I'm taken him out to eat and making him a cake. I dont know what gift to buy him becasue his sons mother {LISA} always have to go and get him something for his birhtday and all the other hoildays. So i feel like i dont need to buy if this ***** go buy **** i feel like my gifes need to top hers and he says that that's not important to him but to me it is because this ***** is always some ****** where int he middle and i dont like her *** and he knows as well as she do. I know shes the baby mother but dam ***** know your place move the **** on............LISA HENDRICKSON.........................
2006-11-08 04:27:17 · 4 answers · asked by lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK well that was barely coherent, but I think you should stop worrying about beating his ex-girlfriend in the gift department. It makes you look petty and he will get tired of that fast. As for an acutal gift, get something he will like and don't go broke doing it.
2006-11-08 04:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Minuet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you get him something that you think will mean the most to him and not worry about what she gets him. I would also suggest that you deal with your issues about his relationship with his son's wife before it eats you up and you become resentful of him for it. If they are friends, I would see that as a positive thing about your boyfriend, but she does need to respect his relationship with you and limit her interaction with him. I wish my ex was logical and responsible enough as a father and person for that matter, for us to still be friends where we still exchanged gifts and didn't argue so much.....count it as a blessing for your boyfriend, his child, and even you even though you may not realize it, my husband with me has to deal with the negative affects of my ex's parenting and ability to communicate with me.
2006-11-08 12:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by Laney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry hun but you need to grow up a lil, putting her name on here fro every one to see, but on the gift thing, i do understand that, it would upset me as well but need to not worry bout it, really as a guy myself it would not mean a damn thing how much money she spent on me to how much you did, give him something he will remember forget, a night of hot pasionate sex, soemthing a lil romantic but not to much it is for a guy, and i'm sure during your time together he must have said something that you do for him that his ex never did or somthing he really would like to do or awayz wanted to do and never had it done (excluding threesomes cuz that is not a good thing to do if you love him) or even somthign like tickets to a sports event, or even just really show him how much you care for him and not care bout what she gets him
2006-11-08 12:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice to his mother, that will make him happy.
It will also give your mother in law something to wonder about.
Call her up and ask her in your sweetest voice what she thinks.
Invite her over for his birthday and enjoy the day.
He is not going to divorce his mother.
You really need to try to work things out.
buy hm something he really needs or wants.
It does not matter how much she spends.
Giving him nothing just makes you look stupid.
2006-11-08 12:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋