there is this guy mike i have been in love with ever since i met him when i was 12 years old &he was turning 17. I haven't forgotten about him &he hasn't left my mind what so ever. i'm turning 18 & he just turned 22, the last time i saw him was last weekend. He leaves next monday 2 go on basic training 4the military 4 20 wks. & then another course for 4 mnths. so i wont c him 4 a long time. My ex Fernando, hes also 22, & i met him 3 years ago at a party. we only started talkinagain like a month b4we got 2gether. I do still really like him ,& he told me he loved me and i do love him, but not as much as i think of mike. Fern and mike r best friends, &when mike found out i was with fern, he freaked!! Mike told me last weekend that he loved me, but would be 2 hard 2 get 2gether now. but there is also another guy Chico, who i slept with last wekeend when they were down(the3OfThemRBestFriends) and he really likes me and treats me like gold. Who should i go for and what do i do?!
2006-11-08 05:14:03 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First learn to have some respect for yourself, and stop letting men use you as just a sex toy. These guys obviously consider you as easy sex toy.
2006-11-08 05:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Njihem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow ur heart just take into consideration long distance relationships are hard but if tis love itll work, dont destroy their friendship to get what u want and chico probably treats u like gold cuz he wants u in bed again. if i were u id go 4 mike he seems like the most decent of the guys just be careful not to get ur heart broken
2006-11-08 05:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!!! I think you should stop playing around with all the group of friends. If you like Mike then why did you date Fernando and why did you sleep with Chico?
i think you should go single until you find someone that is not in this group
2006-11-08 05:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by marialejandra c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my point of view you are basically being an insecure tease that, rather then making a decision, decides to have it all her way and be involved with all three friends. if you don't knock it off you're going to destroy their friendship. so knock it off and move on. Bros before Hoes remember that
2006-11-08 05:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are gonna ruin those three guy's friendship if you don't get your head on straight. Why don't you take a break from all three for a bit to clear your head.
2006-11-08 05:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Starwyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop...you need to get yourself under control! At the pace you are going, you will have three babies daddies that are all best friends.
2006-11-08 05:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Old Mad One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to be a military wife of gf?? fernando because you don't know how "chico" really treats you yet...
2006-11-08 05:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about getting out of the best friend circle. you're gonna hurt them all in the end and if you truly care about them then you should just leave them all alone.
2006-11-08 05:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u screwed urself up. go for mike. if he doesn want u then jus be single.
2006-11-08 05:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by wallybelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lordy girl you are bangin everyone and they are laughing there *** off.
2006-11-08 10:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋