Everytime I'm n the store n they come around I can't stop smiling. I'll get clumsy n i'll drop stuff and then when they look at me I'll smile all dumb and I'll feel stupid. Their sooo hott and then if I'm at a restaurant and one walks by my table or something i'll get all nervous n smile. Then when I go shopping at the mall I can't even buy my clothes cuz the stores I shop at have tons of hott white boys n I'm scared what they think of me. They might be like...what is she doing here or I dunno. What can I do to stop being so nervous around them and I wanna find one to date but I'm so scared they might not wanna black girl. You know the boys that r n 2 rock and skate n stuff. I think they might think I'm weird. I dunno. I'm very pretty and I like 2 listen to rock too (Its really all I listen too.) I just wanna know why its soo hard for me to talk to them. I'm like mesmerized by their hotness n the way they do their hair, how they look when their kissing. I know i sound dumb but owell!!!
2006-11-08 04:24:35 · 10 answers · asked by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They just don't know how hott they can be. I would faint if one kissed me.
2006-11-08 04:28:29 · update #1
hey i answered one of ur questions before, u gave me best answer, the question got deleted or something but anyway,about ur problem I feel the same way about being around any cute hot girl, u just got to take a deep breath and and say hi, that's the only way ur going to get things started. remember also a lot of white guys are attracted to black girls, just like me and i like u worry, that they might not want me because I'm not black, the only way u can find out is to be brave and talk to them. you got nothing to loose and everything to gain, good luck all the best, love and kisses x
2006-11-08 09:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter whether you are purple, you have a beating heart, an intelligent brain,and the same colour blood as we all have running through our veins. You were conceived and born the same way as most of us were. I have seen hot white guys and I have seen hot black guys. I have seen hot chinese guys. To me though, someone is hot, not only because of the way they look, but also their personality. If they are genuine and caring and treat you well then looking good is a bonus. Hot white guys are no different than hot black guys...the only difference is the colour of their skins, so why be nervous. You are any white girls and/or white guys equal. You werent born a second rate citizen because you are black, so maybe if you didnt think that way then you wouldnt be so nervous. They are just regular people, some are a**holes, some arent, the same as any colour, colour doesnt determine what kind of person they would be. If a guy treats you well, if he treats you like the deserving person that you really are, then colour shouldnt come into it. I hope you dont feint when a white guy kisses you because if you are pretty and he likes you, then he is going to worry and think hes done something wrong when you feint.....lol.
When two people meet, I believe there is a connection. You just know that you both like each other and probably neither see colour, they just see the person. It will happen with you, white, black, yellow, orange....its always the person....remember that.
2006-11-08 04:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hi i get nervous around hott white boys too ! And i saw ur pic ur a really hott and pretty blk girl. I bet when u go somewhere their like "Damn , she fine " . Their the ones that get scared and may think "shes too good for me, shes just gonna reject me ". Dont be nervous and what ever happens happens. xoxox.
2006-11-08 04:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by ~::~Ariana~::~ 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Hey there are alot of hot white guys that would love to hook up with a hot black girl. Don't be shy about it or you will lose out. Get out there and do your thing
2006-11-08 04:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't assume men know what your thinking when you see them, because they have no idea. And second, lots of white guys are into black girls. I know I am. I've only been with two black women and I want more. Just approach them with confidence, move calmly into their midst. You have nothing to lose.
2006-11-08 04:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
dont difficulty approximately it. basically placed on gloves or something. some ladies might bypass out with you yet some wont. its particularly on how the ladies is. some ladies basically bypass out with boys because of the fact hes sturdy finding. those ladies are the guy who're the single you need to avert liking.
2016-10-15 12:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not mention your age, but anyway, smile and say hello and start a conversation.........this is dating 101, which you must learn to do no matter what color the person is.
2006-11-08 04:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r probalby nervous about what other people will think of u if u actually dated one. my suggestion would be to make small conversation with, u never know what might happen. ;-)
2006-11-08 04:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Jungle fever is normal......its the forbidden fruit. Dating outside you own race can be very rewarding........I gave up on white chicks years ago and only enjoy the exotic flavors of the world. I enjoy it and you should too.......Grab a white boy and lay one on him, if he is cool you will both enjoy it.
2006-11-08 04:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by scottbrink2002 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
guys are guys black or white just be yourself
2006-11-08 04:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋