Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

I will try to make a long story short. Last month, I found out (by accident, i wasnt snooping) my husband sent a porographic e-card to a woman he dated off and on for 20 years before we married. He said he sent it as a joke, he hasnt seen or talked to her in 3 years. Well, since then I have been snooping. On a day he was suppose to be seeing a client, I think he saw her instead. I found her number on the cell phone bill on that day. I dont know if he met for lunch, sex or what. I do know that she is loyal to their "friendship" and calling her would do no good. She would protect him. What should I do? Should I ask him why the calls, did he meet her for lunch? or should I stay quiet and wait? I have no absolute proof that he is cheating but I do have proof that something inappropriate is going on.

2006-11-08 05:17:52 · 13 answers · asked by yensenm 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy i reaally like but i dont know how to ask him out.

2006-11-08 05:17:31 · 9 answers · asked by Robyn B 1 in Singles & Dating

Dont you love it when they dont want you yet they dont want you to be with anyone else? I especially looove it when you finally are getting over them and all of a sudden they show up saying"I dont want you to hate me"...maybe they should think about that before jerking us around, eh?

2006-11-08 05:17:04 · 8 answers · asked by ~LAX Mom~ 5 in Singles & Dating

like can u be 14
or like 15 or maybe
even 16

2006-11-08 05:16:33 · 9 answers · asked by mckayla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend to whom I am getting married next week likes men with clean shaved head.Though she loves me with hair and has never asked me to get my head shaved,I want to get my head shaved and keep it shaved for her.When and how should I get my head shaved?On the wedding day / few days after wedding or should I not shave my head until she asks me to do so? and why?

2006-11-08 05:16:16 · 33 answers · asked by ashish b 1 in Weddings

To have woman that say i'ts gross and wrong suddenly shocked when she finds herself in my bed and were pulling eachothers panties off and she's all pleased about it or men that say gay men should be shot suddenly in a threesome with me turned on and doing what they said they would never do in a million years... Is it wrong to unleash this in someone when I see the hidden desire is really there and it's just fear talking??? I have seen this over and over again with people that are very homophobic and are dead set against it, really just afraid, I don't feel bad about it but just wondering if I should stop doing it and if it's really healthy to show them what is really there that they just don't see......

2006-11-08 05:15:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’m going on a date but I’m having a hard time to find a sexy out fit to ware.

2006-11-08 05:15:58 · 10 answers · asked by candygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

One married woman told me that it is better for a guy to wait for a woman to ask for it because thats the time that she is really ready or hot to do it. Is that true? Or is it preferable? Or if that's the case how often would a woman ask for it. Especially i'm asking married women how many times in a day or a week do you ask your husband for sex if ever they don't initiate it. Please women help me by answering this im really curious and also this will also help me dealing with my future wife. Thanks.

2006-11-08 05:15:56 · 4 answers · asked by arnold g 1 in Singles & Dating

earlier i have a girlfriend and this relation holds good for last 4 years then suddenly her family came to know about our relationship ,then she started avoiding me and lastly we broke off.but now i am in eng. 3rd year and she is trying to retun to me , as i came to know from her attitude and friends.so what can i do so that i can make her realize that she has done a mistake,but i dont want to hurt her bcoz i still loves her.

2006-11-08 05:14:19 · 6 answers · asked by john k 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 05:14:04 · 12 answers · asked by carle j 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy mike i have been in love with ever since i met him when i was 12 years old &he was turning 17. I haven't forgotten about him &he hasn't left my mind what so ever. i'm turning 18 & he just turned 22, the last time i saw him was last weekend. He leaves next monday 2 go on basic training 4the military 4 20 wks. & then another course for 4 mnths. so i wont c him 4 a long time. My ex Fernando, hes also 22, & i met him 3 years ago at a party. we only started talkinagain like a month b4we got 2gether. I do still really like him ,& he told me he loved me and i do love him, but not as much as i think of mike. Fern and mike r best friends, &when mike found out i was with fern, he freaked!! Mike told me last weekend that he loved me, but would be 2 hard 2 get 2gether now. but there is also another guy Chico, who i slept with last wekeend when they were down(the3OfThemRBestFriends) and he really likes me and treats me like gold. Who should i go for and what do i do?!

2006-11-08 05:14:03 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole B 1 in Singles & Dating

What should i think?!

2006-11-08 05:13:57 · 14 answers · asked by katie 1 in Singles & Dating

I just always feel so disrespected. They don't get any but I just end up being alone because that's all they want. You can tell that they're not even listening when your're talking to them and have NO interest in finding out who I am. AND I dress really demurely. Can you imagine if I dresses slutty? yikes... what's wrong with these guys?

2006-11-08 05:13:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 05:13:01 · 11 answers · asked by girl24gr 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Thoughts?

2006-11-08 05:11:59 · 12 answers · asked by that guy 2 in Singles & Dating

My boy friend, lives in another city, has been calling his co-worker for about two months now, everynight, and the thing that bothers me, they talk like about 1 hour or so, sometimes less.

He insisted there is nothing going on between them, they just talk, and be friend.

Am I too jealous?

When we talk, it never lasts that long.

How to solve this?

2006-11-08 05:11:27 · 6 answers · asked by nini_priscilla 1 in Singles & Dating

I have noticed lately a lot of young women show the top of the butt crack when they bend over. I love women I love the female form, but I think this is kinda not very attractive..Am I just too prudish?

2006-11-08 05:10:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I called off my wedding about 4 months ago..as my ex-fiance was being verbally abusive along with his parents. However, before things were bad..we use to have the best of times. I told him not to call me coz everytime i spoke to him, i would feel mentally sick and remember all the past horrible stuff. When I talk to him, i feel good but after that i dont stop thinking about him. I realized I had to stop talking to him to get over this breakup, however every now and then i feel like talking to him. What makes it worse is that he is in India and I'm in the US. I dont know if long distance friendships work..My long distance relationship didnt work obviously. Is there a certain time gap you shoudl give before you can become friends again. What should I do?

2006-11-08 05:10:29 · 2 answers · asked by LostHeart 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is a dude that wants to go out with my mom. He is a really nice dude. Really cool he takes me and my little brother along with my mom to the movies every Friday. But my sister is jealous because he tells my mom is you get married to me I'll buy you a house, treat you like a queen and you'll have everything with me. So my mom told my sister and everytime he comes over and she's there she just stares at him deep. Not only that but my sister is already married. My mom met this guy thru my sister and her husband. Not the sister I'm talking about. But the other day he was at my sisters house the one who introduced my mom to him and my other sister happened to be there. Well she told my mom that that dude just kept staring at here. He told my mom that he was outside with my sister husband drinking and she just came over there all tyring to be all on him. The other day he came over to our house and was drinking with my mom. Well again my sister showed up and just kept asking him all him

2006-11-08 05:09:53 · 3 answers · asked by ReyMysterio'swife 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 05:09:31 · 12 answers · asked by LESLIE 1 in Singles & Dating

My Friend is having Family problems...BIG family problems....I want to support her as much as i can but i dont want to make anything worse...im talkin 6 year friendship...i dont want it to be ruined cuz of something i said...but im afraid she wont like me anymore if i dont say somethin to comfort her....wat should i do?

2006-11-08 05:09:07 · 9 answers · asked by SoCcEr ChIcKa13 2 in Friends

Should there be gifts involved again?

2006-11-08 05:07:50 · 10 answers · asked by Tinkz 1 in Weddings

Ok, here's the deal. Met a guy 4 years ago, moved from Texas to Michigan to be with him and we eventually became engaged. I was lucky enough to be transferred with my job, he was unemployed but looking. After the strain of being in a relationship I felt was a one-sided effort (financially speaking), we split and he moved back home with his parents. I moved into a smaller apartment and have continued to live here, but last month I lost my job. He and I have continued to date, and we are very close....I do love him, but I feel he uses being sick (he's diabetic) as a mean of getting out of looking for work. The job market here is scarce, and with my finances draining I am faced with having to possibly move back to Texas. Part of me wants to stay, but his attitude is like, "if your gonna go, not much I can do". I feel if he deep down loved me, he would do everything, including getting a job. Should I go home and chalk this up to a bad experience or stick it out?

2006-11-08 05:07:41 · 18 answers · asked by kimber 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 22yr old guy and i have this fantasy of getting tied up and tickled by a girl...i kind of feel embarrassed to go and ask people to tickle me as they might think that i have gone crazy..is there a place where i can pay few dollars to get tickled and satisfy my desire.is it safe to visits dungeons ?>.

2006-11-08 05:07:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on/off relationship:i was doing the dumping bc he was moody/careless sometimes(talked about how hot other girls were).he sed he did it bc it seemed like i didn't care n he liked when girls get jealous bc it shows that they care.sometimes(when i dump him and ask to get back together) he says he wants to be good friends and other times(when i'm moving on)he looks @ me all starry-eyed and asks me if i want a relationship.this happened about 3 times since he last dumped me.we're in college but that really has nothing to do with it,except i really love him which is why i keep sticking with him,but i get the feeling that i'm just temporary,like something to keep him company while he browses around.used to be serious but i dumped him for 5months n now he's less serious. dumped him last night bc i caught him checking out another girl,and this morning he said that he didn't want a relationship.some girl told him that he should come hang out at this spot that he normally hates and he said yes

2006-11-08 05:07:18 · 10 answers · asked by samoa s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 05:06:17 · 11 answers · asked by jor 1 in Singles & Dating

Could you forgive him if HE was the one that openly told you, although you had NO CLUE he did it ?

Getting caught is 1 thing......What if he felt Soooooooo bad that he just blurts it out because its killing him. And remember, you had NO IDEA he did anything wrong AT ALL !!!

What say you ?

2006-11-08 05:06:17 · 55 answers · asked by Falling to pieces 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So I picked a girl at a bar and we went for a ride. The next day we met up again and she started talking about hooking up(become a couple). So we were going to the mall and I dropped her off in front of it, told her I was gonna go park, and then stepped on it and left her there. Sleazy has no time for relationships. Was I wrong to do her like that?

2006-11-08 05:06:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 05:05:27 · 6 answers · asked by Linda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-08 05:05:26 · 30 answers · asked by ***Mallie*** 2 in Marriage & Divorce