **** i feel like my gifes need to top hers and he says that that's not important to him but to me it is because this ***** is always some ****** where int he middle and i dont like her *** and he knows as well as she do. I know shes the baby mother but dam ***** know your place move the **** on............LISA HENDRICKSON.........................

2006-11-08 04:27:17 · 4 answers · asked by lady 2 in Singles & Dating

IsREAL LOVE,REAL FELLINGS ARE GONE OUT OF HUMAN BODY'S LIFE? why they searching for SEX?Can I or ANYBODY FOUND REAL LOVE?

2006-11-08 04:26:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 04:26:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how did it make you feel afterwards? did you like it?

2006-11-08 04:25:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you sometimes cry when you are taking a ****???

2006-11-08 04:24:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Everytime I'm n the store n they come around I can't stop smiling. I'll get clumsy n i'll drop stuff and then when they look at me I'll smile all dumb and I'll feel stupid. Their sooo hott and then if I'm at a restaurant and one walks by my table or something i'll get all nervous n smile. Then when I go shopping at the mall I can't even buy my clothes cuz the stores I shop at have tons of hott white boys n I'm scared what they think of me. They might be like...what is she doing here or I dunno. What can I do to stop being so nervous around them and I wanna find one to date but I'm so scared they might not wanna black girl. You know the boys that r n 2 rock and skate n stuff. I think they might think I'm weird. I dunno. I'm very pretty and I like 2 listen to rock too (Its really all I listen too.) I just wanna know why its soo hard for me to talk to them. I'm like mesmerized by their hotness n the way they do their hair, how they look when their kissing. I know i sound dumb but owell!!!

2006-11-08 04:24:35 · 10 answers · asked by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 in Singles & Dating

i need this for a class in school. its for life transitions if you have taken it. another question is how can you avoid making poor choices? and are there any agencies that can help if you experience problems dating?

2006-11-08 04:23:36 · 10 answers · asked by Chelsea P 1 in Singles & Dating

Today two of my friends stole a few things from me after i said take only ONE..... But they took more then that Please help on telling them no or what ever!

2006-11-08 04:22:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if they were to have a baby would he be a jehovah if one of the parents are not?

2006-11-08 04:22:22 · 8 answers · asked by shantal m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We see each other every weekend, we live in different town.
We've been to several short trips together, next week we're going to Spain. He invited me to his familly's Xmas, first time to invite someone over for Xmas in his life...
I see he's very much in love with me, in every aspects of his action, though we haven't mentioned the "L word" yet.
I'm Japanese, and not so familiare to use that word at all.
Should I wait for him to say, or do you think I can say the word from my self? I always thought it's better for girls to NOT to say it first, to make relationship last...
What's the truth?

2006-11-08 04:20:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am an amateur photographer who loves shooting landscapes and sunsets. I heard of a friend's friend needing a last minute wedding photographer, and offered suggestions as to whom to ask. Being last minute, no one was available, I offered my services, and they were so desperate that they accepted after seeing my landscape shots.
I had planned on using my Canon Rebel s2000 that I have used for almost 5 years, and felt fairly confident about the job. Now they want me to use their digital camera, which I won't get access to until 18 hours before the wedding.
I think finances were their determining factor in not using film, but I just don't feel as comfortable using a camera I'm not familiar with. Anyone have any tips or hints about wedding photography or dealing with the couple? Should I refuse to do the wedding unless I can use film? Thanks a bunch!

2006-11-08 04:19:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

does cole have a gril friend?
well i think coles gril friend should not like him for his money, should not cheat on him, iv had about 5 boyfriends so i would no!
well i love you cole and not for your money,i love you because you are funny,smart,cool and totally cute!
email me back
i love you

2006-11-08 04:19:21 · 1 answers · asked by colesgrilfriend 1 in Singles & Dating

was it a meeting kind of winslet and leonardo on the titanic or tarzan and jane ;did he or she noticed you....share with me something funny that happened during your first meeting

2006-11-08 04:19:13 · 4 answers · asked by ryuken 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you just go with what you feel? Is there an amount of time u should wait? If it's met 2 b it will last no matter how long u wait.
I met someone wonderful- Not that he asked me 2 marry him, but I'm just wondering-

2006-11-08 04:17:49 · 27 answers · asked by jrzy 1 in Weddings

I have a classmate who told me that he likes me. But since i have no such experience before, i stood rooted on the spot, stunned and suddenly said "choy! touch wood!", and then i turned away and walk as quickly as i could back to my seat. I don't know why i said that. But i just don't know how to react. I have never been told by any guy that they like me. Um... did i hurt the guy's feeling by saying that??? What should i do instead? Help???

2006-11-08 04:16:52 · 19 answers · asked by Daffodil 3 in Singles & Dating

hes flirting with other girls from out of state on myspace. can i say anything, or should i just leave it alone?

2006-11-08 04:16:38 · 10 answers · asked by alaska78 2 in Singles & Dating

when we first started dating i asked him not to smoke pot around me because i dont smoke or drink, but the other day his friend came over and he smoked anyways. So when he came into the house i was all upset and decided to call an ex of mine whom im still really good friends with just to sort of vent. now he's all upset and told me he wants to take a break, but i really care for him and i dont want to lose him. is there anything i can do to get him back?

2006-11-08 04:16:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont believe its dead, but that it is on lifesupport. Maybe both sexes do need time to mature before romance tskes but I hear form both men and women today that guys or girls are no good. its like used or be used . What happend to romance Is play game and causing drama the new romance ? Hopefull Yahoo wont saction me for this question lolololo

2006-11-08 04:15:27 · 11 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Singles & Dating