ok so i like guys im most certain that i do but there is this gurl who shall remain nameless and when i see her i dont know i get all nervuos and whats weird is that she looks like a guy but a reely attractive guy what do i do?
2006-11-08 03:56:57 · 20 answers · asked by Catch a falling star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you know how normal it is for a girl to be attracted to another girl now and then? It's also normal for girls to act on it, fool around a little (or a lot) with her. And it's freakin' erotic too. It's ok for girls to be with another girl once in a while. It's pretty much accepted as normal. Go with it, enjoy it. It doesn't mean you're gay, it means you aren't afraid of sexuality, to explore, have fun and enjoy yourself. And give details, damn that's a hot thought.
2006-11-08 04:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Insanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so looks liek you are at a stage where you are experimenting with your emotions. You are in puberty ( I presume). This is very normal for young kids such as you and myslef you feel weird around her. Attraction can develop it is normal for certain people to be attracted to the same sex. Think about what would you like form that person? Would you like her to know how you feel? would you like to experiment and see how it feels? Or maybe prefer just liking guys for now and see if you really are bi or lesbian.
some options are:
Tell her or tell a trusted adult that isn't biased (that way if they are against gays they might persuade you to not follow these feelings and if they are gay they might want you to follow these emotions whereas a unbiased person can give you a general point of view)
or
dont tell her and avoid her if you are think you are not ready to express these feelings
or
Also if you want get to know her maybe you arent attracted to her maybe you just have a thing when you see her you never know!
maybe the best thing is to get to know her and to see how you feel about her and if you want to proceed further make sure she is into that and tell her how you feel if no feeling develop stay as friends!
2006-11-08 04:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by ██████████ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing she has already made her choice from the description.
She is prolly putting out a feeler to see if you would think about it.
She prolly likes you.
In my experience with gay guys. They take it well if you don't respond in that way.
And if you do or you don't. Well you'll know where you are at.
All up to you.
I beleive in trying something before I knock it.
I tried it... didn't get very far. I know where I stand. That is a very comfortable feeling. I don't hate gays either, some are very nice blokes many are still friends.
I chalked it up to a good experience that taught me a lot.
Not a popular viewpoint. But I know me.
2006-11-08 04:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has thought about traveling to the other side at on thime or another. Test it out. Being with one girl does not mean you are gay, it means you are trying to discover another part of yourself. You can still like guys.
2006-11-08 04:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol...omg. That happened to me once. This girl looked just like a boy...a hott skater boy with blonde hair and sexy blue eyes and yeah u can get attracted to her. I don't think it makes you gay it's just that she looks like a very hott boy and maybe you should talk to her to see if she likes you or something. Damn, why do some girls have to look like hott boys...not fair...lol but yeah just talk to her and I think you might like her. Maybe hook up with her to see what it's like. If you're not too scared about it. I'm straight...if you need more help with this...email me or something.
2006-11-08 04:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop being afraid of these feelings and try to talk to her, theres nothing wrong with being curious about your sexuality and maybe you have feelings you just don't want to admit to because your scared that it's wrong.... Well it's not and don't listen to homophobic people who are close minded....
2006-11-08 04:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try and get to know her and become friends. Then you can get over the nervous feeling. Good luck!
2006-11-08 04:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like guys don worry....but you get nervous around this girl because you are attracted to guys that look like her....that just means that since you are attracted to certain guys and she reminds you of one of those guys you get nervous and subconcusly want to impress her....don't worry your fine...its just that outta instinct you try to impress that criteria of a person =]
2006-11-08 04:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by iiiloveemichael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's too strange, maybe you have some unaddressed feelings? Could be that she really seems like a guy to you?
2006-11-08 04:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by woohoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are attracted to her does not mean you should acto out on it, it's normal to be attracted to opposite sex we are human
2006-11-08 04:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by jkfranklin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋