2006-11-08 04:34:55 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they're hiding from the whacky women? You can find them if you know where to look. I hear Kevin Federline is soon-to-be single...
2006-11-08 04:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with those that say that it depends on what you define as a "good man."
Speaking in the generalist terms I can, we are out there, we're just not as obvious as the "bad boys" that a lot of girls seem to focus their attention on for a number of years. Romance is not as dead as women think, they just haven't found the romantic man for them yet.
Personally, I'm a hopeless romantic, and I was looking for several years for a lady that I could let myself grow close to and give my heart to. It was finally when I quit looking that I found my girlfriend. I had been looking too hard.
So what's my advice to you? Quit looking. A "good man" will find you doing what you do everyday.
2006-11-08 05:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by tigeracts03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is, why is a good woman so hard to find?
The truth is, it is all about what you are looking for. Women who constantly complain about trouble finding a "good man" are looking for something that they can't find in a "good man".
Keep looking and widen your horizons a bit. We are out there.
2006-11-08 04:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by EchoCharlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not difficult to find at all, however just because you meet a "good man" doesn't mean you'll be romantically attracted to him and that's the key...
Great men and great women are everywhere, but it takes more than that (for most of us) to find them romantically appealing...without some kind of spark or chemistry, they are typically only friend material...
2006-11-08 04:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that they are hard to find but we as women (a large percent of us ) look for a good man in the wrong ones and you have to understand that men mentally mature a lot slower than women so you will probly find more appealing and mature men when they are in their 30s or 40s But they are out their.
2006-11-08 04:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by MIZ MO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll give you a couple of things to think about. 1. Don't make your demands so high that they are unattainable. 2. Make sure your looking in the right place and that you are what someone else is looking for. Because if you are not desirable to anyone why should anyone be interested in you.
2006-11-08 04:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by dsroliver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im here and the more of a good guy that I try to be the worse it is on me. I dont know why there are not more of us but, I think that I am getting the idea. Im nice and I get fu$ked over. Whats up with that?
2006-11-08 04:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by Saints friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...I asked my mom that just back of this. She laughed, shook her head and said "Nowadays?..You do KNOW your father and step- father don't you? And you do remember all the stories about how your grand father was a womanizing bstrd..and how your great-grand-father,God rest his soul, was a wonderful and kind man who just happened to also love his liquor and his gambling!" What could i say... nothing! Good Luck and keep looking!
2006-11-08 04:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try looking in a place that you would never normally look. think of what kinda of guy you are looking for and then go where they would be. There are still good guys out there, but it takes patience to get them. Keep strong and you will find what your looking for.
2006-11-08 04:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by luckypenny5295 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you definition of a good man. Most are good guys you just don't see that if you are just looking at their looks first. Before you talk to them.
2006-11-08 04:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by Cecilia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because good men are the exception to the rule and women snap them up in a hurry!
2006-11-08 04:37:11 · answer #11 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋