My Friend is having Family problems...BIG family problems....I want to support her as much as i can but i dont want to make anything worse...im talkin 6 year friendship...i dont want it to be ruined cuz of something i said...but im afraid she wont like me anymore if i dont say somethin to comfort her....wat should i do?
2006-11-08 05:09:07 · 9 answers · asked by SoCcEr ChIcKa13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just let her know that youare there for her no matter what and that you will do anything for her. Just call her up and ask her if she wants to talk. If she says no, then see if she just wants to hang out. Being with people when you are going thru a rough time can really help someone...even if they don't want to talk about it.
2006-11-08 05:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing u can do is just be therre 4 her. these problems r probably bigger than u so just ask her to spend the night or go shoping keep her away from the problems. she needs a friend rite now but she may not want to feel like u pity her. however if shes hurting herself or being hurt u NEED to get her help talk to a teacher at school or an adult u trust, she amy be upset that u told, but itll be better for her to get help than keep being hurt. even if shes mad for a while its better than losing her forever.
2006-11-08 05:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by saying, "sorry you're having a rough time at home, anything I can do to help?" Then just let her talk. A lot of times that's all she'll need. If there is something specific you can do, it will give her an opportunity to let you know.
2006-11-08 05:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should at least try to talk to her, she might want to hear what you have to say, or she might need to be listened to, don't be so hard on your self take a chance and talk to her and tell her how you feel about about giving her advise,she'll understand if she's been your friend for 6 years she'll understand. Just talk to her don't forget you've been friends for along time. Good luck.
2006-11-08 05:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by babyvictorialee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you are there for her if she ever wants/needs anyone to talk to. Don't push her into talking about current problems. If and when she is ready to share with you be an ear for her. Please do not be judgemental and try to remain open minded.
2006-11-08 05:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you are there for her and you are not going anywhere. Let her know that your door is always open if she needs somewhere to stay for the night.
2006-11-08 05:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by acoats2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen and choose your words with caution i know what you are saying because what you say can come back on you for many reason's just be her friend and be there you dont really have to say anything .
2006-11-08 05:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you are there for her when she needs you and when she is ready to talk then she'll talk.
2006-11-08 05:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by JenniB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just help in teh most non clashing way you can!
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2006-11-08 05:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋