My girlfriend to whom I am getting married next week likes men with clean shaved head.Though she loves me with hair and has never asked me to get my head shaved,I want to get my head shaved and keep it shaved for her.When and how should I get my head shaved?On the wedding day / few days after wedding or should I not shave my head until she asks me to do so? and why?
2006-11-08 05:16:16 · 33 answers · asked by ashish b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
ARE YOU GOING TO MARRIAGE OR HARIDWAR. I COULD NOT UNDERSTAND THE LIKING OF YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR SHE IS MAKING JOKE WITH YOU.
2006-11-12 01:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely wouldnt do it right before the wedding. She may change her mind. You may not like it. Just remember the pictures will around a lot longer than a bad hair cut. If you are going to do it. I would do it way ahead of the wedding to see if she likes it. That way, if she doesnt like it, you will have time to let it grow out. Or, just wait until after the wedding.
I used to say that I like clean shaved heads too, but my husband (still my boyfriend at the time) shaved his head all the way down one time and I thought he looked mean and like a totally different guy than the one I fell in love with. Now, he shaves with the shortest gaurd and it looks perfect. Just enough hair to not be Mr Clean.
2006-11-13 09:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by southernbellalg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't shave it as a surprise and show up at the church like that. She may absolutely love it, but on the other hand, she might burst into tears.
I think the best thing would be to ask her if she'd like you to do it before or after, or just do it a few days later.
This may sound weird, but some guys look great with shaved heads, but some guys heads are all... funny and bumpy and their hair hides that. And you won't know till after you cut your hair off. You don't wanna be one of those second group guys in your wedding pics.
2006-11-08 07:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Queen Queso 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here's the deal. She'll either love it or hate it, and the biggest day of her life might not be the best time to surprise her with it. First, you might detract from how gorgeous she looks (wow - you're bald!) and you definitely don't want that. I know it's your day too, but come on, let's face it, weddings are REALLY for the women. Second, if you think she would love it, ask her best friend! She will be able to tell you REALLY what your bride will think, plus, she might give your bride a head's up so that she won't be SO surprised. Good luck!
2006-11-08 07:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by lil miss blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes I think it is okay if that is what you want to do but I can image people thinking some of it. If you are okay with perhaps people looking at you funny (I don't mean that to sound awful but it's not everyday you see a girl bald just because she wanted to) then go for it. I also wouldn't be surprised if some people thought you either have cancer or perhaps gone a bit mad lol. It's not that I am against girls shaving their hair or anything but in this world and seeing people like Britney Spears go a bit nuts and shave her hair off people might think something but if you don't care then yes you go for it girl! :)
2016-05-21 22:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiancee sounds like she would love you with hair or not, so think about what you would like with your head shaved, if you think you would look good, then have it shaved the day of the wedding. Best of luck to you both....
2006-11-13 11:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am bald by choice and recommend you do it a few days before if you shave it the day of the wedding it can be a little sensitve and my be red from irritation a "look" that may not be great for photos
2006-11-13 04:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by Blane S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a bride to be and trust me when I say that huge surprises are not a good thing to do on your wedding day(unless its the romantic kind). She needs to know that everything goes off without a hitch and with no surprises. If you do want to get your head shaved, talk to her about it first then do it for the honeymoon when she is relaxed and receptive.
2006-11-08 05:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You needed to shave your head before now to allow time to grow hair back before the wedding. You may look like a doofus.
It's you're call.
2006-11-08 05:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by weddrev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay well I wouldn't do anything drastic before your wedding day, you may hate it. I would wait til after the wedding, are you going on a honeymoon??? I would do it before the honeymoon so if you hate it, at least your out of town anyway.... and if you love than great when you get back everyone will freak at your new style.... but don't do anything drastic before the wedding, I don't think she would want that.
2006-11-08 05:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As the bridegroom in this upcoming wedding, I think it would be in your best interest to discuss the issue with your bride...you definitely don't want to upstage her at the wedding unless she agrees because the wedding is not meant to be an upstaging of one or the other partner, but rather a celebration of your union. Everyone always looks at the bride at this time because she is so beautiful. Keeping that in mind, please talk to her first before you make any rash decisions. Prayers =)
2006-11-08 05:20:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋