I called off my wedding about 4 months ago..as my ex-fiance was being verbally abusive along with his parents. However, before things were bad..we use to have the best of times. I told him not to call me coz everytime i spoke to him, i would feel mentally sick and remember all the past horrible stuff. When I talk to him, i feel good but after that i dont stop thinking about him. I realized I had to stop talking to him to get over this breakup, however every now and then i feel like talking to him. What makes it worse is that he is in India and I'm in the US. I dont know if long distance friendships work..My long distance relationship didnt work obviously. Is there a certain time gap you shoudl give before you can become friends again. What should I do?
2006-11-08 05:10:29 · 2 answers · asked by LostHeart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You made the right dicision. Anyone that is abusive to you before marriage, will be more abusive to you after marriage. Just let go and move on. Courage!
2006-11-08 05:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Njihem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no no no. For the love of Pete, move on with your life. There's a reason time heals all wounds: we're stupid. Learn from that mentally sick feeling. Find a new man.
2006-11-08 05:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋